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Hi im a 13 yr old female. My boyfriend is the best thing that ever could happen to me, i just feel like hes the one i want to marry and have children with i went out with him for 9 months one time then we broke up. But sometimes he can be so immature. What should i do to make his little immature foolishness go away to make this relationship work.

You have your whole life ahead of you . So many more guys to met and so many more friends to makel. Why forget about all that and move right past it . Those are the best years of our life! You are only 13 and you don't know half of what is in store for you !

Just have fun and don't worry about the future!!!!

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hey. okay i have some stretch marks on my boobs, and im very slef concious about them. none of m friends have them. my boobs arent even that big either! why did i get them, and what can i do to get them go away? i'm afraid to do anything sexual witha guy because im embarresed. i cant wear low shirts because of it. what can i do to maek this go away?

Stretch marks are completely normal. Everyone is bound to have them(even guys have them!). It is caused from your body growing faster then you skin is and it there for causes the skin to stretch and make marks.

Don't worry about guys. The last thing they think about is the marks on your chest that are hardly noticable to them . Guys don't notice things like girls do remember! They will just be amazed to be with you !!

If you really want to aim at making them less noticable try tanning and you can find lotions that reduce the apperance of stretch marks!


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pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz

OK first of all if your this nervous about having sex then you really need to wait until you know everything you can about it . The only way not to be nervous is to educate yourself about it .

Secondly , there is no 100% safe time to have sex . Sure the condom is a barrier but it is not 100% and you don't want to take the risk. You should use 2 types of birth control , such as the condom and the pill or the comdom and spermicide. Do not depend on your cycle to come through for you . Depending on finding a window in your cycle is very risky and not accurate because everyones body is different.

Be Smart about it , know your ready to have sex before-hand, and use a condom and b/c or spermicide when it comes to sex don't take a chance its not worth it !

Good luck ! : )

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ok, im 15/f and i think i like one of my really good guy friends. he flirts with me all the time in math or atleast it seems like he does..one of my really good friends cant believe i like him..what do i do cause i dont know if i can talk myself out of liking him like i do a lot. please help!!

Don't talk yourself out of anything . The best thing to do is just to bring it up to him . asually bring it up someday . Try asking him who he is interested in , or tell him that you love to hang out with him and you want to get to know him better. After you have hung out with him you might be able to tell more about how he feels and you can easily tell him how you feel.

If he isn't interested or starts actin wierd about talking to you or hanging out with you hen he really sin't worth your time.

Don't worry about what other people think about your situation becuase it is just that ! YOUR situation not theirs!

Good Luck Darlin'!

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