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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
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*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
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YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

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What's the average size of a guys penis? like a 16 yr old my bf is a bit insecure about it i told him it doesn't matter he's about 5.5-6inches long.

all the guyz that i have had have been at least 8 inches long.and they were all black and i have always heard that black men are bigger.so i guess around 7....

~*$*Jessica~*$*

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okay, me and my ex bf went out for a year and were TOTALLY inlove with eachother we even talked about marrying eachother..we broke up about a year ago over a big fight..It was becuase he was trying to get with this other girl at like the last few days of our relationship, and then when he would try and apalogize just to become friends again, he would go off and talk so much crap about me..he did me wrong and hurt me so bad..its been a WHOLE YEAR and im still not over his ass..plzzz dont tell me, girl its been a year get over him, because TRUST ME thats whut ive been trying to do :[...im a really good looking girl, smart, ambitious, respectful..and with him, yeah hes really good looking, funny, etc, but he didnt even graduate from highschool, he smokes/drinks all the time, gets in fights, back stabs ppl, etc, but like NO1 sees that in him because he is SOO funny and makes every1 laugh,etc so they dont see the bad qualities in him..he gets alota girlz, etc..i dunno i just cannot stop thinking about him and its been so friggin long, like 4 hours cant go by in my day that I dont think about him..He changed my life so damn much, for the better and for the worst...i wonder if he ever thinks of me, i mean i was his first gf, his first love, his highschool sweetheart, etc...im still only a junior, and still have 2 years left of highschool...im just really down...plz help me if you can..
thanks so much

well maybe tha reason u cant get over him IS b/cuz ur still in-love w/ him. Or may'b u r jus curious bout where he is and wut he iz doin.may'b u should holla @ 'em n c wut he's up 2...


~*$Jessica~*$

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Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this junior in my spanish class. Well, I always catch him looking at me, like all the time. And he's REALLY cute. But he has a girlfriend, I'm just wondering.. but what do you think about this? His smile like melts me, and i'm just wondering if there's something there.

yea it could happen but grl u cant b goin & messin w/ a notha grls man it'll only get u in trouble! wait on him 2 come up 2 u!

~$*Jessica~$*

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I just broke up with my bf. I told him that we'd still be friends but I just wasn't feeling anything. He was ok with it and acted fine. So, why do I feel so crummy? PLEASE ANSWER! I'M BEGGING YOU! I RATE! PLEASE!

well n e time u break up w/ someone both ppl feel bad but if u just were'nt feeling n e thing then jus stay friends w/ him and sooner or later u will find someone else.everyone does..

hope i helped
~*~Jessica~*~

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Okay .. well I basically Just Started Cutting Myself! + Now i cant Stop.. It like takes controll over me! I dont and wont tell mY Parents and i dont wanna get help or tell anyone* Not even Friends.. but i think they might know.. I dont know what to do ? Im only 13! Should i continue?

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CUTTER!

self mutalation is never the answer to n e ones problems no matter wat the case.i dunno ur circumstances but i can assure u that cutting is not the answer.if they kno then there is nothin u can do espacally if u dont want help or if u dont wanna stop.i personally do not think u should continue and i think u should seek help. there are several web sites u can go to and several in ur area.

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i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help!

ok look kissen is nothin...its not like he is wantin 2 have sex or n e thing...why r u nervous?? its just a kiss...chill out and jus do it..

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I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain??

i noxzeme..i kno its not spelled right but u get it..there's also this stuff called ocean potion..i think noxzeme wrks better...and NO u dont have skin cancer..if u r constantley in the sun getting burned it can lead to it

jessica

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omg my freind was on the fone to the guy i lk then she kept tellin him to ask me out then he asked her out and she said yes then they broke up but he wants her to go out with him again and then she wants to go out with him again but she nows i lk him alot wut should i do should i be mad at her cause i am help!!!!! i will rate u

ummm....yea i think u should be mad at her ..if she was a good friend then she wouldnt have done that 2 u... I think u should say somthin 2 her.... well let me kno how it wrks out..

plz rate
~*~jessica~*~

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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.

u may think that this is "tha 1" but "tha 1" wouldnt treat u like that..if he cared bout u he would have cared enuf 2 ask u how u feel n not be so selfish...he isnt tha 1 so find some1 else...dont let him kno that u feel this way or he will take advantage of u as long as he can...
start datin otha guys again!!!
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jessica

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

lol...i'd go for it...

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i havnt had a boyfriend for like a year and i dont know whats wrong with me i dont really like anyone i mean some guys are real cute but i want a boyfriend what do i do?

well find 1 of those guyz that u think is hot and start talkin 2 him..then give him ur # or get his...then let things go from there
plz rate

jessica

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my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long

grl u betta tell ya boy bout it b4 he does somthin w/ dis grl..tell him how u feel..he should kno how u feel..would u want him 2 tell u??if so tell him...

~*~JESSICA~*~

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

i understand how u feel but u did say that is was a lot of money.. i really think that u should go to the private school... if these ppl that u have met r good friends then they will still be there wen u get bak!!

~*~jessica~*~

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i have this best friend and i like him and i think its wrong to because he is my best friend, and it could ruin our relationship so does that mean anything and he doesnt even like me! what do i do?

well if he doesnt like u theres not really n e thing that u can do bout it...no it's not wrong 2 like ur best friend but it could effect ur relationship w/ him...hope i helped....plz rate

-jessica-

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how can my friend get rid of camel toe?i kno its stupid but it serious

ok its a very simple thing 2 do....STOP WEARING PANTS THAT R 2 TIGHT!!!

JESSICA

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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money

i guess the obvious answer would be 2 advertize

plz rate
jessica

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is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me

i wrkout everyday..i do crunches to "harden" my stomach...i do 50 a day...if u dont wrkout everyday then i think u should do more...but dont start out doin a large amount..bcuz then ur body will be in total shock & wont burn tha "pudge"...u could also try a better diet...
i hear that a lot of colorful foods means that u r getting all of the esential vitamans & things like that, that r needed for ur body 2 function properley..
let me kno if this wrks..(plz rate me)

jessica

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I am a 15 year old female who would like to remain anonymous who has a best friend at the age of 16. He has been in a relationship for the past 2 years and his feelings for me finally came out. I told him that the feelings i have for him are mutual but i'm disappointed as far as the outcome will remain the same as things are now. What should I do?

wat??? could u exsplain that plz...

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School's coming up and I really want to have a school-year boyfriend, if you know what I mean. I want to meet some new guys this year and start going out with them. What's a good way to get guys to notice me more this year and for them to see me as more than a friend? Last year I had tons of guy friends but no boyfriends!

let on of the guys kno u like them then start talkin 2 him

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do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks

~*a*M*y~

in my opinion i would not have a relationship on line...even if u see pics..

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