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Hey I'm Elizabeth. I love to dance and i consider myself a very mellow person! I am into EVERYTHING! I love: Classic Rock, music, reading, action pack stuff such as hunting (everything a guy likes), Sports, I love watching sports.ETC if you're soo interested in me.. then why don't strike up a conversation with me! : )Anything you like..i'll probably learn to like it as well..


HAVE ANY PERSONAL QUESTIONS..FEEL FREE TO PERSONAL MESSAGE ME ON HERE AND I WILL TRY TO RESPOND AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE.
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Okay, so my mom just saw me publicly swear in a comment of a picture I was tagged in and now she's all up in my grill because I said the f word on Facebook. Aside from this, it's really annoying how all my family members are friends with me on Facebook. I seriously don't know what to do. I feel like I'm choking. I'm thinking about making a new account and just add family members there, but that'd be too obvious. What's the right thing to do?? Please help! I'd appreciate it bigtime.:( (link)
You could either delete family members or start an account with a different name only ur friends would know. Get a nickname. Just an idea


I know everybody is into stick straight hair these days, but I have stick straight hair and I hate it! Seriously, the only time I am really happy with my hair is when it is wavy. How do I do a wavy perm? Is this something that I should do at a salon or can I do this at home? If I give myself a home permanent, do I need to have somebody else there to help me?

Can you tell I've never done this before? :-) (link)
you dont always have to get a perm, sometimes going to bed with a bed, and scrunching it works or go to bed with curls


where can you get the shirts that say "feed marykate"? (link)
you could make one


What are the advantages of minoring in a subject?
What do you get out of it?
Can you actually land a job with only minoring in a subject? (link)
I don't see why not. But I'm getting my associates first and you can get jobs with associates in biz. Managers


I'm in need of some adive here...
There's this guy I've known since 3rd grade, and we're in 9th going into 10th now. He's always been a friend to me but just about a month or two ago, I realized I really like him. A lot. After a while of texting him and stuff I told him I liked him and that I feel bad. He said not to feel bad because he likes me too, he just wants to hang out more.
He broke up with his girlfriend a couple months ago... and she's this girl in middle school. So he's single. We're close now and text every day and sometimes hang out.

What I would like to know is... should I talk to him about how crappy I feel because I like him so much and I wish we were together or should I not rush it, like rush into a relationship?
I really do not want this to end up badly because he means so much to me... so I'm not sure if I should rush things or what. Please give your thoughts =/ (link)
I'd be careful because a relationship could break your friendship


Hey, i need help on flirting!!! how do i make myself more comfortable around guys and how should i flirt with them 2 make (him) like me more??!?!!?

Thanksssss :))))))) (link)
Just flirt with them and smile. Eventually either you or them will strike up a conversation


I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable? (link)
Just tell him that it bothers you


I was a new kid at school last year and I made a few friends, but only hung out with this one girl. She was kind of too stuck up for me, but we only knew eachother so we remained as friends. We were never really close, she wasnt the type that wanted to go and hang out, and I was. Now that she has graduated, I don't have any friends at school. For some reason, its just really hard for me. I just want a couple of friends i can hang out with all the time and who i can tell everything to, but im not very social. Help? (link)
Get involved with school clubs and try to find a job. Usually people that work together hang out



Whenever me and my boyfriend make out i just lay on top of him and he just touchs my vagina but doesnt finger me.


What are somem stuff to do? like moving around? or what can i do to him? (link)
Make a move on him, if you do this he might open up to other things that you're confortable with


I am in high school and you know how everyone is hurrying to get a boyfriend well i need advice on how to get a boyfriend i feel very sad when all my other friends have them but I dont. Well they are very skinny and well I am not a size 1 if you know what i mean so I would appreciate it if you all could help me find someone? Please and Thank you!! (link)
if your interested in a guy.. go ahead and make a move!


me and my friend Vanessa are really close(yes same friend from last question)but....things are slipping.Im becoming popular, hanging out with new,mature people, and she well isnt.I want her to fit in with my new friends but,whenever she does she makes a fool out of her self what do i do?Im not gunna ditch her, but i am gunna stay friends with the populars, cause theyre really nice to me! (link)
Hmm.. maybe you could have a variety set of friends.

Don't ditch her. Maybe you could try and talk to her.. reason things out.. you know youve been acting a little odd around my friends.. could you possibly try to tone it down..
OR
Still have her as a friend but she doesnt have to hang out with your other friends.

Maybe the two of you could possibly find a group of your guys own. So she can fit somehow.. and you can too.

If she doesn't calm down to your standards then possibly hang out with her friends and still be friends with your other group..

But still hang out with your friends (the popular one's.. if that makes you happy)

Possibly have more than one type of social group
(like a variety of friends.. thats always fun)

Hope that made a little sense...
X3 Liz and i hoped that helped a bit


why does my frend cares when i cuss? cause when i say the F word shes all"stop saying bad words" and i told her"like you dont say it" and she was all"i say it when people are not around" why does she care when i cuss? is she being a good friend or what? (link)
heh, to me a real girl doesn't cuss or use some sort of vulgar language.
I think she is being a good friend..kind of setting an example.

I do cuss here and there and it does become a bad habit yo. lol. I'm trying to stop.. some people in my environment call me "un-lady like for such language" or "boy, if a boy hears you talking like that.. they're going to think.. that your easy" WHAT?! How does that make me easy? I truly don't know..
They also say this "How un-classy of her"

Dude, idk what to say other than maybe when your around her.. try not to use such harsh words..

Hope I helped a bit
X3 Liz


I don't know if this is in the right category but anyways,

In Mean Girls, Regina says.. "I was half a virgin when I met him."

What does this mean? (link)
You are a half virgin if you have given or received oral sex but have not had actual sex.


Hello my name is Natalie, I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend named Don and I am really confused about him right now. He always says he loves me but he doesn't show it. I know most people would say that this is stupid but he hasn't even changed his status on myspace yet it still says single. It means alot to me because when we first went out he was so happy to say that I was his girlfriend but now it's like he just don't care. I try to talk to him but he wouldn't listen and I just have a feeling that he's just using me till he can find the next best thing.Sorry that this is long I have alot to say but what should I do.

Thanks xoxo,
Natalie F (link)
Hey,
Possibly he's afraid of what his friends may think and if he doesn't listen to you.. then get rid of him! Your better than that.. if i had a bf that doesn't listen to me.. then i would break up with him.."You know what.. i don't feel like we have a connection and you don't listen to me.. which is very disrespectful.. i need a guy that will actually care and listen to me." A real man wouldn't ignore you.

Hope that helped a bit!
X3 Liz
He sounds immature = [
theres ALOT of other guys out there!


i need a SPECIFIC cute oufitt.

can i havee links or pictures of cute oufits you guys have worn?


etc.. (link)
i make up my own style.. so possibly you could make up your own.. but i do like these kinds of styles..

these may not have to do with winter.. lol
but here are some ideas possibly..


http://fashiontribes.typepad.com/main/autumnwinter_fashion_week_2006new_york/index.html
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/
http://www.cosmogirl.com/
www.cosmo.glam.com.

hope that helped a bit
X3 Liz




There is this girl on my bus and nobody really talks to her or hangs out with her but noone thinks shes a freak. She used to be one of my really good friends but we just stopped hanging out. I feel bad because shes always lonley but i dont want her to think im one of her really good friends because i dont want to be and she keeps writing about the past and what not. So should i talk to her on the bus? just so she has someone to talk to or should i just not so she doesnt get the idea that i want to be her best Friend again? (link)
you shouldn't worry about what other think.. if you do try and be her friend again. Maybe she's going through a rough time at home or maybe her head is just full of a lot of frustration right now and shes trying to win your friendship back.. try talking to her. Sure, you guys might argue and may not think of anything. But sometimes talking things out.. may solve the problem. Reason things out.. tell her what you may think will help on your guys situation and let her talk about.. what her issues may be also..

Hope that helped a bit..

X3 Liz


what are some funny/fun things to do when your bored? also with friends? i need to learn how to entertain people. hah (link)
I'm very easily amused with everything. Just start goofing off with your friends. Go in shopping carts outside and take random pictures. My friends and i love taking random pictures everywhere we go. Wherever they may be.

Go downtown with your friends and go to places... that your friends find fun.. and then just act silly there...lol

Possible places to "amuse" people:
Music places (dance)
Museums (Science, and the fun ones)
Amusement Parks
Zoo's
Mall/Movies
Parks (just any old park)
Downtown
Relax at a restaurant and humor the workers there (but dont annoy them)
(Sadly I can find any place amusing) lol
Just have fun and try to set the mood for people.. so they can get a feel for it.

Hope I helped a bit
~Liz



I've known him for a while & have seen him at the same places I've been twice. I just started talking to him on IM today because I've been so shy & scared to IM him. But, I realized that I like him, and I don't know how to tell him. I want to, but I'm scared he'll think I'm ugly or whatever. I mean, I know he doesn't, but I'm scared he won't like me back.

Help? (link)
Open up to him! Start talking to him! Don't be shy! Who cares if he rejects you! Take a risk! There's plenty of guys out there..

Hope that helped a bit
~Liz


ok so there is this really sweet, funny, kind, cute ( i could go on 4ever) and he knows that i like him (along with everyone else in the whole world!) and i don't know if he likes me bc his dad (my math teacher and his too) says that he thinks he likes me (don't ya hate it wen parents talk about you) and he is showing all the signs that he does (looked it up online) but when i asked hi out (well my friend asked him out for me but i was watching) he blushed got all confused and said no. there is a dance coming up and i want to ask him if he wants to go but i don't want him to get mad at me thinking that i am stuborn and just don't get it. i really like thi guy but i don't know what to do! PUH-LEASE help me! (link)
= ] Sounds like your kind of shy.. or maybe your a little confused or maybe your not confused!

Maybe you don't know whats going through his mind/head..what his thoughts are..

But hey.. why don't you try to get to know him.. first before the dance comes! If you see him in the hall.. say a casual "Hey!" to him or you can go and have fun with it and playfully nudge him. Show him some signs.. but don't give it all away!

To me the guy sounds kind of bashful and shy.. he will not get mad at you.. (hopefully not)and just have fun with him.. show him that you care and try to get to know him. Possibly start out with easy conversations. Such as: Hey, whats up? What class are you going to? You know easy ones.. what are your interests?

Do it day by day. Easy steps. Warm up to him and he'll start to get use it. He'll eventually open up! Then once you guys open up a little bit.. possibly shock him and invite him.. to go tag along after school and go somewhere like "subway".. idk.. say this possibly: Hey! My friends and I are going to get something to eat! Do you want to tag along? (to make him feel conformable around your friends ask him if he wants to bring a friend..he may feel a little awkward without any of his friends around)


Hope.. I helped a bit!


My parents recently got seperated. I feel like everything is falling apart. Both of my parents aren't eating very much anymore and my mom is showing some strong signs of depression, nothing suicidal though. My mom has started "re-inventing" herself. She's cut her hair short and highlighted it red and got a tatoo of a butterfly on her lower back. When I asked her about it, she said "I'm not a caterpillar anymore." My sister came home from college for spring break and basically avoided everyone the whole week. I saw her for maybe 15 minutes the whole time. I haven't been sleeping in the last couple of weeks. I've been staying up until 2 and waking up at 7 and have been unable to nap during school or anywhere else(which I usually do if I stay up too late). All of this, alongside my obvious dilemma of parents getting seperated, is just crashing down on me and I can't really handle it.

I don't expect all of my life answers to be solved, but does anybody out there have advice to help me get through these times? (link)
Wow, funny i should say this but I have a personal love one in my life.. that has depression too. Lets just say this.. my parents are getting a divorce and yes, it is not the brightest of the brightest colors.. meaning: Your life isn't full of happiness possibly.. it sounds.

You need your personal space and i can't function during the day. Sounds like you have ALOT on your mind. To tell you the truth.. I am going through the same exact things. I am a bit depressed myself. But maybe possibly you could go to a counselor? I personally can't sleep at night b/c i have to much on my mind and a loved one in my family is highly depressed... I went to counseling and and they suggested an anti-depression pill. Or some kind pill to relax my nerves. With all this commotion in your life. You may be quite confused and don't know how to handle things! Cheer up!
Do something you personally like. If your sister is being an ignoramus.. b*^ch.. then possibly try to open up to your sister! Maybe your sister doesn't want to be caught in the middle with everything. Thats how i feel.. with my parents divorce.. I want to stay neutral as possible! I have an older brother.. that is feeling the same way.. but he doesnt avoid me.. He feeds me with advice.. SO maybe possibly you could try to open to your sister and give us each ADVICE!!

Hope that helped!




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