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backstabbed and cant take it i lost everything
my best friend is trying to turn everyone against me. she stabbed me in the back. she was a bitch the whole time my mom hated her and she made my neighbors hate us which we were friends with. she got me and my friend talking to a guy that we thought she knew and it ended up being an old guy. we got the police called and she lies to get out. she stole my friend from me before. and now stole them all. only 2 are still here and believe me.i did nnothing she did it all. but she changed the whole story around while i wasnt at school today and told everyone. my friends are gone and im in even worse depression. i dont know what to do i cant stop crying. i did nothing she did everything. people believe me but they still ignore me now. i cant take this. and i dono what to do. : (
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I know how you feel. I've gone through similiar things. It's difficult, but you can't show weakness, because once you do, she will continue. Keep your head up. Soon the tables will turn and she'll be the be alone because people will get sick of her lies. This will be a learning experience to really figure what you want from the people you choose to be around you. It may be really bad right now, but don't give up hope. It'll get better, I promise. <3
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Don't try to "steal" your friends back, this plan usually backfires in the end. Its hard to lose people you knew for a while, but sadly it happens. And you can't change that fact of life, trust me...
If you can, try to make new friends and keep them close. You can't really do anything about the people who hate you but hope that they realize their mistake and apologize or something.
To deal with the girl, you simply have to ignore her. Easier said than done, I know but it can work. Don't try to covert your old friends back, it can make her point seem more valid. If you can, ignore them too. Have fun with other friends and live like nothing changed. If you make too much of a deal about this, you'll have nothing to look forward to but grief and loss. So take in the fact you can make life better.
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