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bicurious blues
Well, I am not sure if I am bisexual or not. I have thought about men sexually a lot more lately and have been for about 2 years now. However, I find myself turned off with the thought of kissing a guy, I am only attracted to the sexual aspect, and not being the one in control with a guy. Yet there is one guy about 30 mins. from my house who wants to have sex with me, and is even willing to pick me up in his car so I can give him oral, and vice versa, but him first. I have been considering it a lot, should I do it and how do I know if I am bisexual or just tricking myself? Please somebody help me lose some of the confusion!! Thanks.
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that happens to me a lot, sometimes i think i may be bi too. but its just like, you just notice pretty things about the same sex. it doesnt necessarily mean you're bi or gay or anything, it just interests you, or you havent had any sexual pleasure one way or another in a while.
dont worry you're completely normal! =]
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Do you enjoy the thought of making out with a girl? Can you imagine yourself making out and being intimate with her? If you can, it means you like girls.
Similarly, do you enjoy the thought of being close and intimate with a guy? Does it gross you out? If you're not grossed out by that thought, you most prob are bi.
This is how I confirm if I like this guy or not. If I like this guy, I can imagine myself being intimate with him. If I don't, it means I don't like him. It is difficult to help you straighten our your thinking. This is the best way of helping you out in your situation. Because a large part of how you determine your sexuality lies in your mind.
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Any guy would come pick you up. Since you think you are bi, i wouldnt do it until you know for sure. Just eye some guys around when you see them. Just see how that makes you feel and go from there.
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There are 10,000 men willing to pick you up, drive you to their house for oral. Why him first? He's nothing special. You are. It's okay to like girls. Women usually treat you better than men anyway. A woman can't get you pregnant and the risk of getting a STD are low. You should not be with a man just to proove to yourself your hetrosexual.
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