Member Since: February 4, 2008
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Last Update: March 13, 2008
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ok so my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont want to, and he thinks its because i just never done one b4 but its just because i dont want to and i tihnk a relationship isnt just about sexuality, but he says its part of it, and i dont know what to do. he says he sitll loves me and what not, but its anoying and i dont know what to dooo helppp (link)
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yeah agreed with eveyone. don't do something you don't feel comfortable doing. maybe after a while he will realize its not all about sex. cause its really not.
and if he loves you enough he will understand when your ready you will do it.!!
hope this help you out =)
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18/f & 20/m
About 3 weeks ago, I met this great guy will call him Bob. Bob has an amazing personality, and showed that he cared about me and really liked me. The first time we talked on the phone was for 6 hours straight. Then the next day we hung out for 6 hours. He tried to kiss me, but I told him that I wasn't ready just yet. Two days later we hung out again, for about the same time. We would talk about getting in a relationship and taking things slow, ect. We did kiss, which is a very big deal for me. Everything was perfect, then days went by and we didn't get to see eachother cause his car broke down. So this past weekend, he told me he could get his parents car and come over and hangout. Friday while he was working, I cleaned the house ALL day and got ready just in case. Then he texted me saying "I cant get the car till tomorrow cause my parents aren't leaving till tomorrow morning" I told him it was fine. He told "tomorrow for sure!". So I told him to call me later. And he said he would. So time went by and I ended up falling asleep. I woke up around 2:30 and checked my phone. No phone calls/text. I was getting worried something happend. So I left him a text saying "text me when you get up". I eventually went back to bed. Around noon, I texted him again and Im like "Im not sure what happened, but please call/text cause Im worried about you". So then 45 minutes later he text me. I was cleaning the house and getting ready again. Around 2ish, he called me. Telling me he was bored. He went to take a nap and I told him to call me when he got up. Hours went by, and no call. So I called him and left him a text. Still no reply. I did something annoying and kept calling and texting him throughout the night. No reply. Then I went to his myspace. I saw a girl leave him a comment, saying "babe last night was great can't wait to do it all over again tonight & ill probably text you". I started crying imediately. I went to my mom and she's like dont worry about it, Nothing probably happend. So later he goes on myspace for like a minute and deletes the comment. I cried myself to sleep which hasn't happend in a very long time. I sent him a message on myspace saying I was sorry if I was annoying him and then I knew he lied about the weekend. That I was more upset he lied to me. It got worse, she left another comment of a picture of him cuddling with him. Saying that he was a great cuddler. He read the message, and still no reply. He deleted her comment too. I really have no idea what to do. Cause he made a huge mistake and Im willing to forgive and try to work things out. Believe me, this girl is not his type at all. Maybe nothing more happend between them but I know he feels bad for what he did... Any advice is appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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omg girl im SOO sorry. that totally sucks! but i mean guys are weird like that they play so many games and its totally werid. and not cool at all..
anyways if you've tried talking to him then well he's being really odd. i mean just give him some time and let him chill yeah know? and then see how things go.
or go for a different approach and make him jealous, even though thats doing what he did to you he will get the taste of his own medicine. hopefully that heps! :) bye girl!
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