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hung up with the "bad guys"
okay so i just got out of a bumpy ride with some other guy. it wasnt even a relationship. but it was just like an interest deal.
but thats not what im here to talk about.
there is this guy who really likes me. hes older and hes been nothing but nice and sweet to me. but everybody who knows him says hes a total ass. and when i talked to him he said that everybody thinks hes a dick and thats because they cut to conclusions. i know that they hate him bc he only wants sex from girls but what he told me was something really personal about his life that nobody really knows. from hearing that hes obviously been through alot. well he knows that im not the type of girl who goes around and has sex with random guys. so idk why hes still talking to me. and he said that he wants to show me his true self. we havent hung out much yet. but i really really cannot get involved with this kid. i feel bad and dont know how to let him know that if anything we could be friends. he texts me non stop and most of the time i try not to text back so much just to give him hints. but its not working so much.
im not completely sure what my question is but i just need advice. i cannot get involved with another one of these guys. and i have no idea why he wants to be involved with me.
i feel band and dont know what to do.
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I think that you have every right to be suspicious... That and, since you were recently attached to another guy recently, having time to enjoy being single might not be a bad idea.
The problem with hints... Hints can be overlooked, ignored, and denied completely. Be polite but be direct. Explain that you aren't interested in a relationship right now and that the two of you could only be friends.
And if he's texting you too often... Do yourself a favor and just turn your cellphone off.
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Okay well depending on how old you are it could just be a rumor that this guy is an ass. But if you want to let him down easy meet up with him if its at school or somewhere non intimate, and just be talking casually and say something like I really like that were friends! Or be like I really hope you know that I enjoy our time together but I really think we should just stay friends because I don't want to get hurt again. If he says I wouldn't hurt you then say, I don't know that for sure but I know you wouldn't do it on purpose but I'm just not ready to get hurt by even if it's by accident. Then you can hug him friendly and say I hope you know that I really want to stay friends. If you don't want to be his friend then blow him off. Nicely!
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