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My boyfriend told this girl that i hate that one of her friends is hott and hes denying it but i know he said it cause he always says stuff like that what shold i say or do help!!
from Jess

dont worry about it.. you dont think other guys are hot? havnt you told your friends if a guy was hot? hes just saying shes goodlooking it doesnt mean he loves her and wants to go out with her.. just let it go

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ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy

haha im in 8th grade and i went out with a 7th grade guy.. it was fun.. he was shorter than me too and it was ok.. its not weird at all if you like him go out with him!

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I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?

you simply say no i dont want to have sex.. if he really loves you he will accept that, and if he makes you do it again leave, and break up with him.. you cant let this guy pressure you into doing things you dont want to.. he doesnt love you

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My friend is excited about turning 13 but she doesn't have anywhere to have a party. She's jealous because everyone loved my 13th birthday party. I'd let her use my basement but then her party would be exaclty like mine and it would'nt feel right. Is that selfish? Besides, I don't know if mom and dad would let me have another party since the last one got a little one of hand. So where else could she have her party? I need ideas to suggest to her! She's my BFF! I can't let her down!

ask your friends if they can have a surprise birthday party for her at their house.. i dont have anywhere to have a party and my friends threw a surprise party for me.. hope it helps

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I think I love this guy but I really don't know anymore. I'm confused. I just moved a little while ago and we never see eachother. It seems like he likes other girls to me but I think it is just because I'm so far away and I barely ever get to see him. We live almost half an hour away and I'm scared to get hurt. I don't know what to do... We've been through a lot together and I know I love him but I feel like he's pushing me away. HELP! 14/F

you have to tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way.. if he does the distance between you two wont matter. if he doesnt love you, youll have to accept that and look around and be open to new relationships with other guys.. you dont love someone when your 14, just be free and experiment new things.. hope i helped

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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think?

oh yea its normal.. i was obsessed with orlando bloom.. i always read about him and looked at hundreds of pictures of him.. but its not normal when you get to an extent of stalking people and finding out what theyre doing every day and just basing your life around them

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You recently gave this answer in response to a question -
i think we shouldnt be worrying about the world ending soon.. it probably wont end until millions of years from now.. theres alot of crime and hate but theres also good things.. the US is helping countries all over the world and there are so many people out there helping our world.. i dont think theres anything wrong with being gay either.. God gave us a free will so that means people can be gay if they want to


I don't want to be mean, but I have two points -
The US? Helping? All they've done is kill!
And God is against gay people. The Bible says gay people go to hell. So much for free will eh.

i understand that weve been killing.. and im against president bush.. but we did save the iraqs from saddem.. were giving poor countries all over the world food and trying to help.. you probably dont know this because all you see on the news is people getting beheaded and wars.. i dont believe in God being against gay people.. i dont beleive every single thing in the Bible is true.. yes i believe in most of it but if God didnt want gay people to be gay then he wouldnt give us the free will to choose that

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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

i think we shouldnt be worrying about the world ending soon.. it probably wont end until millions of years from now.. theres alot of crime and hate but theres also good things.. the US is helping countries all over the world and there are so many people out there helping our world.. i dont think theres anything wrong with being gay either.. God gave us a free will so that means people can be gay if they want to

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Okay so im 15 f, and my parents are going to leave me and mybrother alone, he's 18, for a week this summer while they go on vacation. I want to have a party, but I know that if they find out, they'll never leave us alone again. So should I have one? What could I do so they don't find out?

i think its ok if you have a small one.. dont invite wild crazy people who drink or do drugs or would break something.. dont play loud music either or the neighbors will hear.. and if your sure any aunts cousins or grandparents arent gonna check on you while your parents are away.. i think youll be ok

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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?

well i am a christian and i have gone to a catholic school for 8 years of my life.. and yes you may call me brainwashed but i do believe in the christian faith.. yes i doubt it sometimes because its hard to believe in faith when you see good people dying and wars and things like that.. but think of it this way.. everything has its start and finish.. our world started but where did it start at? thats why i believe God did it becuase it had to start somewhere.. the world will have to have an end too because nothing will last forever.. and i have still had fun in my life time.. we all sin no matter what.. God helps us see his world.. he made it for us and he wants us to enjoy it through the good and the bad.. God gave us a freewill to believe what we want and to do what we want.. i dont wait for the world to end because i know when it does it will be millions and millions of years from now.. ive been raised to learn these things and i dont know how to think any other way, so yea i could be "brainwashed" but its what i believe.. and its ok that you dont.. i hope i answered your question

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I want a completely new closet full of clothes for high school - but I want to have clothes that aren't sold around here. Can someone give me unique websites that aren't in a lot of malls, or in stores at all. Price really doesn't matter, so cheap and expensive sites are fine! I want something with a funky, yet classic style- basically anything.

Please don't suggest Ebay, Alloy, or Delias. Thanks!

you can try www.urbanoutfitters.com .. their clothes are pretty unique

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ok, well, this so called "friend-of-mine" is being rly well not herslef lately and we use to be bffaeae's until i realized that i dont need a friend like her and she was talking about me behind my back with another bff of mine but it looks like my so called friend doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i dont think i need her as a friend if shes gunna do that what should i do??!! PLEASE HELP

well if she said alot of stuff that hurt you and you dont need her.. well yea you dont need her... but if she really wants to be friends with you again you should give her another chance.. girls will be girls.. we talk about everybody.. theres no harm in giving her another try.. hope everything turns out ok :-)

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I have been going out with this girl for like 3 or 4 months and we haven't kissed not even like hug but i dont want to bring it up like... you know so can SOMEONE PLEASE HELP i love her and she loves me but im to afraid of asking her or some thing so help!! plz!

so you guys are a little shy theres nothing wrong with that... get together with all your friends and go to the movies or someones house.. if you see her sitting down go sit by her and start talking to her.. put your arm around her and if shes ok with it.. kiss her! .. also when you have to leave to go somewhere give her a hug.. hope everything turns out ok.. good luck!

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me and one of my best friends like the same guy but she dosent know that i like him and he asked me out and not her what sould i do say yes or no please help me i dont know what to do?

It depends on how you feel.. if you and your best friend's relationship is strong enough.. she will understand if you go out with him.. or if you know she would get angry with you.. is he worth it to ruin your relationship with your friend? you need to talk to her and find out.. hope everything turns out ok!

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my bf never talks 2 me at skool...i am his 1st gf ever...and he gets REALLY nervous around me!..wut do i do???...i like him a lot ...but he need s 2 talk 2 me 2!

loosen him up.. let him know he can be himself around you.. if he says something.. try making it into a conversation.. bring his self esteem up by telling him he looks good.. hope this helps

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13/m
I am going to a school dance on thursday (tomorrow). I don't know what to wear, however. It's a pretty casual thing. I also have no clue how to dance...some one please help! i rate high.

where khakis and a nice polo shirt with white shoes.. that always looks good on guys.. dont worry about the dancing.. guys usually dont dance.. if you want to know how to slow dance.. put your hands on the girls hips and just sway slowly from side to side.. just do what she does.. have fun :-)

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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do

i say dump him.. without trust there is no love (

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ughhh, ok, this girl likes meeeee and i like herrrrr, BUT, she has a boyfriend -.- and he's a grade lower than i am, she's 2 below me, and she's white...he's...black...so it's safe to say they've come from differen't worlds, differen't upbringings, different ways of thinking. All they've done is kiss, lol, nothing serious, they're not fuckin' or nothin, but mannnnn she likes him a lot i think. And i KNOW he likes her just as much, if not more, she's GORGEOUS, but...before she started dating him she had a HUGE crush on me, and she JUST now told me. -.- dammit. haha, and i just got dumped a week and 2 days ago...HARD 2, man, it sucked. Like...when i'm able to hang out with this girl, we get um..."close", hehe, but she feels SO guilty. Her bf doesn't give her that kind of attention...so she loves it when i'm affectionate. UGH, anywayyys, this girl and her bf have only been together a month, a week, and 2 days, yeah...i've been counting...haha it's going by SLOW, but that's not much time at ALL, practically NOTHING. so they don't really have much more than an "at school" relationship. I need her to see it's a dead end...what can i do to swing things in my favor??
:] thankssssss,
-Kyle

all you can do is try to please her in anyway you can.. tell her you love her.. do little sweet things for her, thats what girls love the most.. write a note, be there if shes going through something.. then all you can do is wait for her and her boyfriend to break up. sooner or later shell realize what a great guy you are and how much she likes you.. hope it all works out

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ok im planning a sweet 16 at a hotel..i was wondering how i can control the people who come in? i dont want people who arent invited or random teenagers who are hotel guests popping in. Any suggestions? 5's for anyone who isnt obnoxious

pass out invitations that say to bring the invitation to the party and have a guest list.. that way who doesnt have invitations cant get in but if they say they lost the invitation check the guest list

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Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.

wow you are one lucky girl.. i mean ive never felt like that but i wish i did.. he probably feels the same way about you.. he picked you out of all the other girls so he likes you more than any of them.. dont think that he could do better.. this guy is going out with you!

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