Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


i asked about the "i love you"


Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 7:23 pm

ok the only thing is that i don't even wanna say "love ya" because 1. it will take away from the real meaning if we ever do say it and 2. i dont want to scare him. but he has said it jokingly before like he was pretending to be osmeone else and he said 'he says he loves you and good night'

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


lookitslorin answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 11:15 pm:
Yeah. I know what you are saying. I am afraid of saying I love you to Chris. [my boyfriend] We have been dating since July 5, 2006. Let me try this out for size.

You feel like you want to say 'I love you' but once you do, you are afraid he wont say it back or mean it for that matter. You want to hold him in your arms forever. You want this feeling to last for a long time, because he is the one who makes you feel good.

Is this how you feel? If so, I have found my soul sister! Haha. But if you dont feel like saying 'love ya' then it is totally up to you. A 'goodnight and sweet dreams' would be just as good. And if him saying I love you makes you feel bad, tell him about it. Tell him it is much too early to love you yet. Just tell him what you think. Hope it works out. And if you have any questions at all, you know where to find me. :]

[ lookitslorin's advice column | Ask lookitslorin A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: Fashion School
Next Question >>> boys as friends

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker