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Question with boldness even the existence of a God; because, if there be one, he must more approve of the homage of reason, than that of blind-folded fear.
-Thomas Jefferson

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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

I've noticed it happen a few times. Some guys think girls are subhuman, they think they are boss and girls should only be with one of them or something. They give each other high fives for every chick they 'score' with and expect these girls to be the humble house wife (or whatever) that only want to be with that guy... If they move on, they are called sluts because guys are jealous. That's what I've learned from the experiences I've seen with friends and family... =D

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my friends say i talk about this kid i like way too much, and now that i think about it i kinda do. what can i do to stop? i mean i like him so much i can't get my mind off him. what can i do?

How about writing about him instead of talking about him? :D

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ok so there is this guy and i kind of know him so i one time me and my friends were out and we saw him so we stopped to talk and we talked for a while and me and him just clicked. so i told my best friend.. BAD IDEA. so she was talking to him on instant messaging and his profile was I WANT THAT GIRL _ _ _ _ _ _ and my name fit! so she was like who is it? who is it? and he is so sick of her now.. but finally he was like ok its this girl named amanda from another school. that was about 2 months ago. today she instant messaged him and was being mean and they were talking and then she was like o sorry i forgot u love amanda and he was like why do u care? and she was like guess y and he goes one of your friends like me and she was like ?who and he goes (my name)? and she goes nope (so he wouldnt know) and then he wouldnt talk! o and hes always staring at me and smiling in class so my question is do you think he might like me and should i tell him i like him or anything like that? thanx

He might like you. I think you should tell him, at least you'll have it off your back. And if he doesn't like you back, remember: there's more than one guy out there. Good luck. :D

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP

I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

That stinks, too bad he's far away from you. I think you should keep going on with the relationship until meet another guy who you have feelings for, one who's closer to you. Good luck. :D

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there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???

I would go for the quiet, sweet one if I were you... Who would want a rude guy as a boyfriend? He might upset you and break your heart... That happened to me like two years ago. He also upset my friends...

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Any advice on how to get a guy, cuz I'm not terribly ugly, I'm really nice, and everything i do just doesn't seem to work. What the heck am i doing wrong?

You're not doing anything wrong. If a guy doesn't like you for who you really are, than that's his problem. If you think that maybe you're not expressing yourself, "the real you," than try being more outgoing. Just remember to stay yourself. Too many girls change for guys, and it's normally not for the better.

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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

Just take five minutes and relax, prepare for any outcome and stuff. Then ask the guy if he would like to go out with you. If you're scared, you can't face a problem, and if you don't face your problem, you might drown in it.

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well i have this teacher he is realy mean and yells at me when im not even talkin wat should i do

I think everyone has a problem like that. If he gets out of hand report him to the principal.

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okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?

Right, it's good that you care about her enough to try to help her. Maybe she'll understand if things get better.

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hey i wanna talk to this kid i like, and im pretty sure he already knows i like him, but i dont want to make it obvious if he doesnt, which im like 99% sure he does like i said but anyway i dont know how to start talking to him, i mean used to talk alot but now im scared to talk to him, i mean i dont know what to say, other then, "hey whats up" and crap.

Maybe you two can rant on something together. It's an easy way to get people to talk. Good luck.

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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky..

If you really care for her well being than maybe you should consider telling someone, like a doctor or a caring parent. It might mess up your friendship, but atleast she might get helped that way. Good luck.

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I use to love to read and get lost in it. now I jsut can't seem to becouse my mind keep wondering off, i can't seem stay fucus to read.. how i get my intress back?

Try reading a book on a topic you are really interested in... Search Amazon.com, I found some of my favorite books that way.

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my boyfriend which is 16 and i am 14 we love each other a lot and care about each other but 4 the past couple of days his sister hates me because i am not a virgin and she is trying to do everything she can to break us up and i dont know what to do!! can u plz help? i will rate!! i dont want to lose him i love him with al my heart.

If you and your guy care for each other, than don't let his sister interfer with your relationship. Your virginity is none of her business anyway. Talk to your guy about it and make sure you two are on the same page. Good luck. :D

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The last couple of weeks i've been noticing that I have been eating A LOT!! now i'm afraid i'm gonna gain a lot of weight. i eat when i get home from school up till dinner and no matter how hard i try, i can't stop!! does anyone have any suggestions? if u do please help!!

Try eating peppermints, I think that's what they're called, (those white and red candies) instead of those snacks after school. It helps me. Good luck. =D

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my friend who is in 5th grade is really bored and looking for a site to go on. can someone give me a fun site that's age appropriate? thanks!

http://neopets.com
http://dollwar.com

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My girlfriend and I have been going out for 9 months, and its the first time I've loved anyone. Yesterday we were talking about looks and why it does/doesn't matter in a realtionship. She told me she wasint that physically attracted to me but my personality was enough. I didn't know how to react, I just smiled. She basically told me I was ugly and I dont know what to do. It sucks because I love her so much and I feel so low right now. I dont know what to do/what to think/ etc.

-17/male

She might not have meant to make you feel ugly. Some people have 'types,' as how they want their boyfriend/girlfriend to look like. Types don't normally mean crap to good people though. Like I think guys with black hair are hot (yep, stupid), but my last boyfriend was blonde. Maybe you should talk to her about how she made you feel, she'll probably try to make you feel better about it. Looks aren't everything and it's great that you found a girl who likes you for who you really are. Good luck. =D

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hey, ok, well my room always seems to get EXTREMELY messy. i straigten it up, but then it just gets dirty right away. there's always clothes on the floor, desk cluttered, dishes everywhere, the works. so, this is a pretty general quesiton, so anything constructive i will rate 5's! so, plz give me some tips on how you keep your room decent!

I have the same problem! I just bought these white stacking bins and put them in the corner of my room. I put everything on the floor in them and it looks a lot better. I also have plastic thingys with wheels on them under my bed for clothes...

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Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work.

If he's 13, then he's still kind of young. As he gets older he should become more mature on his own. Talk to him about it if his foolishness starts going to your head. Good luck with your relationship!

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I'm sorry if this is kind of long but please, please answer back

[13/F] I like this girl named Jackie and i just can't stop thinking about her. But i feel like...im in love. I liked her for 2 years and she knows that I like her. I talk to her online a lot and my friends know that I like. She knows i wrote about 10 poems about her and that i have a deep obsession about her and even made a journal about my feeling all about her. All my friends tell me to talk to her and that my poems show my true feelings about her. But I'm too scared to talk to her and . I get scared and start to panic when i stand around her, I just really want to say hi to her...even talk to her at school. The hardest thing is that we don't have any classes together and online, i asked her if i could be her boyfriend and she said that how could i be her b/f if i can't talk to her at school.
I'm just so confused and its killing me inside that i can't talk to her and time is running out until she might find a boyfriend that can talk to her. I'm just so depressed without her...I just can't explain most of the situation already, because no one don't know how i feel because i can't put it in words. Please help me.

If you have lunch with her talk to her then. Try to find her in hallways and have small conversations with her. Maybe meet her at her locker before classes... A lot of girls love a guy who loves her, so since she knows about it, maybe she likes you too. Maybe you can ask her out on a date instead of going straight to boyfriend and girlfriend. Good luck. =D

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there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!!

Prepare yourself for any outcome before you write the note. I think you should be completely honest in the note, say what you feel and be blunt about it... Good luck...

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