why does my frend cares when i cuss? cause when i say the F word shes all"stop saying bad words" and i told her"like you dont say it" and she was all"i say it when people are not around" why does she care when i cuss? is she being a good friend or what?
I do cuss here and there and it does become a bad habit yo. lol. I'm trying to stop.. some people in my environment call me "un-lady like for such language" or "boy, if a boy hears you talking like that.. they're going to think.. that your easy" WHAT?! How does that make me easy? I truly don't know..
They also say this "How un-classy of her"
Dude, idk what to say other than maybe when your around her.. try not to use such harsh words..
DustMaster answered Saturday March 17 2007, 8:16 pm: My parents told me cussing is a sign of ignorance, so I rarely do. I, personally, tend to get annoyed when people cuss ALL the time, and my friends are like that too.
Basically, it sometimes puts down other people, even if it's not directed at them.
Everyone cusses sometimes, just learn to control it. [ DustMaster's advice column | Ask DustMaster A Question ]
ANG answered Saturday March 17 2007, 1:06 pm: people can be offended and it sets off a negative tone. i slip here and there. i never cuss on sundays though! :] [ ANG's advice column | Ask ANG A Question ]
clarayow answered Saturday March 17 2007, 1:03 pm: It isn't nice to cuss and it spoils people's mood. Imagine if you're feeling really happy and all and your friend meets up with you and starts cussing here and there, you'd be influenced to feel negative as well. In this case, you can't really say if she's being a good friend or not. It's just that it isn't pleasant whenever you hear vulagarities.
Also, it is possible that she doesn't want you to use bad words cos it's not healthy.
Patron_saint_of_Squirrels answered Friday March 16 2007, 11:35 pm: well, first off it offends people. I dont know about her, but i'm mormon and a lot of churches dont really approve cursing, I personally dont like it at all, and avoid saying anything worse than 'crap'. and some ppl dont conciter that cursing. I would just respect her request and not curse around her.
PinkyP123 answered Friday March 16 2007, 11:29 pm: Well thats very odd that she is saying that so what I would do is next time she says don't cuss be like "What is your big deal with me cussing?" and if I am right she probably has something to deal with at home because my mom cusses all the time and I hate when my friends cuss so if it's something like that then try to cut down on the cussing, if not or she has no reason then I would say listen im sorry but it's a bad habitat and if you want me to stop your going to have to help me. And if shes a good friend then she will be there for you. [ PinkyP123's advice column | Ask PinkyP123 A Question ]
xoheretohelpox answered Friday March 16 2007, 11:24 pm: hmm it might affend her or something.. idk : ask her why it bothers her & mention that saying it around people and saying it when there arent people around is still saying it.
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