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Well, I haven't gotten my period yet and I'm in 8th grade, but my mom said she got hers when she was in like 5th grade! Is this normal? Because it's hereditary, right? But I still haven't gotten mine. How come I haven't gotten it yet?
Yes, it's hereditary. But don't forget there's your dad's side and his mom & there's your grandmas & all other older females in your family. Seriously, everyone's different, and it's completely normal. I started mine when I was 11, but my mom started hers when she was 17. :) It varies, and it's not abnormal, trust me.
Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?
No smartass comments!
Lol. No there isn't anything with loving one parent more then another. It just means that you probably spend more time with your Dad or he just treats you better then your mom.
Some people secretly have favorites, too. :]
So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?
Please,dont delete.
Im not sure,what to think.
He might've just felt embarassed. Some guys are shy like that. He might just feel like a dumbass because he flirted with you so much. I'm sure that he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't have been touching/kissing you so much. I think your best bet is to talk to him about it. Just reassure him that you're happy about what happened that night, and you want to know why he's acting weird.
HE is very popular. He's a bad boy who gets into fights all the time.
HE used to like me four years ago. Then I pissed him off really bad and he stopped talking to me.
HE stares at me all the time now.
What does this mean?
Well, maybe he likes you? I'm not really sure. He might just miss you a lot & yeahh, maybe you should start talking to him again? [;
Emo Bandss?
My Chemical Romance & The Used.
Im 12 && Female.
My boy friend is 13. Me and Him have been dating for 2 years. We've had the best relationship ever. He doesnt get Jealous easily, I dont either. We buy gifts all the time, and Hang out alot. We "study" together. We've only gone as far as making out.. But a few days ago on the phone, he said he wanted to go a step further, but I told him, Im too young && not ready for that. He told me, if i wanted to be with him any longer I'd do it. Then i hung the phone up on him. i dont want to do it. Im not going to, But i feel so empty inside, Its crazy. I never heard him talk to me like that. We havent talked for 2 days. I dont know if i should call him, Im scard to call.
I seriously respect you. Being 12 years old, I think it's awesome that you can stand up for yourself. You seem so mature for your age, you're so lucky to be able to say no to a boyfriend, because some girls can't do that! If he can't respect your decision, then there's no reason to be with him. Just let him finish the relationship. He'll realize that he's the biggest dumbass ever!! =]
okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.
I've never been fingered before, so I can't tell you from personal experience. But, from most of my friends, it varies. To some girls it hurts, to others it doesn't. It just depends on whether or not you use tampons & how tight you actually are. Try it out yourself, and see how many fingers you can actually fit in you until it hurts. Boys just don't understand, so when they finger you, they won't know when to stop putting fingers in unless you tell them :)
How do you get rid of the redness from a pimple quickly? Thanks, I'll rate.
Whenever I have a really noticable pimple, I keep an ice cube on the pimple for like 20 minutes. (Which will make the swelling go down.) & then, soak a cloth of milk and apply it to the skin where the pimple is for like 10 minutes! I wouldn't recommend using toothpaste, because it burns the skin!
OK so today i am wearing jeans and my new ugg boots (short, chestnut) should i tuck my jeans into the boots? or have the jeans cover the boots? thanks in advance
I think you should tuck them, it looks a lot cuter!! & Everyone does it.
Ok, I have acne on my back, and it's not really bad, but bad enough. and now im starting to get on or two pimples around my chest and on my neck. Does anybosy know a body scrub i can use for acne, adn then like a moisterizer to go wiht it? Thank you in advance!
YES!
Neutrogena Body SCRUB!! It's honestly the best stuff out there, and it worked like magic whenever I used it, it took away all my Back//Shoulder acne just in time for my prom. :) & For a moisturizer, I'd use Neutrogena Skin Smoothing Body Lotion!! :) You can get it @ CVS/Walgreens or Walmart!!
Okay, I have a friend, and like we are like brother and sister. But ppl keep telling me that he likes me and stuff, and i like sit on his lap and kiss him and crap, but i dont like him like that. What should I do to let him know that i'm sorry that i lead him on and stuff, but i don't want to be a couple?
Stop sitting on his lap & kissing him. That's what you need to stop doing first, because by doing this, he`s just going to automatically believe that you have the same feelings as him, which obviously isn`t true. He probably doesn't need an explanation after you stop doing that stuff. He`ll just think that you don`t like him anymore.
I'm not overweight, but I have a gut forming since I quit my recent sport. Is that old saying " I eat when I`m hungry and stop when I'm full" true? Can I expect to possible drop a few pounds and maintain that weight by eating smaller portions?
You can definately expect that. When you're eating, you just stop whenever you know that you're full. You don't just keep eating until you can't eat anymore, because that's what makes you overweight to begin with. Eating 4-5-6 meals a day compared to 3, can make your metabolism faster. By doing this you will build muscle, burn fat, & you'll be able to lose that gut. =]
I have a long distance relationship with my bf. He had to move away for a job in an oil rig camp. He can't email me because his internet hasnt been connected yet. So the only way we can contact each other is by phone.
Well since he moved 2 months ago he hasn't phoned me once. I phoned him on Xmas day(I just happened to catch him on his break) and he was being pleasant and said he'd phone me on New Years Eve. I never got a call. I know he works crazy hours and probably can't get a hold of me. I also work but only part time.
He told me also to never phone him before 6. He has a cell phone.
I'm getting really sick of this whole long distance thing. I also think he should be phoning me more than say, once every 2 months.
Should I cut this dead and try to find a local boy? And if he really loved me wouldnt he be contacting me more?
I think that you should first talk to your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. Tell him, that you can't stand not being able to talk to him and he never calls you, so what's the point of having a relationship? From his reaction, I hope you can make the decision of whether or not to stay with him. He may just be REALLY REALLY busy, and just really doesn't have time to call you. But, I think he should definately be keeping in contact with you much more.
What is this site that you can customi9ze how many friends you have for your myspace as your top 8?
http://www.r4wr.com/friends/
Okay..... when you are typing your paragraph for your advice column how do you make words bold???
Also how do you put hearts in the paragraph??
I rate high
< b > TEXT < / b > -for bold.
& hearts ; -for the heart.
Just make sure that everything is together, like there`s no spaces between any of the characters. :)
I like my best friend more than a friend...is this bad?
P.S.-were both girls...
There`s absolutely nothing wrong with that. =] You might be bisexual/lesbian. If she`s not a lesbian or anything, I`m not sure if you should tell her though, because it might change your relationship & she might feel uncomfortable.
umm i feel kin dof uncomfortable asking this but here it goes. im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we really love eachother. i think we're finally ready for sex. but im still a virgin and i heard that it hurts the first time. and im not good with pain at all. i dont want to freak out if it hurts. any advice?
I'm sure if you've been dating this guy for five years, he'll know how you will handle situations, like sex. He'll know what to do & he'll make sure you're comfortable, I'm sure of it. I'm still a virgin, but some of my friends have had sex in the past, and for most girls it definately hurts the first time, so it's very common. But, to other girls it won't hurt AS much. If it doesn't hurt for you, then you're extremely lucky, because it's very rare. I'm sure that if you freak out if it hurts, he can take it out, and you can try again some other time. Before that, maybe try oral sex to see if he can make you a little wider, ready for sex? Good luck hun!! :)
Most people think I am slow and I dont know much less, understand why. How do you know if their telling the truth or big fat liars (just to make you feel bad)?
Well, I don't know you, so I can't judge if you're slow or not. But, they might be just saying it to make fun of you, or to make you feel bad.
Would anyone recommend a tampon brand that fits these requirements:
~easy to get in and take out
~has an applicator
~good for girls who are just starting out on the whole tampon matter.
*brand websites highly welcome*
will rate
I agree with the person below me, Tampax Pearls are EXTREMELY comfortable, and I used them when I started using tampons. :) Of course, regular size.
I have this boyfriend. He always says he lovesme but i cant say it to him. I dated this one guy and he said he loved me to and my heart naver beated and i never felf uncomfortable with him. But my new boyfriend i always fell uncomfortable and my heart always beats REALLY fast. He has tried to kiss me but i always move away. but i always kissed my old bf. do i have feelings for my new bf? I NEED HELP REALLY BAD! an i rate high for any decent awnser.
Well I can't tell you if you have feelings for him, because I'm not you. But, if you can't tell him you love him, that's no biggie - you might just LIKE him. Y'know? You don't have to love someone to have feelings for them. You just seem confused because you're comparing him to your ex-boyfriend. Do you still have feelings for your ex? Personally, if I were you I wouldn't date anybody right now, and just find out who you have feelings for, you're just confused!