lets say you get your permit and i know you have to drive with someone that is older than 21 that has had driving experience, but what if i want to go driving with my mom. my mom doesn't drive and doesnt know how to drive so could i still go driving with her because she is my parent?
No. The whole reason behind having someone over 21 in the passenger seat is so that they can correct you while you are still learning and allowed on the road at the same time. It would be as useful as having a 7 year old. If they dont know how to drive, then it dosent help anything. Hope I have helped :]
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I'm 13 years old and I really want to have a BF. However, I know that most BF/GF relationships usually begin by being friends 1st. How can I become friends with boys?
To be friends with a guy isnt that hard. You just talk about things that intrest you both. If he wants to be friends, then he will help with the convorsation. Dont just talk about things that he likes, talk about things that intrest you too. Hope I have helped :]
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My best friend of 9 years is trying to hook up with my ex-boyfriend, who is my best friend, WHO i had sex with. She acts like theres nothing wrong with it, but it bothers me. When i tell her, she just calls me drama and starts cussing me out. Do I have a reason to be upset? I feel awful!
Well, me and my friends actually have a pact. That if one of us have dated someone, and actually had a REAL relationship with them, then he is off limits, even if they are broke up. This might not work for you, so you could just try telling her about this. Tell her that it hurts you, and if she starts to cuss you out, tell her that isnt cool. If she cusses you out in the first place, she obviously isnt a good friend to start out with. Eventhoug I dont think Its worth loosing friends over a guy, its worth loosing a friend over her just being an ass. Hope I have helped. :]
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There's these two guys I like. I have dated both of them before, and one knows what he's doing in a relationship, and one doesn't. They are two totally different people with two totally different personalities, and I honestly just don't know what I want. They both asked me back out tonight, and I just don't know what to do. I don't want to leave them both hanging for my answer, but I don't know who I want to choose! Help!
I have had this problem just recently. What I did was, I told them both that there was another guy I had in my thoughts at that point in time. I told them that I wasnt ready because I didnt want to hurt either one. [Because I liked both of them.] I pretty much waited for about 2 months, and then one of them really screwed up. And then the rest fell into play. Hope my life expirence has helped you out :]
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k so my mom is FINALLY letting me get highlights.(at a salon) :) my hair is like, a medium brown so i was wondering what color highlights would look good. i was thinking like,a reddish brown color or maybe light brown? i have no idea what color i should do. what do you think would look good?
Well any kind of brown looks good with Caramel highlights. I did mine like that and it was absolutely GEORGOUS! Hope I have helped :]
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okiay, i'm gonna b blunt about it,
can you go pee with a tampon in?
Ok, then I shall be blunt back. Haha. Im just kidding you. Yes you can pee with a tampon in. Although if it is full, then it might slip out while you are peeing or come out a little. What I do is, just pull the string back away from my pee hole and just pee. Its that simple. :] Hope I have helped.
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So I've got a bit of acne that I'd love to get rid of. I've proactive and many over the counter lotions to get rid of it, and it didnt go away. My question is, should I get something like Differin, a prescription lotion/cleanser, or the Zeno zit zapper?
and if anyone on here has Zeno, how well does it work?
Although I have never had this problem, My brother did. He had reeeally bad acne. Nothing that he tried would work. There is a doctor called a dermatologist. They specialize in acne. That doctor that my brother went to gave him a pill. It didnt work much when he was taking it, but it kicks in when you stop using it. He used to be a pizza face and now it smoothe as a baby's butt. Hope I have helped :]
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well i guess my friends think they cant trust me cause my so called best friend said that he had sex with his girlfriend witch i was not to thrilled about but oh then i found out that it was just a joke and that everyone of my good friends knew about it and said it was a good idea cuase they wanted to know if i would tell anyone about this so he told all my good friends what he was doing so if they found out they could tell him and none them though of the fact that it really hurts me to know that they dont trust me then finally i one of my true friends told me that it was a joke and now there all pissing me off cause i have no idea of what to believe anymore and then the guys who everyone told me that planed this out was my best friend and honestly i cant stand him right now and i dont no if i want to forgive him or not cause it really hurts me adn hes like it was just a joke dude and i am like i dont care that hurts and he just wants to forget it ever happen and im not willing to do that....any ideas what i should do about him and also what i should say to all my other friends...oh yea another thing that makes me mad is that i keep getting different stories Thanks ppl!!
Ok, well just be straight up with your friends. Sit them all down and just say this isnt cool. Tell them all that ONE of the guys has mentioned something to you, just dont say who. That way, the 'true friend' will not be ratted on. Just tell them it is childish and you want it to stop. And to the one who started this, just be like, dude, what the crap is wrong with you?! Put him in your shoes. That is what helps me and my friends. If you have any more questions, just go to my inbox. Hope I have helped :]
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Wearing a thong will make me feel sexy around guys i know im only 13 but just about everyone wears a thong in my school that my age. Should i just go off and buy one or should i tell my mom i want one. Im afraid shell think im a slut because she dosent want me to date yet but i do behind her back.
Unless you are having sex, then I wouldnt buy thongs for that reason. Thongs are simply made to get rid of pantie lines on your pants/shorts. If you are just buying them because other people are, its stupid. Im thirteen also, and I dont wear them because I just cant seem to get used to them. But however if you are having sex, and want to look/seem sexy around your mate, then thongs arent really a way to do it. Guys would be just as happy if you were wearing regular underwear apposed to thongs.
That is my point on that subject. But if you still want to get them, I would tell your mom you want to get them. I know this sounds really bad, but just tell her you want to get them because of your tight jeans. [This may backfire and she will just demand that you wear looser jeans.] If you get them without telling her, you will have to constantly hide your thongs and evenutally she will be doing the laundry one day and find them. I find it best to tell your mom these things. If she knows what is going on, then she will be less likely to get mad. Its better than she knows that you come to her for these things, apposed to you going behind her back. Hope I have helped :]
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In the song "Circle Circle Dot Dot" what is circle circle dot dot? i can't figure it out. thanksss!
This is a little game kids like to play when they are younger and still think cooties exist. It says circle cirlce dot dot now you've got your cootie shot.
For example, say a boy kissed you. Someone could come up to you, and where the boy has kissed you, they would say circle, circle, dot , dot. Now you've got your cootie shot. That supposibly takes away the cooties! Haha. Yes, I was the queen of getting away cooties when I was littler. Hope I have helped! :]
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me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for the past 2 years.I recently found out he cheated on me 3 times with some girls from Johnston.Now he asked me if we were dating about 2 days ago and i stupidly said "Yea,I guesss".Today he came to my house and told me that he has a new girlfriend. I said "i thought me and you were together" and he said "O well shes hotter".5 minutes later he tried kissing me.What should I do about all of this???Now im stuck the single one!
PLEASE HELP ME FAST!:(
Ok, first of all, you are being WAY too easy on him. I know where you are coming from. I have never had a boyfriend that hasnt cheated on me. I would say to never come back to him. Move on to other people. Its ok to be sad about it. I would know. But the way this guy sounds, he will more than likley come back to you. So when he does, just be like, yes. Then about an hour later, say, Uh, yeah I met someone hotter. If you dont want to go for revenge, just say something like, I dont like the way you treated me, I trusted you and you cheat. It dosent sound like a good boyfriend to me. And if he tried to kiss you, then he is just stupid for thinking that you would do that kind of thing. Espically after you all broke up. Hope I have helped. :]
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My knee has been like hurting lately.
When I say lately, I mean for about a 3 weeks?
It like hurts when I move it a certain way and cracks a lot.
Like yesterday, I barely bumped it on my computer desk.
And it hurt so bad, I nearly cryed.
Going to the doctors is not an option.
My mom thinks its all in my head.
What could be wrong?
Well, Im no doctor, but I have had horrible pains like this too. Only on my finger. MY problem was that I had a bad infection in it. I waited to go to the doctor until it was almost too late. Im not saying that is what is going to happen to you. But you might not want to rule out the doctor just yet. Another reason is you might have a cist. My brother had one in both of his knees and it KILLED him for a long time. One is still there to this day. Yet ANOTHER reason this could be hurting is you could just have a bruse on your bone. This could also hurt like crazy. You might not have these things, but you also might. I would say to go to a doctor, that is the only one to tell you what it is. And explain to your mom that it hurts like crazy. She will listen if you tell her. Hope I have helped. :]
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Alright, i just got a puppy, and hes 7 weeks old, hes a golden doodle mix (golden retriever/poodle), and he humps his blanket...and other random objects...hes only 7 WEEKS old...is that normal?
any advice you have, i'd appreciate!
thanks
Yes it is very normal. All dogs hump, at ANY age. Mostly guys though. You just have a hormonal filled' god. Haha. Well hope I have helped :]
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alright, i'm 15 and I"ve had my period for over 2 or 3 years, but i've never tried tampons. This morning I tried one, but its extreamly uncomfortable, getting up or sitting down, unless my legs are spread apart its almost painful. am I doing something wrong? is that normal?
PLZ, any advice you have, please post
Thank you!
Haha. Ok, you sound like me. I was on my period about a year when I was FORCED to use one. But I felt I was ready, so it was all good. Anyhoo, To answer your question, you have probably not put it up in you all the way. I know that sounds completly discusting, but its true. The same thing happens to me all the time. I still havent mastered it! Lol. But here are some things that have worked for me.
1. After putting in the tampon, sort of push as if you were trying to poop. If you feel it then it probably isnt in there far enough.
2. Get a hand held mirror and [I know it sounds gross] but look up there and see if you see the bottom of the tampon, [not the string, the cotton part] then its not in all the way.
3. And this one is probably the most gross of them all but it could help. After the tampon is in you, feel up there and if you feel it right when you are up there, then it is not in all the way. If you have about an inch or two then it is in correctly.
I hope I have helped you. I tried my best to make it as detailed as possible. :]
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My 17 year old sister is gone to bootcamp. She wont get out till January 17th 2007. I'm only allowed to see her 2 times between now and then. She is also allowed 1 phone call a week for a max of 5 minutes. Oh My God I'm so freakin' sad cuz we were so close and the day she left, when it came time to tell me bye, she went hysterical crying, that didnt make it any easier when I was trying with everything I had to suck it up and not cry. We were told to write her as much as possible but after 3 letters, I'm getting stumped, Ive already went on and on about how proud I was of her and told her things that were going on in my life, but I'm not that interesting lol so there's only so much I can say about that. I need help on topics to talk about in the letters, or what to discuss to keep her in on the latest news and stuff (She lovesssss music) I dunno... Any Ideas are much appreciated and I will certainly rate and give feedback for your time.
Ok. Dont sugarcoat things. Really tell her how you feel. Tell her you miss her and you are practically misserable. But dont make her feel too bad. Tell her about your day. The good and the bad. Tell her if you got a new boyfriend. Or a new X-boyfriend. lol Just talk about stuff that you would when she wasnt at bootcamp. Well if you have any more questions, you know where to find me and I hope I helped. :]
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well im not going to do it now but for like future comings, like well i wouldnt know rite but do you shave down stairs for girls like if you did that wouldnt the guy hate that? like whats better? what do you do?
Ok, quoting my cousin on this one, "A vigina is a vigina to a guy" And I agree with that. The choice of shaving down there is totally up to you. I do, just because it makes me feel cleaner, not becuase of any guy. If you feel that you would like to try it, go for it. Its just hair, and if you dont like the way it feels, then just let it grow back. :] Im warning you in advance, the only reason we have hair is to soak up the moisture around any area there is hair. Like your arms, head, even your eyebrows are on you for that reason. So if you shave it off, be expecting a larger amount of discharge in your panties. If you wear tight panties, then your 'unshaved parts' will fill different, where the fabric is write up on it. But no worries, you will get used to it in a day or so. If you have any more questions, just go to my inbox. Hope I have helped. :]
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ok the only thing is that i don't even wanna say "love ya" because 1. it will take away from the real meaning if we ever do say it and 2. i dont want to scare him. but he has said it jokingly before like he was pretending to be osmeone else and he said 'he says he loves you and good night'
Yeah. I know what you are saying. I am afraid of saying I love you to Chris. [my boyfriend] We have been dating since July 5, 2006. Let me try this out for size.
You feel like you want to say 'I love you' but once you do, you are afraid he wont say it back or mean it for that matter. You want to hold him in your arms forever. You want this feeling to last for a long time, because he is the one who makes you feel good.
Is this how you feel? If so, I have found my soul sister! Haha. But if you dont feel like saying 'love ya' then it is totally up to you. A 'goodnight and sweet dreams' would be just as good. And if him saying I love you makes you feel bad, tell him about it. Tell him it is much too early to love you yet. Just tell him what you think. Hope it works out. And if you have any questions at all, you know where to find me. :]
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Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him?
This happenes alot with me and my friends. Although I dont think it is right to date your friend's crush, its your choice. So, I would wait for him. But before all this happens, MAKE SURE she knows you like him, dont just spring it on her. If you do, she will think you just starting liking him becuase she did. [Girls tend to do this alot.] Hope I helped :]
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I used to go out with this guy named Josh. I loved him so much, & when he broke up with me -- I thought EVERYTHING would change. & I never thought I'd find myself in this position.
But now I met this new guy named Ralph, and whenever we go out on dates, or if we just talk on the phone, I always unfortunetly find myself comparing Josh to him. & How great Josh was, and the little things he did that Ralph doesn't do.
I don't want to do that anymore & it's really getting on my nerves. I won't be going back out with Josh again, but I can't help but think about how perfect he treated me, and then I just compare which really sucks.
Is it wrong to compare?
Does anyone else do it? I don't want to feel like soo horrible about it, but I just think I'm trying to get over Josh.
Thanksss.
No, It is not wrong to compare boyfriends. I do it all the time with mine. When you were treated so good by your past boyfriend you expect your recent ones to do the same. Its just like he has spoiled you. Hope I have helped. :]
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ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say.
Ok. I would suggest not saying 'I love you' unless you utterly mean it. There is nothing wrong with not saying anything after you get off the phone with your boyfriend. Just say goodnight and sweet dreams, and that should be the end of it. But I have the same problem with my boyfriend. We have just been dating for little less than two weeks and we dont say I love you yet either. A good alternitave to the words I love you would be to joke around with it.
For example.
Dont sound too serious when you say something like, Love ya! In a girly voice. If you DO love him though, say I love you and I want you to know that. That way, the thought is 100% clear in his head. Hope I helped, and if you need anything else, just ask me in my inbox. I know lots about the subject of love. :]
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