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I don't know if my Boyfriend really Loves me like he says he
Hello my name is Natalie, I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend named Don and I am really confused about him right now. He always says he loves me but he doesn't show it. I know most people would say that this is stupid but he hasn't even changed his status on myspace yet it still says single. It means alot to me because when we first went out he was so happy to say that I was his girlfriend but now it's like he just don't care. I try to talk to him but he wouldn't listen and I just have a feeling that he's just using me till he can find the next best thing.Sorry that this is long I have alot to say but what should I do.
Thanks xoxo,
Natalie F
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that might just be because he knows what you guys have is special and doesn't need a stupid site to prove it. And I would just tell him how you are feeling, be like listen. I know you have me, but you need to keep me, got it? I hope it all works out.
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uch he sounds like a real jerk. i think that you guys kinda lost the excitement of having a relationship and now you realize you dont like eachother all that much. id end it
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Hey,
Possibly he's afraid of what his friends may think and if he doesn't listen to you.. then get rid of him! Your better than that.. if i had a bf that doesn't listen to me.. then i would break up with him.."You know what.. i don't feel like we have a connection and you don't listen to me.. which is very disrespectful.. i need a guy that will actually care and listen to me." A real man wouldn't ignore you.
Hope that helped a bit!
X3 Liz
He sounds immature = [
theres ALOT of other guys out there!
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hey, well you say that you`ve tried to talk to him. maybe something`s going on that you cant read. almost anything is possible. maybe its family issues or his homelife. sometimes people get embarassed with there problems and chose not to share them with anyone. just explain to him that you`ve changed your status on myspace and those little things like that really bother you. he should understand if he truly cares about you. maybe he`s just shy? is he a naturally shy person? if so, tell him that you are his own girlfriend and that he should feel comfortable and free with you to come out of his shell. another common thing is that you`ve been going out for a while and the relationship is started to get very serious. maybe hes afraid of commitment or getting to attached and them losing you.
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Sometimes when people pull away something drmatic has happened to them. The best thing is to try anf find out why he is behaving like this and if he knows that you are willing to help he will open up to you. Alot of people seem like the type that they will tell you everything but the truth is if it is a family matter or something of that sort they will shut people. Find out why he is pulling away and he will show that affection again. If not he will continue to do it. If he knows you will stand by him he will tell you what he is feeling or what has happened.
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