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should i or shouldn't i
Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work.
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i know what you mean i've gone out with guys like that too and at one point i said something to them and started acting more mature adn after awhile i realized that hey i'm only 13 [14 now] and i'm just beginning my life....... i missed his silliness everyonce and awhile those cute immature jokes he said to me and the little notes he put in my locker i missed that and realized i just want to live my lief being a kid not trying to perfect the ones i love to become more mature so we can get married and have kids...............just have fun with your relationship and he'll become more mature when he feel sthe tiem is right untill then party mak emistakes get grounded have fun and live your life as a kid not a grown up...........lemme know how it all turns out
E> Hayley <3
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get together woith him, just you two.. then talk to him about it and tell him how you feel
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Well, you being thirteen, that guy better be at least your age or 14, but, guys this age are just immature, and nobody can really stop this, its just a guys way of there bodies and hormones working, but, if hes just randomly grabbing you in public or even alone, thats too much, you need to tell him to knock it off or this won't last, trust me, it feels like love right now, and it could be, but you have to think with the part of your mind thats without him.
-TheTeenGirl
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You have your whole life ahead of you . So many more guys to met and so many more friends to makel. Why forget about all that and move right past it . Those are the best years of our life! You are only 13 and you don't know half of what is in store for you !
Just have fun and don't worry about the future!!!!
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all guys at this age are immature. girls grow up faster than boys so there is nothing you can do until he grows out of this "stage" you should try talking to him and tell him how you feel. if he truly is a good bf he will understand and try to make things work out too. ~allie
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well at times everyone is a littel immature wether you notice it or not even you might be at one point or not it will probly fade away it probly just a faze so just don't worry aout it everyone is or was inmutter and i can even rember me being so imuter and it faded away so just wait and keep the loven don't be ready to give up that's not the worst thing he could do!!!
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Maybe letting him grow up would help? The two of you have just hit puberty for God's sake. Let the wild hormones calm before thinking about maturity. It's not going to happen till them anyway.
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You should let him know what bothers you and what immature things he does. Sometimes people don't even notice that they are being immature they just are, then someone reminds them later and they were like "Oh i was just being myself".
Hope everything works out
♥ Jessie
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my boyfriend is also the best thing thats ever happened to me and i know i want to marry him soon and have kids with him and well were both actually immature but cant make someone immaturity go away cuz thats who he is but can control it tell him not to do this or that but not in a controlling way u know?
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I wouldn't see him being more mature for a couple more years keep in mind he's only 13, 13 year old boys can be immature at times hence the reason why most 13 year old girls are going out with older boys.
Talk to him about it before all the immatureness starts going to your head and ruins your relationship.
♥Em
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If he's 13, then he's still kind of young. As he gets older he should become more mature on his own. Talk to him about it if his foolishness starts going to your head. Good luck with your relationship!
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Aye, don't plan anything out yet. Your both only 13 I'm assuming, so I wouldn't count on him maturing until he's a few years older. Do not plan anything out, because things will definitely change, especially at a young age...
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You can't expect this boy to give you a mature relationship because he is still a child himself. It's hard to have a mature relationship with a 20 year old! For now just have fun with each other, don't plan out you life with him.
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