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does he like me and if so when will he aske me out?
ok so there is this really sweet, funny, kind, cute ( i could go on 4ever) and he knows that i like him (along with everyone else in the whole world!) and i don't know if he likes me bc his dad (my math teacher and his too) says that he thinks he likes me (don't ya hate it wen parents talk about you) and he is showing all the signs that he does (looked it up online) but when i asked hi out (well my friend asked him out for me but i was watching) he blushed got all confused and said no. there is a dance coming up and i want to ask him if he wants to go but i don't want him to get mad at me thinking that i am stuborn and just don't get it. i really like thi guy but i don't know what to do! PUH-LEASE help me!
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well I think that you should ask him to the dance as a friend. hang out with him talk with him and have some fun! ask him wat he thinks of the dance and such. really warm up to him. don't push it to fast and I also think that you went a little overboard when you (your friends) asked him out. that probably flustered him a little. but find out what he likes... eventually become one of his best friends. my boyfriend was (and still is) a really good friend to me and i didn't know I liked him until I realized i had a HUGE crush on him the whole time. he is now my boy friend bu he was my one of my best friends first!
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aww honey, i know what you mean. guys are sooo confusing. when it seems they like you and they give you all the signs, you could me right..or you would be wrong. but in this situation, his dad should know and it seems like he likes you. so when you talk to him just be like "so are you thinking about asking anyone special to the dance?" and if he says yes, he may tell you..he maybe wont..or he may just ask you =D. and if he says no, he is probably lying haha. good luck
~~jenna
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= ] Sounds like your kind of shy.. or maybe your a little confused or maybe your not confused!
Maybe you don't know whats going through his mind/head..what his thoughts are..
But hey.. why don't you try to get to know him.. first before the dance comes! If you see him in the hall.. say a casual "Hey!" to him or you can go and have fun with it and playfully nudge him. Show him some signs.. but don't give it all away!
To me the guy sounds kind of bashful and shy.. he will not get mad at you.. (hopefully not)and just have fun with him.. show him that you care and try to get to know him. Possibly start out with easy conversations. Such as: Hey, whats up? What class are you going to? You know easy ones.. what are your interests?
Do it day by day. Easy steps. Warm up to him and he'll start to get use it. He'll eventually open up! Then once you guys open up a little bit.. possibly shock him and invite him.. to go tag along after school and go somewhere like "subway".. idk.. say this possibly: Hey! My friends and I are going to get something to eat! Do you want to tag along? (to make him feel conformable around your friends ask him if he wants to bring a friend..he may feel a little awkward without any of his friends around)
Hope.. I helped a bit! <3 ~Liz
and i hope that made sense
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heyy
so, you asked him out (got your friend to ask him out for you) and he said no?
if you still really like him, i'd say hi to him or ask him what's up to make sure you guys are cool before asking him to the dance. he may say no again and then (maybe) not really like you that much and want to stop being friends with you. you dont want to seem "obsessive" so if he doesn't say hi back or go out of his way to talk to you, i'd move on and ask someone else to the dance ( or just not go if youre really upset : / )
he COULD like you, but if he did why would he say no when you asked him out? he could have just been really scared / nervous, so i'd definitely go with saying hi to him and seeing how he reacts, cause he could have definnitely regretted saying no to you and then thinking "oh gosh, i really DID like her!"
hope i helped<3
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