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she needs to dump his azz


Question Posted Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:26 am

ughhh, ok, this girl likes meeeee and i like herrrrr, BUT, she has a boyfriend -.- and he's a grade lower than i am, she's 2 below me, and she's white...he's...black...so it's safe to say they've come from differen't worlds, differen't upbringings, different ways of thinking. All they've done is kiss, lol, nothing serious, they're not fuckin' or nothin, but mannnnn she likes him a lot i think. And i KNOW he likes her just as much, if not more, she's GORGEOUS, but...before she started dating him she had a HUGE crush on me, and she JUST now told me. -.- dammit. haha, and i just got dumped a week and 2 days ago...HARD 2, man, it sucked. Like...when i'm able to hang out with this girl, we get um..."close", hehe, but she feels SO guilty. Her bf doesn't give her that kind of attention...so she loves it when i'm affectionate. UGH, anywayyys, this girl and her bf have only been together a month, a week, and 2 days, yeah...i've been counting...haha it's going by SLOW, but that's not much time at ALL, practically NOTHING. so they don't really have much more than an "at school" relationship. I need her to see it's a dead end...what can i do to swing things in my favor??
:] thankssssss,
-Kyle


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RambunctiousRel answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 12:00 pm:
first of all...i realize that u really like this girl but if you really liked her then you wouldn't be makin this into a race. Kissin her while she's still goin out with this other dude is wrong. Just leave it alone and see how it comes out. If its meant to happen then it will happen but if its not then its not. You wouldn't want her doin stuff like that if she was goin out with you. Give them some space.

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vchicka15 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 11:03 am:
all you can do is try to please her in anyway you can.. tell her you love her.. do little sweet things for her, thats what girls love the most.. write a note, be there if shes going through something.. then all you can do is wait for her and her boyfriend to break up. sooner or later shell realize what a great guy you are and how much she likes you.. hope it all works out

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Pinkymeowcat answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 10:31 am:
Obviously, if she really liked you, she would have dumped the other guy already. When she does, you'll be free to ask her out! Just wait and see how things work out, and I'm sure everythin will b ok.
The amazing ***PINKYMEOWCAT***

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Emo4Life answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:51 am:
Well first off you shouldn't be race in as a factor in why that shouldn't go it. If you really like this girl you have to let her go and see if she comes back, but doing things with her while she has a boyfriend is wrong. Let's say that eventually you two do go out, then how would you feel if she was doing that to you...Just let things be, if it is supposed to happen it will happen!!!

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