Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this junior in my spanish class. Well, I always catch him looking at me, like all the time. And he's REALLY cute. But he has a girlfriend, I'm just wondering.. but what do you think about this? His smile like melts me, and i'm just wondering if there's something there.
Additional info, added Friday September 17 2004, 9:52 pm: Everybody is saying, he thinks you're attractive.. he'll prob come up to you! but i'm a freshman.. do you REALLY think he'd do that when he's two grades older than me?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? liddylflirtx3 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 8:22 pm: Age really doesn't matter, hun! If he thinks you're attractive, then you're an attractive freshman! But, the only problem with this is that he already has a girlfriend. So just be nice to him - but don't try to take your friendly relationship too far too soon because he's already in a romantic relationship.
Bethers5143 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 6:01 pm: guys look at girls even if they have a boyfriend, he prolly has his eye on you. if you flirt with him, then he might just break up with his woman for you! never know! go get em! keep me updated! *Bethers* [ Bethers5143's advice column | Ask Bethers5143 A Question ]
MaxwellsSilverHammer answered Saturday September 18 2004, 1:23 am: Oh, the perils of taking advanced classes...
He has a girlfriend, and you know little about his relationship with her. Maybe he is going to break up with her, who knows?
Juniors coming onto freshmen, it really doesn't happen often. Maybe be does want to be friends with you, that happens with freshmen and upper-classmen.
TucanFullOfHoles answered Friday September 17 2004, 11:22 pm: umm, think about it for a secound. you're fourteen/fifteen he's sixteen/seventeen. when you're twenty he'll be twenty-two. when you're 30 he'll be 32. now does that seem like such a huge age gap? 2 years is nothing! [ TucanFullOfHoles's advice column | Ask TucanFullOfHoles A Question ]
exyweetee99 answered Friday September 17 2004, 10:40 pm: yea it could happen but grl u cant b goin & messin w/ a notha grls man it'll only get u in trouble! wait on him 2 come up 2 u!
TheGovernor answered Friday September 17 2004, 10:14 pm: He has a girlfriend. Doesn't that say enough? If he asks you out while he still has a girlfriend I would think his morals are in question. Put yourself in his girlfriend's position. How would she feel if she knew that her boyfriend was eyeing you up and all? Consider that if this progresses.
I apologize if what I said isn't what you wanted to hear. But not taking other people's feelings into consideration in situations like this is cold and wrong. Hopefully after you grow up you'll realize that for yourself. [ TheGovernor's advice column | Ask TheGovernor A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Friday September 17 2004, 10:01 pm: I'm sure hes attracted to ya... and to answer your question my boyfriend is a senior and i'm a sophmore... So its ok! the grades and age is just a number. Give it time i'm sure he'll start talking to ya more... meanwhile keep up what you're doing and maybe talk to him a couple times too :) see if he has aol or something :) have fun with it. and be yourself!
Karen answered Friday September 17 2004, 9:46 pm: He might think you are attractive and might be interested in you in the future. When you get the chance to talk to him, flirt with him. He might even dump his girlfriend and ask you out! Hope I helped and good luck :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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