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what is an orgasim?what does it do? (link)
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It kills you
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Okay so...I dont think im Preganent but my mind is like telling me That theres a possibilty i am from masturbation?? Im like uhh ur retarded because you havent had sex with anyone!! Ya know? SO i havent gotten my period and ive only had it for like 2 years and i never kept track then there was the leap year and i cant remember if i got it in early feb or not. I dont feel preganent and theres no signs of it but i need reassurancey.
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In order for YOU to get pregnant, you need sperms. No sperms, no fertilisation of egg, no embryo, no baby. Ok simple as that. If masturbation makes people pregnant then we girls would be hermaphrodites, and we don't need men at all to make babies.
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we'll call my friend "janice". well janice and i do alot of stuff togehter, alone with other people. whenever i do something without janice, i try not to make her feel bad and i don't try to make her feel left out. yet, whenever i can't go to something, it has to be the FUNNEST NIGHT OF THE YEAR. like, out of all the times we hang out, the ONE i can't go to is the BEST. it's always like that. she tries to make me feel bad and left out. and she tries to make me feel like because of ONE night, shes ohsoclose with those people now and im on the outside. my question is, why does she do this? its so stupid! and how can i not let it bother me? oh yeah i caaant talk to her about it so dont say that. ok thankss. (link)
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You want the truth? Please stop going out with childish kids like her. Friends are people who want the best for each other and not just think bout keeping only the best for themselves. Like you said, she only wants to have all the fun for herself and she forbids you to have fun. She's not a good friend. Seriously, drop her.
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okay, so i love swimming, but i DREAD wearing a bathing suit! I'm really insecure about it. I'm absolutely not fat, but i don't have a bikini body either. I'm also very self conscious about how much is showing. i always look and feel so awkward in a bathing suit. i have acne on my back that i can't get to go away, so thats embarrasing. i almost always get a once-peice bathing suit, but i'm thinking about a tankini this summer. but i want to find one i don't have to worry about. any suggestions on where to get a good (and inexpensive) one? preferably not low cut and boy-short bottoms. and also, how to overcome the insecurity. help, please?? (link)
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Ok I'll settle the insecurity problem cos I think that's more pressing than finding a suitable tankini.
Seriously, no one bothers if you have a bikini body. Honestly, no one talks bout you unless you have a supermodel body or you're like exaggeratingly fat. I can bet you, even if you remove those acne on your back, you'd still find something to complain bout. If you're so self conscious bout your back, get a swimming suit that doesn't reveal too much of your back.
Also you could get a two piece bathing suit if you want : a sleeveless top and a bottom. The top normally isn't as low cut (on the front and on the back) as those of one piece.
Just wear it, don't care bout how you look like afterwards. There will always be flaws on people's body. No one is perfect. If you're gonna be so bothered bout it, then you'd make others notice. It's like advertising for a product. You are the product. If you don't behave confidently, you're not gonna sell well. If your frens or whoever ask why do you have acne on your back, just say "I can't seem to get rid of it, you have any pdts that might help? etc" Just don't say things that berate yourself like "yea I know, it's so ugly and I hate it. I look like shit"
The best way to overcome your insecurity is to ignore your flaws. Tell yourself, "I have acne on my back but so? My figure's good." Having acne on your back is really a minor thing. I have a birthmark on my shoulder blade but I don't care and I still wear revealing tops. People have freckles all over their body and yet they dare to flaunt.
Girl, seriously, just go ahead and have fun swimming. No one's really gonna care that much.
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what do you guys think of this BlackBerry? http://i127.photobucket.com/albums/p122/CAMxWHOREx3/370x400.jpg
do you guys like them? i want opinions!! (link)
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No I don't like it. It looks too squarish.
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i was just wondering. is there anyone on this website that wears pads instead of tampons? cause i've tried so many times and read the directions but i just couldnt put a tampon in. also if you wear pads do you play sports? cause i do and i wear pads and i wanna know if its bad. i think its really uncomfortable though. thankss. (link)
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What's so bad bout wearing pads and playing sports? I do that all the time.
I've never worn a tampon before cos I think I'd feel really insecure since I won't know if my tampon is overloaded and what if it gets stuck inside and refuse to come out?
Get those ultra thin yet meant for heavy flow pads. They're the best. Wings will be good cos they help to keep pads in place.
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Okay, so I want to pierce my friends cartilidge, and she wants it done. Does anyone have any tips/experiences to share? And, how big of a needle shoud we use and what are the steps other then numbing, sterilizing, cleaning, and putting in the pin then the earring?
Has anyone had a good/bad experience with self-piercing the cartilidge? Please share.
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I know you rated the first person a 1 for telling you to go to a professional but I'm gonna repeat it again for your safety, and your friend's.
No. Please go to a professional and have it done. It's safer for both you and her.
Should something go wrong with her piercing, will you be able to handle the consequences?
Do you know the right angle to pierce?
Do you think it's gonna be an easy task? i don't think so.
Never ever ever tamper with things that requires expertise.
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i went to the movies with my boyfriend and i knew he wanted to hold my hand but the problem was is that my hands sweat a lot sometimes so i was kind of nervous for him to hold my hand. but we never did he just put his arm around me. but my question is what can i do or put on my hands to make them not sweat?
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Put deodorant on your hands?? kidding. Anyway, I have this problem too. But I think all this sweaty hand bit can be quite psychological. If I keep thinking that my hands are sweaty, then my hands will start getting sweaty. Like right now, I'm thinking bout sweaty palms and so I'm having it right now.
Don't go and keep thinking that you have sweaty palms. When he wants to hold your hand, just let him hold and think bout something else. If you don't want your hand to sweat, try to place your hands facing up or air them in some other ways.
Bfs don't mind sweaty palms. It's perfectly ok.
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Well, i have this friend, and well everytime i am myself she gets mad at me for acting the way i do, im not mean im just crazy (thats my personality) and so i feel like i have to be somone else when im around her in order to be her friend. Now she is mad at me again, is it worth trying to work things out AGAIN or should i just noot be her friend anymore, because i have a bunch of other friends that like me for me.
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If I were you, I'd ditch her. In such situations, there's no point trying to talk to her because her mind is set and that's that.
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Well, I am not sure if I am bisexual or not. I have thought about men sexually a lot more lately and have been for about 2 years now. However, I find myself turned off with the thought of kissing a guy, I am only attracted to the sexual aspect, and not being the one in control with a guy. Yet there is one guy about 30 mins. from my house who wants to have sex with me, and is even willing to pick me up in his car so I can give him oral, and vice versa, but him first. I have been considering it a lot, should I do it and how do I know if I am bisexual or just tricking myself? Please somebody help me lose some of the confusion!! Thanks. (link)
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Do you enjoy the thought of making out with a girl? Can you imagine yourself making out and being intimate with her? If you can, it means you like girls.
Similarly, do you enjoy the thought of being close and intimate with a guy? Does it gross you out? If you're not grossed out by that thought, you most prob are bi.
This is how I confirm if I like this guy or not. If I like this guy, I can imagine myself being intimate with him. If I don't, it means I don't like him. It is difficult to help you straighten our your thinking. This is the best way of helping you out in your situation. Because a large part of how you determine your sexuality lies in your mind.
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please help, i got a really bad haircut- short and uneven. please give me tips or styles i can use until i get my hair fixed thanks! (link)
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[Wax]. It's the best. Use your short and uneven hairstyle to your advantage. The best style is to go for the funky look. Style your hair in a nice messy way to create a layered look. You could also wear a cap if you are not in the mood to style your hair.
You can also style your hair and add on a hairband or headband to add spice to your hairstyle.
Meawhile, do try to look out for good hairdressers to fix this problem.
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why does my frend cares when i cuss? cause when i say the F word shes all"stop saying bad words" and i told her"like you dont say it" and she was all"i say it when people are not around" why does she care when i cuss? is she being a good friend or what? (link)
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It isn't nice to cuss and it spoils people's mood. Imagine if you're feeling really happy and all and your friend meets up with you and starts cussing here and there, you'd be influenced to feel negative as well. In this case, you can't really say if she's being a good friend or not. It's just that it isn't pleasant whenever you hear vulagarities.
Also, it is possible that she doesn't want you to use bad words cos it's not healthy.
People tend to expect others to do what they want but they themselves always fail to do it.
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hi, im 13. my dad has been living abroad and my mum and i stay together. i know my dad loves me, and deep inside i love him, but i feel like i dont know him anymore. he always treats me like im 4. its annoying. i know its wrong, but i feel like i hate my dad and love my mom more, so i feel guilty with myself. plus my mum sumtimes tells me that she regrets that jumped into their relationship. how can i stop feeling so guilty and love my dad and how can i make my mum happy? (link)
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I understand. Every parent is like that and they can really get unreasonable and annoying at times. The thing is, whenever they nag at me, I just let it pass and I dun really let it hang on in my mind. As long as I know that what I'm doing is right, I just leave it. If they wanna nag, I let them. I just say "okokok" and then let it pass. If I did something wrong and they reprimand me for that, I'd listen to them and learn.
Sometimes, parents tend to say things like they regret getting married. When they quarrel they threaten each other with divorce, they shout, they scream, they tell their kids things like "if not for you kids i wouldnt hang on to him". All parents say that. They say that because they're going thru rough times in their marriage. Everyone says things like 'they wish they could turn back the clock' whenever they hit the rough roads. It's alright. No marriage is perfect and it's hard to maintain a relationship let alone talk bout marriage! Be a good girl and cherish your mum. Don't make her stress over you and all these will be enough to make her happy.
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Do you HAVE to wear dresses like these
http://i143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/normal_taipei2210057f1a8pp.jpg
or can you wear a simple but pretty material dress like Regina from Mean Girls did to the prom? (link)
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Sure thing. Simple is good. The important thing is not just to look good, but to feel good and comfortable wearing it.
If not, no point wearing such a nice dress without being able to carry yourself well with it.
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ok i have this so called guy friend who likes my good friend, my friend knew that he has a crush on her and he knows it too
and him and i always talk about her and i always listen and trying to help him out and he said this to me after my friend told me to tell him:
"friend": she said she likes someone ?
me : yeah
"friend": : ic...
me : yeah
me: ey no meeting in the library for a while
me : cause people are being UGh
me: so annoying
"friend": : well theres no need to talk to you anymore
me: as in?
"friend": : i only talk to you cause of her...
me: icic
me: umm ok then
"friend": : nice knowin you
and he signed out so was he using me? (link)
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What the hell. Yes he is using you. Tell him to phuck off and eat shit.
And tell him "HAHA what a loser, no wonder she doesn't like you"
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everyone keeps talking about "veginas"
what are they and who has them?
what are there purposes?
do guys and girls have them?
please help i feel so clueless
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Are you playing dumb or you're just pure stupid?
P.S: To the hacker who's trying to make this site look stupid.
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Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you like for me to do from a girl's perspective? Thanks (link)
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Damn! This one tough question! Actually, I wouldn't mind at all if you just come up to me and tell me that you'd like to get to know me. I'd be flattered. Really flattered. You'd be the one to make my day.
Do you know any of her friends? You can get to know her thru her frens as well. You can take the opportunity to talk to her fren when she's also present. Like say if you're talking bout something general with your fren, eg "Hey do you know how to do this?" then maybe you can also turn to her and ask "Do you know how to do?" Blah blah blah. Then from there, when she sees you, you two will say hi and bye or at least smile at each other right? Then you can work on it from here since you already know her and she knows you.
Take every and any opportunity to talk to her. If she drops a pen or something, pick it up for her. If you have to pass something to her, pass it to her directly and make small talk.
I would like it if a guy comes up to me and says something funny, tells me a joke, make me laugh, etc. He'd leave a deep impression on me. But then again, since you're a shy guy, this would be something quite difficult to do. But you can try =)
We girls really don't mind if you come up to us and just talk to us randomly and make frens with us. We really don't mind at all. Serious. We'd be happy to befriend the opposite sex anytime. Hey, opposites attract right? Just go ahead and talk to her. Anything will do. Just talk. You can start by smiling at her when you see her. A friendly smile. Not a I-like-you-smile ok. Cos you still dunno if she likes you and you might freak her out cos she might think that you look like a pervert. Kidding. Anyway, we girls wont mind whatever method you choose. Just go ahead and do it. Don't think so much bout it. Be confident. Chin up, chest out. When the opportunity comes for you to get to talk to her, grab it.
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I have had nausea(sp?) for so long . I cant do anything. I cant go to school, walk a round, or concentrate on anything. Is there anything over the counter that will make me vomit, just so cannot have this feeling any more? I am also dizzy so the combo. is a horrible one.
I have seen many differnt types of doctors and even had a CT scan, on my head. Nothing has been found AT ALL, and no medcations have worked.
If any one can give any kind of answer it will be greatly apperciated.
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I don't dare to prescribe you anything over the counter because it would be dangerous to do so, since I'm not a certified doctor. Also, I don't know what medicine prevents nausea.
Could your nausea be due to anxiety or whatsoever?
I do know that consuming sour things will reduce nausea and make you feel better. Whenever you feel like puking, suck on something sour. Do you like dried, sour prunes? Try those. Or suck on sour sweets like lemonheads. Apply something such as vicks vapourub to your stomach or try taking a whiff of it when you feel like puking.
And when you feel like puking, lie down for a while. I normally lie on my stomach with my head facing the side. Try it.
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So there's this guy that I really like, and that I have liked since the beginning of the school year. I talk to him on a daily basis and we're pretty good friends.
The other day, I was sitting next to him and he got up out of his chair and blew in my ear, smiled, and walked away (to get something out of his bag, or something.)
Does this mean anything? it was kind of weird, but it's not the first time something like this has happened. He's been extremely touchy-feely towards me in general lately, and also has been open with me, (like telling me about how stressed he is and how he experimented with drugs to cope, which shows that he must trust me,) but he has a girlfriend, and while I thought their relationship was rocky for a while, they seem to have recovered. Is this a point towards, 'he likes me,' or am I looking into this too much?
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Yes, guys are always doing stupid things like this. My best bet is that he's just flirting with no strings attached. Blowing in your ear, touchy-feely etc, may be something that he does just to flirt, or just cos he's in a flirtatious mood. Ask yourself, have you ever done this to any guys whom you're not interested in, but you just feel like you're in a flirty mood? I'm ashamed to admit, but I have.
As for him telling you more bout his personal problems, it could be that he enjoys talking to you, and feels that you are willing to lend a listening ear to him. Whatever that the guy has done to you, has happened to me before. My advice is, don't take it too seriously. Let it be an event of the day for you to keep in your happy memory, etc, etc.
If he really likes you, he'd go for you. Don't think so much bout it unless he tells you he likes you. If he makes no move, then it;s fine, just leave it as it is. Normally, guys are rather straight forward. If they really like you, they'd tell you. If they flirt and flirt and do nothing and they're attached, it normally just means they're bored.
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Ok a famous guy said that the secret to his perfect white clean baby skin is:
"My secret is that i don't use soap or cleansing cream to wash my face."
"When i was young, i got skin trouble aftering using soap. So afterwards i only use water to wash my face. So if you wash your face only with water, you can get a white, clean & baby skin like me."
Does that mean that he didn't use any acne medicatin and just washed his face with water?
So does that mean I can stop using acne medication from the doctor and just wash my face with water? (link)
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If you have acne problems, then washing your face with just water isn't going to help.
Yes it is true that using water to wash your face is enough. But that applies only for those who has normal, non oily skin type, or at least for those who only has slightly oily face. Everyone has different skin types and you happen to have the oilier or perhaps the more unhealthy skin type. I would insist that you continue with your acne medication because it helps to restore your skin back to normal.
When it gets normal, then use water to wash your face. I really don't see a need to use facial foam or whatsoever. Everytime I use any facial foam , it makes me look like shit. Like I said, everyone's skin type is different. I'm sensitive to facial foams but others might depend on it to clear their blemishes.
SO if you're prescribed acne medication, stick to it. Wait till your face returns to normal before trying out the water method. Meanwhile, drink lots of WATER (this is very impt), have enough rest and eat lots of leafy vegetables and fruits. It'll speed up the process of clearing your acne.
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