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Hey there! I'm Carey. I'd love to hear from you so don't hesitate to ask me anything! I'll reply to you the best way I can. Feel free to even send me an email!xo
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um well you might think im crazy but its true this isnt a joke one day everyone was saying my boobs were too big so it made me really mad and i didnt want them anymore so i tried to cut one of my boobs off and now i dont know what to do cuz it bleed like crazy and my mom took me to the docter but i told him it was an car accident
then i went to school and they made fun of me more and called me uno boob so i didnt want just one boob so i had to cut of the other one i think i might have a real problem cuz then they called me emo and flat so i save my money to get plastic sugery to get normal sized ones. then they said i got plastic sugery and then i wanted to cut them off again i just want to die i dont know what to do. please help me!
You shouldn't let people influence what you think of your body. Everyone is unique. My best guess is--especiall with the females, is that they are jealous that you have bigger breasts than them. If you have it, flaunt it. Don't let peoples lame words let you think of it otherwise. I know its hard, but if you give into their pressures and try to mold into their idea of "beauty" then you will never really be happy.
ok, im 14 years old. i have been sexually active with three guys. ive had sex with one 2 times an almost had sex with the third guy hours after i met him. the second guy ive done almost everything with except sex. ive known the guy i had sex with for 3 an a half years, the second guy 2 years an the third guy a couple months now but only hours before the incident. there was supposed to be a fourth guy tonight but i was to confused. did i mention all these guys are my older brothers best friends? the oldest is about 17 an the youngest guy was 15 turning 16. does this mean im a slut? even if i havent had SEX with them all, only one?
I wouldn't go as far as saying your a slut, but you are doing things that are really inappropriate for you age and that can cause some major reprocussions in the future. Back away from sex and focus on school and hanging out with your girl friends. You have your entire life to be having sex, don't ruin your teen years worrying about that now.
Every time i put in my contacts, after a little while they get dirty and irritated. When i take them out to clean them, there are are brown specks of make up on them. Its also very hard to clean and often i have to use new ones. Help? I also wear eyeliner
Make sure you put your makeup on AFTER you put them in and when you take them out, open your eye wide so it doesn't graze your makeup. Maybe you're applying your eyeliner to far into your eyes, that may be why. If you're putting on eyeshadow, tap your brush to get rid of excess shadow that could blow into your eye. Thats all I can think of. Maybe try some new solution for your contacts?
I'm only a freshman but I've been thinking about class colors, song, and that kind of stuff since graduation is comming up and I'm seeing all of the seniors enjoy everything.
The Seniors class song is, "Dancing in the moonlight" by King Harvest. I'm really jealous of their song, it's a feel good kind of song but it also is sad when it comes to graduation. So any ideas for our class song? Something just as good if not better as Dancing in the Moonlight? I was hoping for something not too new, not something that plays on the radio every day. I want a song we'll all remember 20 years from now and say wow, what a good song.
I thought maybe "Don't Stop Believin'" by Journey but I wish I could think of something better..
PLEASE HELP ME WITH SOME GOOD SONGS ! :)
I was thinking about this stuff too.
I really like "The Adventure" by Angels and Airwaves. I think that'd be a neat grad song.
i have side bangs and i don't like them because they are always seem to fall in my face and i get tired of pushing them out of the way. i want them, i just want them to kind of blend in more with my hair when its down
kind of like this:
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is there any way i could get them like that without hairspray/gel? is there a way to blow dry them? thankss
Blow dry your bangs back, dont bring them to the front. You may have to pin them back for a little while until your hair is trained to stay like that.
There are so many other girls in my school that are really pretty, but i dont feel like im one of them, because I think that I am ugly...Heres some pictures of me, can you guys please tell me what I can to to improve my appearance?
PS. please dont say that i should be happy the way I look, or that I should look in magazines or whatever, I just really want some tips..ANYTHING, and PLEASE be brutally honest :)
Thanks
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I don't know what you see when you look in the mirror but you are gorgeous!
But anyways, try curling your hair, big loose waves would look cute on you. Try some different eye shadow colors or lip glosses :) Headbands and clips would suit you well too.
Im going to make a HUGE story short. My parents have been fighting for over 10 years and didnt even sleep in the same bed. NOW FINALLY they split in january my dad left without givivng anyone notice and screwed us over big time leaving us HUGE BILLS to pay. we were never great financially and now we are worse. me and my sis have been helping my mom...$200, $300, or $500 a month whateer we can afford. I asked my dad for money. I am the only one who still talks to him since he left. I want to have some sort of relationship with my father. but he told me he wouldnt give me anything if it will in someway help my mother (HE IS A BIG BABY) even though it is helping his daughters. I want to give up on my relationship with him since it was never such a great relationship anyway but i feel so bad and sad that he may one day end up alone. He is very dependable on people but has a bi-polar like personality so it is VERY hard to talk to him about serious things. Since i asked him for moneyi havnt talked to him. he just called me because he is doing some testing at the hospital and he was relying on my to go with him. Im not there and I FEEL TERRIBLE. he is giving the doctor my number so he can call me and explain the results since my dad is foreign and has bad english. PLEASE help, my dad abandoned my family and his ex-wifes and his 6 kids with her before being with my mom. it seems like he just gets on everybodies nerves and thinks everyone is against him at times. BUT he is so Dependable on people. I can't imagine where he would end up if i cut off all communication with him. What should I DO????
Don't feel like this is your battle to take part in. What's going on is between your mom and your dad. They are your parents and they are old enough to sort things out on their own, financially, socially, etc. Your father is a grown man and you shouldn't feel as if its up to you to keep him in line. As much as you may want to, only he can fix his mistakes.
so theres this kid and he's going to college this fall. he's one of my friends and before we use to be really close but all of a sudden we started drifting apart a lot. i liked him a few months ago but don't really anymore.. i had a dream last night and he was in it and i was with him. we were at some log cabin and he had to leave and he just kept screaming "i don't want to be alone" he kept repeating it over and over again. does it mean anything? this is kinda a stupid ? haha sorry. but if someone can tell me that'd be great. i know i'll miss him a lot when he's gone...
It could just be your subconscience saying that you're wishing that he'll want you to stay with him throughout his life.
Its all up for you to interpret.
I'm confused. how come the firefighters didnt just put trampolines to catch the jumpers so they didnt all have to die? i know they werent prepared but after seeing dozens of people jump why didnt they? i cant imagine it.. i mean falling thousands of feet going at 150 mph.. which takes like 10 seconds from a high floor. and i hear that some people got killed from being hit by these jumpers.. can someone just explain to me how it was like and why they died when they hit the floor? and did their bodies totally break apart or pretty much stay intact? and what do you think was going through their minds as they were about to hit the ground or were about to jump? oh and why werent there hellicopters there to rescue people? i saw a vid on youtube where 2 people landed and it was a terrible racket.. its just the weirdest thought ever. please help.. and i hope this doesnt seem rude or anything. im 14 so when this happened i was only in first grade. then i thought it was funny, the thought of jumpers cause i couldnt imagine that at all. i didnt know they were actually dying and stuff.. and couldnt imagine how that could happen. thanks for the help btw. geez looking up all this 9/11 stuff now that i didnt know about sure is depressing.
Only those who jumped could answer the "what was going through their minds", maybe they were praying for their lives, and hoping they'll live? Or maybe they were praying for others.
As for the trampolines, that was a good idea, but keep in mind they needed as many firefighters as possible to go in and rescue and put out the fire. The city was just in complete chao's and their wasn't time to think things through clearly, all people could do was run for their lives, or literally dive in to help those in the buildings.
"How did they die when they hit the floor?"
Imagine falling from high up and hitting HARD CEMENT, it hurts enough just tripping and falling onto it, but falling from a high distance REALLY fast! It's a lot of trauma on the body. Personally I do not know how the body works when something like that happens, but I do know that there are parts of your body that if you break you can die instantly, like parts of your back, your neck, and if you get enough force to the chest it can stop your heart instantly.
Hope I helped.
My iPod Touch is jailbroken, however I dunno how to do the wiggly icons thing.. I tried searching websites but there's info about the 1.1.3 one only.
Do i need to download something for this or?...
Thanks,
KK
The wiggle is to move the icons around, if you press an icon and hold it for a few seconds it should work. But my itouch isn't jailbroken so it may not work the same?
ok so last night me and my friends went to a party down the street and my friend and i were supposed to sleepover my other friends house. but then at the last min of the night her mom siad she couldn't have anyonee sleepoverr and my friend and i were in deep shit ! my parents are divorcedd and my dad is in arizona with his wife and my mom was at her house but she didn't want my friend or i at her housee so i told her i would try to find a house to sleepover. then it ended up that no one could have a sleepover so we ended up getting a ride home to my dads house with no one home and sleeping there for the night just us to and i told my mom i slept at my friend that i was originally supposed to sleep at's house. so now my mom thinks something is up and wants to call her mom! pleasee help me !!!!!! i would appreciate not one of those goody-goody plans and sort of a white lie type thing. i didn't want this to happen like this. my friend got a little drunk from the party and we needed a place to go rather then the street. any clever idea's on how to get through this with my mom thinking i did sleepover my friends.
Here are some things you could work with:
-my friend and her mom that i said i was spending the night with are actully leaving for florida today
-my friend does have a cell phone
any smart ideas ?!?!?!?
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but just tell the truth. Lying about it can only make the situation more complicated and harder to deal with. Besides, wouldnt it be easier to tell the truth then spend hours trying to come up with a fool proof lie? The punishment may not be as bad as you think it would be.
Hey,
Okay, its not really computers, but I keep seeing the commercials on american stations about the change to DTV. I live in canada, but like 85% of my television channels are american. So What I want to know, is if the switch thing is going to affect me. And if it does affect canadians, how does it affect them, and what do you need to do in order to ensure that nothing is going to happen to my television?
Thanks!!
All the canadian stations and stuff are going to switch in 2010 aswell, but its mostly for people who have antenna's and really old televisions. If your tv is relitively new then you shouldn't have to worry.
14/F
I have a really good guy friend who I tell everything to and we hang out almost every weekend and a bit at school. We trust eachother but we have kind of passed the line that we are too good of friends. The problem is for as long as I can remember I have kind of had a crush on him but I always kept this hidden from him cause we are such good friends. People always tell me we'd make a cute couple and our parents love eachother as well. He's helped me through a TON and he scolds me when i give in to peer pressure sometiems (like trying drugs and drinking), he also is always there for me even if he wont admit it.
Whenever I bring up with him the idea of us ever dating, or why we dont like eachother he tells me that Im just such a good friend it would be ackward that he knows we couldnt see eachother like that and that its just way to weird. I hate that. I have alot of guyfriends who would never date me cause Im such a good friend of theirs.
I always help him with his girl problems and compliment him alot when feeling down and such and I dont think he gets it when I compliment him or tell him hes one of the most amazing people Ive met and a girl would be lucky to have him etc. and he always thinks im lying cause hes upset but I really mean it.
I know I cant do anything because I cant compete with all these other girls but sometimes it gets me mad that he sometimes likes girls hes met once and only talked to on msn while he comes over every weekend to my hosue and its just an impossible thought. How can i get over this?
I think you kind of have to see it through his eyes. I'm kind of in the same situation but in this case im your guy friend. You should respect his feelings and know that if its suppose to happen, it will. Don't push anything because that might scare him away. Sometimes its better to just be friends. Maybe one day he'll see into the light and realize that its you he wants. I know its hard to hear, but it takes time, and know that theres probably someone else out there better for you :)
my best friend is trying to turn everyone against me. she stabbed me in the back. she was a bitch the whole time my mom hated her and she made my neighbors hate us which we were friends with. she got me and my friend talking to a guy that we thought she knew and it ended up being an old guy. we got the police called and she lies to get out. she stole my friend from me before. and now stole them all. only 2 are still here and believe me.i did nnothing she did it all. but she changed the whole story around while i wasnt at school today and told everyone. my friends are gone and im in even worse depression. i dont know what to do i cant stop crying. i did nothing she did everything. people believe me but they still ignore me now. i cant take this. and i dono what to do. : (
I know how you feel. I've gone through similiar things. It's difficult, but you can't show weakness, because once you do, she will continue. Keep your head up. Soon the tables will turn and she'll be the be alone because people will get sick of her lies. This will be a learning experience to really figure what you want from the people you choose to be around you. It may be really bad right now, but don't give up hope. It'll get better, I promise.
heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ?
Just play it cool with him. Don't push anything that doesnt have to be there. It's okay to like him, but make sure you know what your getting into and see if that's really what you want from a boyfriend (you're already starting to figure that out with him, which is great) and know if he would want a relationship with you. Keep your eyes open because when you like someone you tend to tune out other possibilities. Let him come to you, but don't let him use you just to hook up with.
Good luck.
i have the verizon LG Chocolate. i want ringtones, but i'm not about to get ass raped by verizon's $3.00 a song shit. any websites, that would work with my phone? because most come up with an error.
any help appreciated.
Usually you can buy a kit that has a program and usb cord to access stuff thats on your phone on your computer when you plug it in. You can create and add your own ringtones (free), upload pictures to your computer, etc.. The kit itself may be a tad expensive, but it's worth it in the long run. Look up "LG Chocolate Phone Tools" and see what is out there to purchase.
Good luck :)
ok well i really like this guy who goes to my school rite. well i'm to much of a chicken to go up to him and just talk to him even tho like we kno eachother.. idk if i should tell him how i feel or if i should just stick to the outskirts...ugh i'm sooo confused what should i do? if i do talk to him what should we talk about?
Talk to him about things he's interested in. Does he play sports? How about some music he likes? Or simple things like the classes he has. It's best to try and be friends first because diving headfirst into a relationship without know the other person can be difficult. It only happens perfectly in movies and on T.V sadly.
Good luck!
Ok im in 7th grade (13/f) and i cant do fractions. i mean like 4th grade stuff. and iv told my math teacher and he makes no attempt to help. well now im in Gate way to Tech. and i thought it would be about..well tech. and it ends up being about fractions and measurement.(and i cant do that) and he keeps trying to make me get the point. but all hes doing is makeing me feel stupid cause he says the stuff in front of my friends, when he knows i dont get it. then today in class he was trying again and this time i broke. i started tearing up and he just kept going. and by then like everyone in class was looking. and my friends were like are you ok and he was like she needs to learn this. and then when he was done. i was like almost sobbing. but the tears were just rolling. and i was like can i go to the bathroom. and he let me. but this teacher doesnt get it. he doesnt know my past with learning. he doesnt get that i can only push myself so far. then my english teacher say i was crying and was like you need to get this math down blah blah blah. so she was going to call my mom and tell her about it when its not her concern. when i push myself too far i get panic attacks. like 3-7 a day. and i just got over that.
so please help. what do i do?
You're teacher obviously needs a reality check and a smack in the face. He is suppose to be HELPING you, not making you feel stupid. Try enlisting help from someone else. Maybe a teacher that you feel comfortable with? It doesn't have to be another math teacher. Some teachers are glad to help even if it is not their subject. Check and see if there are any math help programs in your school and attend those sessions, if not see if you can get a tutor.
I've seen/am friends with students that are like you and they all share the same frustration and teachers today forget that it is our parents tax money that gives them a paycheck so they need to get their attitudes and shove it out the door. Talk to your parents about it. In the meantime, just do your best, thats all that can be done. Ask some friends for help.
Don't be ashamed. I have problems with fractions too, their scary! Lol.
Good luck.
My bf wants to have sex but i'm scared.... i want to..... but its just that... i dont know... can you just please help me... please.
If you're having second thoughts, then you're not ready to. Tell him that. If he really cares for you, he'll understand and wait until you think you're ready. Don't let him pressure you into it. It's always safer to wait.
Good luck.
ok i met this guy at a party and we hooked up a cuople times and grinded and i mean we hooked up allot.. and i was leaving he asked for my number and he alls me all the time...and i think he really loves me alot thats what he syad beacuse i no i fell in love with this kid in less then a week. and he said his crazy about me..and you know you meet people at clubs and there all fake well his that guy he calls me none stop and txts me everyday since we met and im suppose to be going out with him this weeknd ...amd i stupid...or should i be worried or something...do you really think he loves me ...is this even possible please help !! ???
I think because it's been such a short amount of time, and you don't know eachother that well it can't be love. But it doesn't mean he doesn't like you, from the sounds of it he's really really REALLY into you. Just get to know him more. Take things slow.
Good Luck.