Mmmkay , WELL...I really really really like this guy [ we'll call him bob ] and he was new a month or 2 ago and my group was the only ones who would hang with him.So he hung with us for a while , now he;s populerish , and he says I can hang wit hhim at breaks and lunch and he wants me to but I don't like the people he hangs with and I told him that and he's okay with it...but them we talk a lot and everything.
I asked him out 2 weeks ago and he said he didn't want to wreck the friendship.But I like him SO much...Also , my gy friends that I have gone out with / am comforatable with I flirt with a lot even if I don't like him.But with Bob , I'm trying to be suddle and everyone keeps sayin I'm flirting SO much with him ?
Anyways , I really want to show him that I'd be good as a more than a friend :) I need helllllp xD
BUT the problem is ... I'm flirting [apparentlly] and he still isn't doing anything diffrent and RAWR neither am I because i'M A CHICKEN Dx
Additional info, added Monday February 4 2008, 7:44 am: P.S.
When I said he's now popularish , me & my group aren't like losers ? but we're just a group with EVERY diffrent person from EVERY diffrent clique...We're just in between somewhere ?! Yeah so it's not like I'm on the bottom oh the food chain and he's on the top or anything.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kitkit2009 answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 4:55 pm: To me it seems like you need to sit down and talk to him. Tell him what is really going on in your head. Don't just ask him out actually sit and tell him how much you like him and if he still says no then just go along with it... even if it is hard. [ kitkit2009's advice column | Ask kitkit2009 A Question ]
lizzielovesyou answered Monday February 4 2008, 5:36 pm: maybe u should try hanging out outside of school like going to a casual movie. Nothing big like a date just a casual friend thing. But whatever it is it can't be dinner, thats to big and he may get kinda of weirded out ! Just say hey i was wondering if we could check out a movie or something you no just as friends. DONT MAKE ANY MOVES THOUGH JUST LET HIM COME TO YOU! let me know how it all works out
lots of love, lizzie [ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question ]
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