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He met another girl...
18/f & 20/m
About 3 weeks ago, I met this great guy will call him Bob. Bob has an amazing personality, and showed that he cared about me and really liked me. The first time we talked on the phone was for 6 hours straight. Then the next day we hung out for 6 hours. He tried to kiss me, but I told him that I wasn't ready just yet. Two days later we hung out again, for about the same time. We would talk about getting in a relationship and taking things slow, ect. We did kiss, which is a very big deal for me. Everything was perfect, then days went by and we didn't get to see eachother cause his car broke down. So this past weekend, he told me he could get his parents car and come over and hangout. Friday while he was working, I cleaned the house ALL day and got ready just in case. Then he texted me saying "I cant get the car till tomorrow cause my parents aren't leaving till tomorrow morning" I told him it was fine. He told "tomorrow for sure!". So I told him to call me later. And he said he would. So time went by and I ended up falling asleep. I woke up around 2:30 and checked my phone. No phone calls/text. I was getting worried something happend. So I left him a text saying "text me when you get up". I eventually went back to bed. Around noon, I texted him again and Im like "Im not sure what happened, but please call/text cause Im worried about you". So then 45 minutes later he text me. I was cleaning the house and getting ready again. Around 2ish, he called me. Telling me he was bored. He went to take a nap and I told him to call me when he got up. Hours went by, and no call. So I called him and left him a text. Still no reply. I did something annoying and kept calling and texting him throughout the night. No reply. Then I went to his myspace. I saw a girl leave him a comment, saying "babe last night was great can't wait to do it all over again tonight & ill probably text you". I started crying imediately. I went to my mom and she's like dont worry about it, Nothing probably happend. So later he goes on myspace for like a minute and deletes the comment. I cried myself to sleep which hasn't happend in a very long time. I sent him a message on myspace saying I was sorry if I was annoying him and then I knew he lied about the weekend. That I was more upset he lied to me. It got worse, she left another comment of a picture of him cuddling with him. Saying that he was a great cuddler. He read the message, and still no reply. He deleted her comment too. I really have no idea what to do. Cause he made a huge mistake and Im willing to forgive and try to work things out. Believe me, this girl is not his type at all. Maybe nothing more happend between them but I know he feels bad for what he did... Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.
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omg girl im SOO sorry. that totally sucks! but i mean guys are weird like that they play so many games and its totally werid. and not cool at all..
anyways if you've tried talking to him then well he's being really odd. i mean just give him some time and let him chill yeah know? and then see how things go.
or go for a different approach and make him jealous, even though thats doing what he did to you he will get the taste of his own medicine. hopefully that heps! :) bye girl!
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faklfndaf. this is gonna be a hard one...
okay.
go with your gut. if you still care. go for it.. but keep your gaurd up.. because he might cheat on you.. so be careful... but if you still love/like him. then go for it. but talk to him about it because if you don't then you'll never know what happened between him and that "other girl" but i hope it all works out for you..
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or im me at:
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Well do you know for a fact he did do something with that girl? You should talk to him. If he did do something with that girl, then what makes you think he won't do it again? You need prove you his trust if he wants you. You mainly need to talk to him and see what is going on, you need to find out everything he did and if he even did anything. If he did you may want to think twice about staying with this guy. He might be a player, but I don't know him so I don't know what he is like. I hope everything works out for you.
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hmm.. this is a tough one. does he seem like the type og guy to be a player? I dont know to much about this guy but maybe the girl is just trying to be slxtty and try to make it seem like they had a sexual relationship. but maybe she was telling the truth..maybe they did. well basically the answers up to you. do you want to forgive hi for cheating on you. message me back with answers. much love and good luck xoxo
-arie:)
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