I just started going out with this guy. He knows a ton of people and is always giving like 10 girls hugs left and right everyday. And sometimes he even kisses their heads/foreheads and tells him he loves them. I'm guessing he's just really, really good friends with these girls, but a lot of girls like him and he does this with so many. Is it wrong for me to get mad at him for this? I don't see anything wrong with hugs, but it just seems like hes all over some of them..and he does this right in front of me. I'm new to relationships, so I don't exactly know if this is considered acceptable?
talktocc answered Thursday April 15 2010, 10:25 pm: i have a lot of guy friend and am going to tell you not one of them kisses me the hugging is OK friends do that all the time and i will say i tell some of my friends i love them and i think that's OK to if you have but friends for a long time you most likely do have some love for them but the kissing is a no go i would sit down a talk to him tell him how it feels that you don't like it and you want him to stop if he wont you then your better with out him. there a more then enough men in the world. wish you the best of luck hope everything works out cc [ talktocc's advice column | Ask talktocc A Question ]
Advocate4Love answered Thursday April 15 2010, 9:21 pm: the kissing and telling him he loves them i dont think is ok....hugging is understandable.Some people are just that good with other people and like to hug,doesnt mean it means anything.But like i said the other 2 things i dont think are ok..just ask him about it and tell him you are uncomfortable with it.honesty is always the best approach.Wish you the best of luck-KC [ Advocate4Love's advice column | Ask Advocate4Love A Question ]
Katlyn answered Thursday April 15 2010, 9:02 pm: Hugging is okay but kissing and saying he loves them thats not especially if your his gf so i think you should sit him down and talk to him about it and tell him how it bothers you and im sure if you talk to him he will understand and stop. Good luck :D [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
shake answered Friday September 9 2005, 6:29 pm: You're consulting the wrong people. I would recommend asking him for yourself. He'll give you the most accurate answer. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
askmex3 answered Friday September 9 2005, 6:03 pm: No this really isnt acceptable! i dont mind my boyfriend talking to girls, etc.! because you cant be a controlling gf and not let him have any contact with the opposite sex (besides you)! and even hugging MIGHT be ok..i mean it depends on the person! i personally would be a little jealous! but then kissing is a def no!! even if its on the forhead! sit down and talk to him about this, but usually guys like this refuse to change! give it a shot though and tell him how youre feeling! if he dosnet stop then i would break up with him! but remember this is all up to you, if youre fine with his actions then theres no reason you should end it! good luck!! [♥] [ askmex3's advice column | Ask askmex3 A Question ]
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