hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that
gossipbabe answered Thursday March 13 2008, 9:05 pm: ok...if you really want him that bad just go up to him and ask him again if the answer is no ...seduce him in a way he'll never say no to you again ... maybe you should jump out of a cake lol ....XOXOXO GOSSIPBABE [ gossipbabe's advice column | Ask gossipbabe A Question ]
for3v3r_his answered Thursday March 13 2008, 12:39 pm: It is a one time offer?! He just wants to "hit it and quit it." Do you really want to lose your virginity to someone who will take it from you and than want nothing more to do with you? Wait to lose your virginity to someone who you care about, someone who you know cares for you in return, and someone you share a plan for the future with. If you want to kiss him, I don't reject, but keep in mind he will want to go further. Getting involved with him strictly as friends with benefits could really hurt you in the end. You could wind up wanting a relationship and he won't, or you could find out he is doing things with other girls since he is not committed to you and that will not feel good. Plus you are nervous to do something with him. This is your mind and body's way of telling you that you are not ready to do anything with this guy. Please think about this. [ for3v3r_his's advice column | Ask for3v3r_his A Question ]
babykiwi1 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 11:44 pm: well i think you should go for it. talk to him and flirt a little. he might bend to your will you know.
now lets talk about the age thing. what is your age? four years is alot. if your under 18 and he is above or if your like 14 and he is like 17 then there is still a problem. if you two do have sex and someone found out say your parents he could go to jail for satitory rape. see young girls fail to relize this even if you do say yes the age diffrents says no so you might want to check into this before you two have this sexual incounter. [ babykiwi1's advice column | Ask babykiwi1 A Question ]
PinkyP123 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 11:32 pm: I'd go for it just make sure you don't get caught by your friend or the parents.. so when its "bed time" if your feeling it go on with your bad self. ha ha [ PinkyP123's advice column | Ask PinkyP123 A Question ]
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