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I'm 15 now, and I hate riding bitch! xD hah. driving is my legal drug! I love my boyfriend Anwar ^^ -rapes and he doesn't enjoy it because girls always win- hah, I love youuu!!! well anyways hmmm... I'm not really sure what to write here... my favorite color is pink (which isn't evil, green is) and my nicknames are Pinky, Coffee, and Freak a Leek... don't ask, wouln't tell...

hmm.... well that's really all. BLEHHH! I play tennis and I'm also a cheerleader! I also box and play piano because that's just so cool... it's also just awesome :D hah

welll... that's it! Ask me something and I'll be glad to answer xP
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18/f
I'm really into this guy I've been talking to for awhile and I want to have sex with him, he's the perfect guy and he's so sweet. He wants to have sex with me too we just haven't picked a time to hangout yet. I'm ready so please no lectures about "finding the right guy". I haven't told him that I'm a virgin, I'm guessing he thinks I'm not because he knows that my last relationship was a year and a half long and probably figures I had sex with my exboyfriend. He's not a virgin. I'm really nervous about what it'll be like, so I have a couple questions: Did it hurt/what'd it feel like? Can you compare it to putting in a tampon? I wear tampons. And should I tell him that I'm a virgin? I don't want him to go like super hard on me because he thinks I'm not. (link)
defiantly tell him your a virgin! because more than likely he'll pop your cherry and it'll be kinda awkward when he's like wait you weren't a virgin? haha :)
also it depends on the guy but for me my first time was SO terribly painful. the only thing that hurt was it going in, then after that the pain is gone and it feels great.
guys don't really care about you being a virgin or not, at least a good guy doesn't! so tell him, who knows he might find that totally sexy ha ;D
just take things naturally and don't worry about it. just make sure he wears a condom and I promise that after it's all the way in, it will be like.. awesome hahah
good luck girl!


Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good? (link)
well I use pads usually because tampons hurt me /:
but because of school and stuff I normally were tampons... I would go for this one tampon called Platex Glide.. I think? well it's really good and it doesn't hurt. whatever you do just don't get ones that are too big, I had that once... I still shudder at the memory of that pain.


Okay,
well ive given a handjob before,
but like theres this guy im with,
and i just really want to do it...good. lol

um well guys,
can yew explain to me how yew like it.

And girls can yew give me some tips.

Thankss! (link)
Also a good thing to do is to kiss him while doing it. And not cheap sloppy kisses but intimate ones! Also don't be afraid to maybe use a little tounge ;)


okay so i just got out of a bumpy ride with some other guy. it wasnt even a relationship. but it was just like an interest deal.
but thats not what im here to talk about.

there is this guy who really likes me. hes older and hes been nothing but nice and sweet to me. but everybody who knows him says hes a total ass. and when i talked to him he said that everybody thinks hes a dick and thats because they cut to conclusions. i know that they hate him bc he only wants sex from girls but what he told me was something really personal about his life that nobody really knows. from hearing that hes obviously been through alot. well he knows that im not the type of girl who goes around and has sex with random guys. so idk why hes still talking to me. and he said that he wants to show me his true self. we havent hung out much yet. but i really really cannot get involved with this kid. i feel bad and dont know how to let him know that if anything we could be friends. he texts me non stop and most of the time i try not to text back so much just to give him hints. but its not working so much.

im not completely sure what my question is but i just need advice. i cannot get involved with another one of these guys. and i have no idea why he wants to be involved with me.
i feel band and dont know what to do. (link)
Okay well depending on how old you are it could just be a rumor that this guy is an ass. But if you want to let him down easy meet up with him if its at school or somewhere non intimate, and just be talking casually and say something like I really like that were friends! Or be like I really hope you know that I enjoy our time together but I really think we should just stay friends because I don't want to get hurt again. If he says I wouldn't hurt you then say, I don't know that for sure but I know you wouldn't do it on purpose but I'm just not ready to get hurt by even if it's by accident. Then you can hug him friendly and say I hope you know that I really want to stay friends. If you don't want to be his friend then blow him off. Nicely!


So beginning of April will be and my boyfriends 1 year. Honestly, I have no idea what to get him. I know so cliche, but I seriously need help and I don't have alot of time either. I want to do/get him something special and/or something meaningful. I know yall don't know him or whatever but I need some cute ideas.. that would be greatly appreciated. He's a cute white boy, not too preppy not too boyishh? lol he can be a nerd as well. We've been through a bit and I love him to death. Thank you if you contributee to my question. (link)
This may sound crazy but the 10 ten tradational annaiversary gift for year one is books about his hobbies but also there is this amazing thing called google.com you can type in one year anna. ideas and it has ideas


what are some super easy pictures/paintings, etc. of things i could draw that can look really good drawn by someone with very little talent and not too much time. if you can include pics/examples that would be great
thanks and i will rate :) (link)
well do flowers.. like roses or tulips thoes are easy I would add pics but don't know how also you could draw an old cabin like 1800's thoes are very basic and you can just trace emm too.


hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that (link)
I'd go for it just make sure you don't get caught by your friend or the parents.. so when its "bed time" if your feeling it go on with your bad self. ha ha


so this friend told me Oreo cookies contain some kind of drug that makes kids addicted to them. I did not believe her, that sounds crazy!
Does anyone know if this happens to be true or not??
Plz Plz I wanna know (link)
no but it has been proven that caffine is addictive like coke (cocaine)


I had to reboot my computer and all kinds of things because our harddrive kept messing up. Now everything is fine, but the sound doesn't work? Our speakers are fine, the computer is just not outputting sound? Help!



Also...When i scroll down on a webpage or anything it like goes slow and breaks up and scrolls down. Like it scrolls down and then a line comes over the whole screen and goes down like refreshes it-if you get what i mean please tell me how i can change it to a regular scroll :) (link)
that happened to me and what your going to have to do is 1) buy this disc that will redownlaod sound because it probably got erased same thing happened to me or 2) get someone professional to fix it4 u.


is there any easy home-made remedy for acne scars?
Thanks:) (link)
I use 1/2 cup of milk and 1 cups of brown sugar and put it on your face and it'll also clear your pores.


hi I'm 15/f and I have never had an orgasm I need help though I use an electric toothbrush and put it on my clit and I push it hard down hard it feels really good but its a little too intense so I always stop before I can orgasm so I guess I can be kind of scared to have one but can someone help me and I'm in the bath when I try so could someone find me an Internet site or something to help me do something that won't be as intense. Thank you (link)
ok well omg I can't belive i'm going to say this but everyone experments and they say that oral is the best orgasam so when you in the bath tub lock the door and you'll have to contort your self but get it so that you vagina is facing up towards the water and give it some time but breath deep and well you'll see...


i dont know whats wrong with me. i am 14/f freshman. i am very dramatic and emotional but lately i just act like i dont care about things. my friends are starting to notice. well at my school (i switched a quarter into the school yr) there are only like 35 kids in my grade (i went from 750 in my grade at public school to 35 in my grade at a private Christian school) and i feel like they arent my real friends. i have only a couple real friends at my school. people are always judging and talking about people. since im easily upset i just started to shut off those emotions and say i dont care. im not truly happy at my school and dont act like myself. i have amazing friends that i love outside of school but i dont see them that often. like once a week. my church friends and friends from my old school. and my boyfriend of course. also im moving in June and thats extremely hard for me because im leaving my friends and the boy i love. it wont be too bad wear im moving too cause i already have some friends and im hoping to start fresh. but right now i just dont care anymore. at least thats what i say and i dont talk all that much. im serious and treat school as my job cause it is but i never really thought of it that way before. now im kinda quiet and i just do my work. i do talk to my friends of course but i was just so much different at my old school. and i just think a lot of the time. i can still be social but sometimes my friend will say something on the bus and i will be like oh, ok and look out the window. i did that today and she was like why have you been acting like this? and i told her how im not truly happy or myself there at school. what is wrong with me and what should i do? please im desperate to understand whats going on with me. thanks :] and ps i am happy sometimes like at my youth group or with my friends or with my bf. and when i talk to my friends and bf thanks again i will rate :] (link)
well I have a friend kinda like that and I believe that every girl goes through what you are dealing with so don't worry or it'll really make you depressed. So I would like too know how is it that your felling depressed is it like these people are nice or too nice or is it like they are just boring? Beause if it's boring then you probably need to look for new people to hang with, because if these people aren't fun and your not having fun then somethings wrong. But if it's like they are too nice believe me I went from public school to private in 6th grade and all through 6th grade I felt the same way you do but now im in 8th n I have 1 best friend.. one and she is the greatest thing that ever happened to me so when you move just do what I did and it may sound mean but your going to have to basicly "friend hop" so go from clique to clique till you find that group you have so much fun with that you pee your pants just standing in the lunch line..it may take a while but you can do it


ok so my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont want to, and he thinks its because i just never done one b4 but its just because i dont want to and i tihnk a relationship isnt just about sexuality, but he says its part of it, and i dont know what to do. he says he sitll loves me and what not, but its anoying and i dont know what to dooo helppp (link)
well first off men or as I like to same boys (men never mature) think about sex about ever 7 seconds! So don't let him pressure you into doing something that your not comfortable doing and if wants to break up with you then there is no reason for you to be staying with him if he can't treat you rite then he doesn't deserve you and he'll just go for some whore who will put out...but some part of me believes that depending on how old you are and how long you've been dating and if your comfortable then a man should always pleasure a girl first never the other way around so if he wants the nookie then he'll have to work for it don't give it up too easy...


16/f

ok so i have a relatively thin build, I really don't have much fat at all execpt for my stomach. And I'm not like one of those skinny girls that complain that their fat. My stomach is really gross, I always have fat hanging over my pants, I also have alot of fat in my oblique area which is kinda gross too. The worse part is that because of my petit build, my fat stomach is even more obvious and unporportional.

If anyone as any ideas of how I can get abs quickly, or any good websites I would really appreciate it

What kind of food should eat?
Or what kind of diet should I be on?

ALSO: alot of times when I do cruches and stuff, my back hurts me too much and I have to stop before I can really work my ab muscles.

I am relatively active I play 2 sports and exercise daily.

Sorry it was long, Thanks in advance!!!! (link)
Well one like I told someone earlier Trader Joe's has really healthy foods but also I don't think that it's that you fat it's that your too skinny and your organs are coming out under the ribs because your so petite so I wouldn't be trying to work on your abs as much as gaining more muscle or fat everywhere else... but if you realllllyyy wanna not believe that then seventeen.com has work outs that you get in their magazines


Do you guys have any ideas for mysapce songs? Stuff like Jimmy eat world, death cab for cutie, taking back sunday? Stuff like that
or just kinda cute songs (not about love please...ughhh)
Oh, and not rap...HATE IT! (link)
Secondhand Serenade has some really good songs but also I like All Time Low and Breaking Benjamin...


lately i havent been happy and i've been stressed and a bit depressed cause im moving in June and leaving my bf who i love and all my friends. im kinda excited to start my new life and i have a couple friends there (my one bff from when i used to live there said she will introduce me as well) but i keep eating! i have done this before but i dont want to get fat!! i always want to go to the store and buy cookies and stuff and at ome i will just keep eating for like an hour straight! what should i do?

also for this summer besides running what are some great ways to tone my thighs and butt and flatten my stomach? thanks! i will rate :) (link)
well if you sont already I would 1) suscribe to seventeen best magazine eva.. and 2) go grocery shopping at this place called Trader Joe's if there's one wherever you live it has all healthy food, the people are so nice plus they remember you and if you do decide to go make sure you tell them it's your first time cuz you get a special bag! Hope this helps but for the summer definatly get seventeen they have great little mini work outs.


Alright, so I have the iphone, and everything is pretty self-explanitory. But now, everytime I try getting online, onto youtube, or anything that requires internet access (which is basically everything other than the phone itself) says it can't find the server/ it needs to be on a wi-fi network. How am I supposed to join one? I know how to get to the whole wi-fi setup thing (under settings) but I don't know how I am supposed to know a network to join. Sorry it's confusing, but I really need help with this one.

Thanks in advance (link)
well I have wi-fi on my PSP and you have to be in an area where someone has wireless internet connected so you must find a stable connection first


ok well heres the deal or prob, theres this guy that i like and he likes me back, but today monday 1/28/08 he broke up with his gf and i think that hes going to go out with this chika named amanda but they were suppose to go out but he then decided to stay with his gf wich is now his ex, but like i was saying she was thinking about going out with his borther and fucking him and then rubbing it in josh's face for not going out with her(amanda), and i don't know what to do ,b/c i'm ingaged to this guy but not really we have bine on and off all the time for the past 5 years, and his name is dana and i love him but aparently amanda wants to go back out with him and i don't know if he wants her or me last time it was for his ex kathy who by the way is in 6th grade and hes in 9th grade, ok heres the questoin (WHO SHOULD I GO OUT WITH JOSH OR DANA?) and by the way my dad doesn't know that i like this josh guy but my dad doesn't like josh but he likes dana a lot more. but i don't know who i should date josh or dana. please any one please help me i don't know what to do? (link)
omg Dana I mean seriously Josh kinda sounds like a player not to sound mean but I know boys and believe me my bff likes the biggest player eva soo if I were you I would take our advice and your dad's opinion but listen to your gut. So wut does your gut tell you??


please i need to get a diet that works fast, obviously not like ...10 kg in a week hahaha but that it last mmm 3 weeks .. a month?? most i need its like to specify what to eat on breakfast snacks meals and dinner cause im at school all day until night so i dont have much time to go and just workout and im not trying to loose impossible weight haha which frustrate me cause i dont wanna loose thaat much but still i can't do it im 123 pounds and i want to loose 15 pounds because of my height (5'15)thank you :) (link)
Yes eating healthy is a big part but also so is exercising. Where you should start eating is at Subway because believe me I watched those commercials and I am so negative that I though the food was going to be awful and there is no way someone can loose that much weight. But I'm telling you McDonald's doesn't compare to how yummy Subway is plus you have a lot of options. I went in looking like an idiot so be prepared.


So i'm looking for an indie Rock or punk pop song (no screamo or that stuff) and absolutley NO COUNTRY songs about a guy who likes you as more than a friend, but you just like him as a friend. something along those lines. (No oldie music please) kthanks.
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Well the only song I can really think of is Who Will save your soul?? But you could just go to itunes and search for indie rock songs.




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