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ok so my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont want to, and he thinks its because i just never done one b4 but its just because i dont want to and i tihnk a relationship isnt just about sexuality, but he says its part of it, and i dont know what to do. he says he sitll loves me and what not, but its anoying and i dont know what to dooo helppp
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yeah agreed with eveyone. don't do something you don't feel comfortable doing. maybe after a while he will realize its not all about sex. cause its really not.
and if he loves you enough he will understand when your ready you will do it.!!
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Your boyfriend is not being very considerate if he is making excuses for having oral sex. Telling you that there has to be some sex in it for him for it to be a good relationship is demeaning, misguided, and just plain disrespectful.
Relationships can have a sexual part, but they can also function just find without one (and keep in mind, things like kissing and touching, those are also somewhat sexual).
If he gets whiny, just tell him no, flat out. You shouldn't have to defend yourself for holding back blow jobs, sex, whatever. Being uncomfortable, for whatever reason, is an okay excuse. He needs to realize this.
Be as firm as you can with him, and don't question your own opinions on this subject - if you don't want to give him a bj, that's fine! Really!
If he's going to continue being annoying about it, you should probably rethink who you are dating.
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dont ever do something that your not comfortable doing. people will pressure you, but if its not what you want, dont give in. talk to him about and and tell him how you feel. relationships are about being able to tell each other anything and everything that you are feeling.
good luck girl.
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well first off men or as I like to same boys (men never mature) think about sex about ever 7 seconds! So don't let him pressure you into doing something that your not comfortable doing and if wants to break up with you then there is no reason for you to be staying with him if he can't treat you rite then he doesn't deserve you and he'll just go for some whore who will put out...but some part of me believes that depending on how old you are and how long you've been dating and if your comfortable then a man should always pleasure a girl first never the other way around so if he wants the nookie then he'll have to work for it don't give it up too easy...
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