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What is 'doggystyle'? and how do you do it?
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Doggy Style is a sexual position where the woman is kneeling on all fours and the man enters her from behind either vaginally or anally!
Hope I helped!
ALL mY lOve: aLeX
Ok so i'm 5 feet six inches, and about 114lbs, am i heading on the right track? I'm not sure.....Oh yeah i'm also 13 years old. I'm gonna exercise and stuff to get a little more toned. Would it be healthy to lose about 10 lbs? I already know what to do to lose weight.
Thnx for the help!
DaRlING! your probably a sTicK! 5'6?! thats pretty tall... so 114 is perfect! dont loose any more weight! your pErFECT! thats awesome to exercise! but please dont do any extremes!!
aLL mY lOVe: aLEX
ok so im matured (and beyond ;)) but i still havent had my period. my friend has and shes like "oh you shave your armpits? i dont have to yet" nd all this other stuff like so shes not matured as much as me but yet i KNOW she has it! hmmmmm. . .?
13/f
HeY hUN! well honestly... everoybody just devolps at differeent times! one of my best friends who is 17... just got her period like 2 months aGo! and trust me... when you get it... your not gonna want it anymmore! how you change as a teen is kind of like genetics... when did your mom get her period....?! because when she did... you probably will 2! tIme wILL cOMe HUnNY!
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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks
hey dolL! its supposed to bring out your hair's natural highlights when you put it in and then go in the sun. (it gets lighter) me and my sister did it a couple years of years ago... and it didnt really work!
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what are some cute, but somewhat original boy/girl names? thanks in advance for your help!
hEy darLiNG!
for girls i've always liked: Sophia, Olivia, Isabella, Eva and of course my name Alex haha...
bOys: jaden, evan, luke
i duNNo! every1 has different opinions.. so you could totally hate those names...but hope i helped!
aLL MY LOvE: aLeX
what I want to know is how bad is the pain?will I regret it later or will I like and thanks for the info your really nice
Many women experience some pain or discomfort the first time they have intercourse. Most of the time, this is due to stretching or tearing of the hymen, a thin piece of skin that partially covers the entrance to the vagina in most (but not all) women. If you have a hymen, it might hurt or bleed a little the first time you have intercourse, or it might not. Some women don't experience any pain, and not all women bleed when their hymens break. In fact, some women don’t have hymens at all. Others break their hymens before they have intercourse, often with from vigorous exercise, tampons, accidents, or masturbation.
Depends on if you'll regret it or not... you will regret it if your not ready, or if you do it with the wrong person! You will love sex once you have it! LoL! so its up to you! dont let anybody tell you what to do! leave it up to yourself and what your morals are!
good luck hUnNY! aLL tHe besT! feel free to talk to me anytime! or iM me doLL! and tHaNks bY the way! your 2 sweet!
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alex I'm wondering about sex.can you help? how does it feel?
Well what do you want to know about sex? if your a girl, it kind of hurts the first time... but then feels amazing! but what else do you want to know?!
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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do
HeY hUn! omgawsh! i thought i was the only one who thought like that! the first time i had sex... i felt bad looking my parents in the eye... like i felt guilty or something because i was always their little girl! and i felt bad... kinda confused! but dont worry about it! theres NO way that they can find out! i'm sure you feel more guilty that you gave him a hand job.. which is totally normal! dont let him force you into doing That! but hey~ i'm not dissing you babe... believe me... i have definately been pressured into things! but no i've learned my lesson... if you dont want to... dOnt! remeber your parents were once yur age once 2! (hard to believe i know!) so i'm sure they went through the same things! if you want to talk to your mom about then do it! otherwise you always Have Me! haha... but dont feel 2 bad darling! experiencing sexual stuff is just part of being a teen! but remember babe.. dont let guys talk you into things! i hope all goes well! and i hope i helped! drop 1 in my box if you need further help!
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im sure you probally have heard this question many times before but what do people usally use when they shave down "there"? like razor or wax? i would really appreciate any helpful answer, thanks
You can do either! which ever your most comfortbale with! most people perfer shaving because of the pain of waxing... but shaving can leave razor bumps... if u do shave the direction the the hair grows in. waxing does slow down hair growth if ur gonna wax: First, alip the hair with a pair of scissors. Then apply wax to a very small portion - around one square inch, and pull it out with a strip. It is best if you get it done from the parlour. Also, you could wax off all the hair in stages, starting from the bikini line. Then another day you can wax a little more, and so on.
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what is a dildo.? i would appreciate any helpful answers!
Dildos provide a feeling of fullness and thrusting that many find very satisfying. Dildos can be used vaginally, anally, even orally. They can be strapped into a harness or used with just a hand. Pull it in and out, tease yourself with it, do anything that you'd experience with a normal penis.
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who sings the song mrs. jones?? the rap one..thanks!!
Mike jOnes of course sIllY! haha I LOOvE hIM!
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hey im a guy and i always feel like my penis is small, i know its not but sometimes i just look atmy self and say that it has to be bigger but it doesnt is this bad?
aWWW it dosent matter about the size hUn... it matters hOw Ya Use iT! one of my best guy friends (with the smallest dick ever) always says: "Small Cars ride fast." hahah! thats not bad! your 100% normal!
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hey! i'm 13 and I like this guy that's 14. He has a girlfriend, who I don't know. Infact, I don't know any of his friends, just him. But I will meet them Saturday. What should I do? Keep liking him and act like it, or not act like it, or stop liking him? Help mE!
HeY! well... hUn.. i think you should still like him! why wouldnt you?! but you have to keep in mind that he does have a girlfriend! you dont want to get in the way of that.... so if his girlfriend is around... dont be all over hiM! that would be totally bad! but if she isnt there... theres nothing wrong with a little harmless fLirTinG! (hey there may be an oppertunity once they break UP!) but just because a guy has a girl.. dosent mean you cant like hIm! make sure when you meet his friends... you act like yourself... and i'm sure they'll love you! steal the guY away.. i'm sure u deserve him more than his current girl does! hahah! good luck doll! all the best! if you need more advice.. drop 1 in my box!
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i am looking for a job, but im only fifteen. i know some jobs my friends have but they arent hiring. i could really use the money because i need knew clothes since i grew 4 inches from last september, and i dont have money for school stuff or lunches! i live in texas if anyone knows!
thanks
wow the 1st two answers are stupid! i totally know how you feel! because my legs grew like 5 inches in a year! haha! so we all hate the HigH waTeR lOOK! haha! when i was 15, i babysat aLL the time! i know that sounds like an obvious dumb answer... but seriously i got $$$riCH$$$ from iT! since i recently moved to my neighborhood, i put flyers in my neighbors mailboxes, and even got a full time job from IT! also.... since your 15.. (which is almost 16!) get your lifeguard certificate! i'm a lifeguard... and i earn $11.75 an hour! you do have to be 16... but you have to do training... so maybe you'll be 16 by that time! sorry if i didnt help you! but those two things have totally worked for me! if u need more info drop 1 in my box! aLL The besT hUN!
$mAY mOnEY cOme uR waY!!!$ hahaha
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im so scared, okay in a few months im getting a tonsiectimy(sp?) im getting my tonsils out. and im going to be on my period during it!! im really secretive about my periods..can they operate on me while im on it? i have to get anisteshia(sp?) that will put me to sleep
HeY doLL! Nobody is gonna know that you have your period! Unless you wanna tell them... haha no.... your tonsils are in your mouth... and your period happens way farther south! to operate on your tonsils... theres no way that they'll know that its that time of the month! just make sure wear the right kind of absorbant tampon (if you wear them!) so you dont leak during the surgery! so dont panick girl... your cool!
good luck! i hope i helped! drop one in my box if u need something else!
hope ur surgery goes great!
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Okay well laast week or so I was with a friend and she took me out iwth 2 of her friends andways long story short we were drinking and I ended up sleeping with this guy...I completly regret it now and I knw it was wrong that's not why I'm here....what are teh statistics and stuff on pulling out. And if we did it twice is tehre a even greater preganancy chance? Also I have a boyfriend and I think I lov ehim and I've never been in love before and I want him to know so bad but I just can't bring myself to tell him cuase I don't want to loose him....any help would be so apreciated....thanx
HeY hUN! well to answer your question:
pulling out (a.k.a., withdrawal) is not the most reliable or forgiving form of contraception. and you said you had sex twice... thats even riskier... because re-inserting your penis after you've ejaculated (outside the vagina) is not safe either. Within the first few hours after ejaculation, there is usually some sperm left in the urethra. The amount left behind is nowhere near the amount of sperm in the typical ejaculate, but it still presents a risk.
Statistics:
Estimated failure rate for typical use (meaning you're not totally consistent) is around 20 percent. When practiced perfectly, some researchers estimate the failure rate to be around 5 percent. This means 5 to 20 women out of every 100 who use withdrawal as their contraceptive method get pregnant.
Boyfriend:
From my point of view... cheaters never win... i recently cheated on a boyfriend... :( and without me even telling him... he found out in 3 days! and the story was totally different! word spreads fast! so tell him... it may not be the easiest thing... and u may loose your man, but it will pay to be honest about it! your honesty could score you some points, because i'm sure he'd rather hear about it from you first... then 50 people at school!
good luck hUn! all the best! i hope i help! if you need more advice drop one in my bOx!
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Hey Everyone! Well I've been kind of depressed lately over a boy situation and I really wanted a cool place 2 go party and lounge in. The problem is I'm only 15 yrs old, but I have heard of Club Abyss...>I was just wondering if there are ne other cool places where teens can hang out in. If ne 1 knows a really chill place please let me noe the club name and where its @. Thnx in advance. Xo.
HeY hUN! well it totally depends on where you live! i live in minneapolis... and there are tOns of clubs eVeRywhErE! i LOVE clubbing! chances are... the bigger the city... the moRe the clubs! there are mostly 18+ clubs... but of course the clubs have teEn night! most teen nights u have to be 16.... but there are a couple of 15+ clubs! and plus if they dont check id's then... wHo cares?! haha so just look online for possible clubs to go to! just type in your city! for example: Nightclubs in Minneapolis MN and then you'll find out which ones have teen nights! and clubs are an eXceLLeNt place to meet tons of hot guys and hopefully get over tHaT gUY! hOpe i heLped! gOOd lUcK doLL! dRoP 1 iN mY box if u nEED mORE heLP!
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what is anal sex
when a guy sticks his penis up the ass! haha
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i give my boyfriend hands jobs but i dont think it works how am i suppose to and i have given my bf head but that doesnt work or at least i dont think it does how can i get better or do it just to make sure i do it right
HAND JOB: Explore every square inch of his genital surface area. A man loves to have his penis worshipped, played with, tickled, fondled, massaged. Let him know that you are not afraid, ashamed or disgusted. Don't start stroking or jerking quite yet. Just feel the fullness of it all. Let your fingers run from the balls to the top of the cock head, swirl around there, then slide back down the other half and end back down at the balls. The movements should be swift and smooth, without bumping or stalling. Now you're ready for some stepped-up action, but you don't want to suddenly lapse into a series of beatings, whackings, jackings and jerkings. Tease the more sensitive areas of the penis. These include: the glans and corona, and the tender part of the bottom side of his penis.
Bring your palm up to the top of the glans and park it there flat out, fingers held together and stiff, thumb pointed straight out. Spin it around as if you were trying desperately to remove the tight lid of a jar. Your man will be groaning in delicious agony. The glans is super sensitive and this motion will bring him exquisite pleasure. He might grimace and cry out, and probably try to push your hand away, but he's loving every second of it. Now's your chance to be the one who plows ahead even though he's pleading with you to stop!
After you've done this for a while, slip your hand down his testicles and ever-so-gently grab them in your fingers, softly tugging them down away from his shaft. If they are big and bulky, like Grade AA eggs, bounce them up and down a couple of times in your hand. Tell him how heavy they feel, how sexy they are.
Whatever you do, don't squeeze them! This could put a real damper on your lovemaking for the rest of the day. You might notice that one of his nuts hangs lower than the other. This is perfectly normal. Once you feel comfortable with the way his balls feel in your hand, gently roll them up the underside of his shaft. Depending on their size and the amount of room in the scrotum, they will most likely reach to half way of his penis. He will like the way this feels.
Now, let go of his testicles and bring your fingers together in a makeshift goosehead formation. Very lightly, begin to stroke his erection with your fingers, running them all over his sensitive shaft and balls. You may wish to slip the pocket of your goosehead handhold over the tip of his penis, letting it rest there for a few seconds.
About this time, the penis will probably start to emit its natural lubricant. Pre-seminal fluid is nature's way of moistening the canal of the urethra so that the spermatozoa can swim more easily out of it; it also lubricates the head of the penis. An uncircumcised penis gathers up this lubricant within the foreskin and keeps the head very moist and slick. Use the juice to lubricate the shaft. Sometimes, its musky smell can be an aromatic aphrodisiac for you both. If there is little or no pre-cum, don't be concerned. It is not a requirement, and it doesn't always appear at exactly the same time.
BJ: Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of his shaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretend to take a bite of him, very gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wet him again with your tongue and use your hand to spread the liquid around if necessary. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than a dry one. Your left had meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratching them lightly with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behind and underneath the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area just before the anus, or even to run your fingers over his anus very lightly. Since the muscles that cause erection originate back there, this will produce a reaction in his cock. After you've licked his shaft lots of times and it's all wet and hard, your man is going to start squirming with frustration if you don't start getting serious. A quick look up at his face will let you know when you're taking things too far. Teasing is great...to a point. A little experience in giving blowjobs will educate you as to just when that point has been reached.
On one of your upward swings with your tongue, from the base of his shaft to the rim of his knob, don't stop. Continue your long, wet lick over the top of his cock, lingering at the hole in the center. Stick your tongue into it, if you can, but don't suck the head yet. Now run your tongue around the rim of his knob, all the way around, making frequent passes on the tender skin directly facing you. This is where most men are the most sensitive, but not all men! That's one thing a good cock sucker has to learn to do, as soon as you're comfortable, that is. Ask questions. Each man is unique and so is his penis. Squeeze the shaft and see if some clear liquid pops up. If it does, dip your tongue into it and pull away. It will stretch with you and look fantastically erotic to your partner. Now, make like you love the stuff. Close in on that penis head like it was chocolate icecream and take the whole knob into your hot mouth. Hold it there. Listen to him moan. Now down quickly and take as much of his cock as you can get into your mouth. Don't worry, you won't choke. If you bend your neck in just the right way, you can take it clear into your throat. Stay there, with the cock down your mouth, for just a moment. Feel it inside of you. This can be almost as luscious as having one in your vagina. It grows on you. At this point you can do several things. This is one of them: Slide back up to the tip of the penis and flick your tongue against it. Your man will be getting antsy now, wanting you to deep-throat him some more. But don't let him bully you. If he had his way, it'd be over in two minutes and what fun is that? Moving as fast as he can handle it (don't let him come yet), slide up and down on his cock as if you're having intercourse. If he gets too close to coming, stop, or at least slow down. If you can't get all the way down to the bottom of his penis, you can cheat a little by using that right hand of yours to complete the sensation of deep throating him. It still looks as if you've got the whole thing in your mouth and still feels like it. You can also slide your fingers, made in an O-shape around the shaft, up and down with the rhythm of your sucking.
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my boyfriend asked me if i ever had an orgasim while having sex w him and i said no and i dont even know, is it wrong to not have an orgasim and how do you even know if your having one or not
hey! omgosh.. sorry for not getting 2 your question sooner! i havent been on this site forever! But an orgasm is defined as the peak of sexual arousal when all the muscles that were tightened during sexual arousal relax, causing a very pleasurable feeling that may involve the whole body. During orgasm, many women's heart rates skyrocket, their breathing quickens, and their blood pressure rates increase; muscles throughout their bodies spasm, but mostly those in the vagina, uterus, anus, and pelvic floor. To put it mildly, orgasms feel good. you will definately know if your having one.... because of the reasons above... trust me.... LoL.. hope i helped!
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