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im a lover of coffee and caffeine. One day I tried to consume as much caffeine as possible so that I would have energy that day. I had one energy bar, a cream soda, and two cups of coffee to get a lot of caffeine. After all that, I was really energized for a while, but that I felt like crashing and was talking sluggish and walking funny. After that, I ended up having some emotional problems. Got irritated and started crying for no reason. I know this happens when consuming so much caffeine, but I was just curious to know what the caffeine did to me to cause me to be an emotional wreck. I looked on the Internet to try to find answers, but all I could find was that it can leave you with anxiety. Anyone know the answer? (link)
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Caffeine can lead to:
•A fast heart rate
•Anxiety
•Depression
•Difficulty sleeping
•Nausea
•Restlessness
•Tremors
•Urinating more often
•Vomiting
Stopping caffeine suddenly may cause withdrawal symptoms. These may include:
•Drowsiness
•Headaches
•Irritability
•Nausea
•Vomiting.
I highly suggest you do not take that much of a caffeine intake again, or it could cause serious problems like bone thinning, etcetera. Your body has an energy tank, things like fruits can even make it go up a little, but caffeine and high intakes of sugar can spike up your energy tank, and then drop back down suddenly, which will make you feel like a zombie, and frankly, isn't always best for your body.
Hope this helps~
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My two best friends are at war. All simply BC my friend, who will be referred to as K, and I were talking during recess while we were waiting for her, O, and our other friend, A. We were in the far corner of the school yard and we turn to see them look at us then turn away. We thought they wanted to talk in private so we left them alone. A and her "friend" B walked over to us and began to yell saying we were being "rude." Eventually, we got over this part. I still don't like A or B, but whatever. O and K pretty much ignore each other completely and O sends me to tell K stuff. I'm kind of in the middle, not wanting to take sides, even though K is right BC she did absolutely nothing wrong. What should I do? (link)
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Tell them to get over themselves, especially O. Tell them that this fight is stupid and you're not going to be their in between anymore. It may seem harsh, but it's the truth and they won't stop this ridiculous fight unless someone makes a move. Try explaining what happened, to O, and if she doesn't believe it then that's her fault. They were just starting pointless drama, and it needs to stop.
Hope this helps~
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My ex and I broke up nearly a year ago. Before that, we were dating for 3 years and best friends for 2. I was insanely depressed when we broke up - I couldn't sleep for a month, slept too much for another, and hardly ate for 2 or 3 months. I didn't start feeling better for a really long time, and when I did, he came back into my life. He said he missed his best friend and still wanted us to stay in each other's lives.
In trying to be friends, one thing led to another and you could say we became friends with benefits. I was fine with that; I wasn't trying to get him back or anything. After a while though I realized I couldn't keep doing that. I still had (have) intense feelings for him. So we stopped.
I just found out he has a new girlfriend. She's absolutely gorgeous, and seems to have a lot more in common with him than I ever did (one of the many reasons we called it quits). I'm trying to stay rational and think that she's great for him, and I should be happy that he's happy - or at least, not be bitter. But it stings...really bad. I feel so stupid for being his plaything while he found someone better for him...and for still being in love with him.
It's currently 7:56am and I've been awake for 3 hours. That's after not being able to fall asleep until past 2am. I can't expect it not to hurt but I'm terrified of falling back into the depression I felt a year ago. The sleepless nights have apparently already started and I've been throwing up a lot ever since I found out (not intentionally l; I just literally feel sick to my stomach).
I know everyone says "focus on yourself, find someone better, stop thinking about him, forget he exists, etc" but it's ridiculously difficult to see past all this to get to that. Keep in mind, it's been about a year. And I'm still in the same place I was when it first happened. Any way I can avoid having this hurt to bad? Or am I really gonna be forced to feel it out until the end (link)
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You're definitely not going to feel like this for ever. It just takes time. You will move on eventually and find the person you're meant to be with. I know what people say might seem ridiculous, but it really is up to you how your life goes and how your happy ending turns out. Just go with life and do things you enjoy like see the world or party with friends a lot or aim for success. Those symptoms sound pretty serious, and I suggest if it gets like that again, to seak help I'm therapy or medication. (There is all natural meds, too) but try to distract yourself with things you like, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.
Hope this helps~
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Okay , so I'm starting off by saying that i met this girl exactly six months ago and we started off as friends and we got close like i know her life she knows mine and we just care about each other soo much and we don't let people break up our friendship and keep in mind were friends and we never did anything never kissed (etc) but recently on thursday we kissed for the first time and we were just hanging out and then we started making out and then at random times we stopped and then ill be on my phone texting my friends and then she moves my chin to her lips and we started making out again and then after of an hour of making out and messing around we was leaving so i put on my shoes and she was on the bed just sitting and i had to check the bus app and i had my hand on her lap and i was sitting on a desk chair and then out of nowhere she pulled me back and started making out with me and then after that i went to go get my skateboard and leave she grabbed me back and then started making out with me. Then later on the phone she said us making out was "whatever" and mean while we were kissing we kept saying i love you and Promise you won't leave and stuff and later on she keeps saying its whatever and i think that she doesn't care we maked out does she like me or not or is she trying to hide her emotions ? (link)
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She could've regretted it and that's why she is trying to sugarcoat it, or she is just messing with your emotions. Either way I think you should confront her and ask if she sees you two going anywhere, or if that was just a mistake to her. Make sure you're not just a boy toy or friends with benefits if that's not what you want. But definitely talk to her about it.
Hope this helps~
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I am female and I am 43 years old. The guy I like will be 47 in 3 months. We live in the U.S.A. .The guy I like at work that said he wasn't interested in me is now going out of his way to walk by me since I have started ignoring him. I saw him one time in the hallway at our job,and I was going to go in the area where he was to get to the area I needed to get to but when I saw him and he saw me I looked at him shook my head and went the opposite direction to get to my destination. I didn't shake my head at him on purpose it was just automatic. Ever since then he comes by where I am working and walks by me,looks up at me or glances at me. Some how he was Always scheduled on the same days I was even though he works a different shift than I do and he has a different manager than I do and his Manager knew that I liked this guy. Could he be interested in me now ? How do I get this guy. I don't want to lose any chance with him because I Still like this guy but I am afraid that he will stop liking me if I keep ignoring him. Please I need help with what I should do so I don't lose any chance with him !!
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Usually when someone does that, it means they like you. With guys, I think you should wait for him to make the move. It may make him like you more considering people want what they can't have.
Hope this helps~
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Thank you for the advice you gave me about when I asked what was wrong with me. I do have a question though. If I do have depression than why are there times when I am happy? There are times when I feel like nothing could go wrong than all of a sudden my mood will change and I'll feel like the world is weighing on my shoulders. I looked up depression and it does shows some of the signs but it's not constantly going on 24/7. Sometimes it's every day and sometimes it's every week when it gets real bad, but when things bother me my thoughts seem to overwhelm me. I already have medical issues such as migraines and stomach illness that I'm on medication for, but I have allergies and orthstatic hypotension that always causes my mom to worry. I have passed out from it three times and twice was in the same day. The doctor said I'm gonna have to be on medication for that too.If there was even a chance I had depression and I told her, that would only cause them to watch over me all the more and never let me out of the house. I don't want to tell them because they are always checking on me from the orthstatic hypotension and I don't want to add more to it. Even if I did, I doubt they would believe me, 'cause I usually bottle up my feelings. I try not to let things bother me too much, but it seems like throughout the week, one moment I'll feel normal, then perky, and depressed. If I have depression how could I feel real happy at some points, and at some point feel nothing at all, while at other points I feel like anything will set me off or cause me to break down? (link)
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There are several different types of depression. I actually struggle with about the same one you seem to, where it is off and on. That happens to me too, where I am happy for a bit, but then the tiniest little thing could send me spiraling down into a deep depression. Depression works that way sometimes. Out of nowhere it could hit, and it usually hits hard. That's why medication is there, to help balance it better. (Even though my all natural stuff doesn't always work if I am Really depressed about something, but usually does) I understand your concern, but your depression could get really out of hand and make you do something you regret if you don't seak help. You could maybe ask your cousin or someone to help you get some kind of help? Like all natural meds, maybe? But I highly suggest you do something to help it.
Hope this helps~
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It seems like every day I go through the same issues. I feel like the whole world is against me and I feel useless and unwanted. I'm homeschooled and don't live near my church so am away from people my own age 90% of the time. When I am around people my own age, I always try to be the person they want me to be. I just realized that I don't know who I really am and don't know who the real me is. I don't get calls very often, but when I do, I always go over how I'm gonna act. I always act super happy, even times when I'm not. I've always felt like outside of family, there is no such thing as a true friend. Those that I get real close to that I'm not related to, always seem to let me down in the end. i used to feel I could trust everybody, but now I feel I can trust no one. For the past few days, I've just felt like crying. I'm always worried about how my life is gonna end up. I'm always worried that I'll fail at a job, relationship, friendship, family relationships, marriage, parenting, everything. I'm 16 wanting to move out when I'm 18, and constantly worried that I won't be able to pay the bills and will be a burden for my roommate, I don't even know how To move out. I feel like the whole world is against me, and it's become where I feel the only one I can truly depend on is myself. My cousin is the only one I believe will always be there for me through to the end of time. I know I don't have depression, because I'm not unhappy 100% of the time, it's just gotten where I go through major mood swings, and they are really hurting me. I'll be happy one minute and I tend to overthink things and it causes me to lose it. I usually keep my true feelings bottled up till I'm alone. I'm constantly thinking of moving out and feel very unhappy with my life. I feel helpless, unwanted, and trapped. I go through major mood swings over little things and its made me lose control of my thoughts causing me to feel like hurting myself even over the little things. Sometimes I do hurt myself. I usually try not to let things bother me, but lately I've been helpless. I feel I will never make friends, and that my life will be a total failure. This isn't something I will ever tell my parents, and I don't want to talks someone over the phone because it makes me uncomfortable. I am fine using websites though. There are many times when I'm happy so I have to ask...Whats wrong with me? And how can I get help without anyone knowing? (link)
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Everything you are listing are signs of depression. To someone who struggles with depression, I can tell. I suggest you get help for it. You can let these things go by, because they won't, and it will get worse. You should take medication, get therapy, or both. You don't have to tell your parents everything, just that you get really sad a lot and you think you should get help. You may think this is small, but it's serious and can get bigger. You can at least take all natural anti-depressants. I take one called St. John's Wart (not as weird as it sounds) and it really helps me. You should talk about these things to people, it could help. I know everything could seem hard and that it is crashing down, but it will all work out how it is supposed to. The world is not against you and you are not useless or unwanted. Everyone has a purpose, and people want you even if it doesn't seem like it. Things might seem heavy, but you can cross that bridge when you get there. Once you get in college, friends will come easier. You'll be fine, and everything will be fine. You can talk to me whenever if you need it.
Hope this helps~
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A guy I have been with on and off for a year told me that he wants to start all over in our relationship like when we were just talking and getting to know each other. and get back to the basics like with no drama, hostility etc and rekindle our romance. He informed me that he was not ready for a relationship right now due to him being busy in a fraternity, the fact that we are in different colleges, and he thinks we need to fix ourselves before we can be 100% together. Both of us have been wicked stressed with things and I think that has been causing a strain on our relationship. He said that he would like to keep in contact regularly and see where things retake us and he believes it is our best shot at fixing things. He told me to not worry about anyone else, because he is not looking for anyone else. Just wants to focus on himself. I don't know what this means (link)
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He clearly doesn't have time for a relationship in his life atm, and seems to need to figure some things out and get ahold of himself before committing, and you may need the same. He seems to really like you, and if this is what you want then you should go with it. It doesn't mean he doesn't want this, he just needs a little time.
Hope this helps~
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I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been thinking about options out of life for almost three years now. I keep finding things to hold on to and I try to look for the little miracles in life but it's getting harder. I'm honestly so sick of living with who I am and things seem to only go downhill. Last year in high school I had to deal with a lot of sexual harassment and was beaten and had someone forcibly remove my clothes in the school. I've always felt sad and upset before that incident, but after the constant torment last year my self esteem has plummeted and I just want to die. My parents don't understand why I'm so upset (especially because I have a loving family) and they make me feel bad for feeling these emotions which only hurts me further. I'm at my last breaking point and I'm not sure where to go from here. I don't want to die, but it feels like the only way out. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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You seem very depressed, so I suggest you try getting help. Counseling could greatly help you, and especially getting medicine for this kind of thing. There are even all natural anti-depressants, like I take one called St. John's Wart, (not as weird as it sounds) which really helps with my depression. But you still should talk about this stuff with people. Try explaining to your family what is going on with you so that they can help and understand better. Trust me, it is So much better knowing you have support from the people around you. You can also talk to me whenever you need it, if you want. But please seal help. Death is never the only nor right option, and life can get better if you just stick with it and get help with these things. You don't have to go through this alone, and there are so many beautiful/amazing things to life worth seeing. Don't give up and just get some help.
Hope this helps~
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Do I use ma virginity wen I use ma finger (link)
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The real meaning of losing your virginity isn't necessarily having sex, but more of breaking the ring of skin outside your vagina, then once it heals it doesn't really break again unless you go like really hardcore sex or something. So some girls accidentally break this ring with things like tampons, or masterbating too hard (or with something too big). Does that mean you have had sex? No. But if you tear the ring of skin (and it will bleed) then you technically have lost that, but you could just lie about it or something if you want.
Hope this helps~
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Hey! I'm a biologically female 15 year old. I've been really confused and twisted on my gender of late and I was hoping you could help me untangle the mess. So I'm a biological girl, and I'm okay with that most of the time. But I dress like a boy and have sudden impulses to cut off all of my hair. I just cut the hair off of old barbies instead because I tell myself that I'll regret cutting my hair. The impulses I feel to cut off my hair can last anywhere from half an hour to a month. I walk around the boys clothes section at stores, wishing I could pull off the guy clothes better. I'm okay with being a girl like I said, but I long to be a boy when I think about both my near and distant future. Let me explain that. I want to start a YouTube channel sometime this year, but I want to be a boy on YouTube and want my followers to see a boy. When I think about being a biologist when I'm older, I think about being a male. When I think about boys that I like, I really only enjoy thinking about being intimate if I think of myself as a boy. It's weird. I feel like if I stayed a girl I'd regret it, but if I transferred to male, I'd regret that too. (link)
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Well it is entirely up to you, what you do. It seems that you genuinely want to be a boy, but maybe are just afraid to take that first step to getting there. So maybe what you could do is get your hair cut (don't suggest doing it yourself) and then see if things take off from there. If not, then you can be the cute girl pulling off short hair, so either way it works. It is really up to you considering it is your life and your body, so it is best to do what you want on the matter.
Hope this helps~
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Hello! I am a 16 year old girl who has just been asked to prom. The guy who asked me is a senior who has an underclassmen brother (as do I). He told me that even though he asked me, he wants to take his brother and I could take mine so they can both get into prom. I loved that idea because I wanted my brother to go and it seemed like a perfect plan. Now all of a sudden this other guy who I have had strong feelings for in the past has started talking to me and told me that he really likes me. Would it be wrong for me to continue talking to him while I'm going to prom with someone else? I don't have feelings (other than friendship) for the senior I'm going to prom with and he knows that, but I still feel bad for putting all of my attention on someone else.
Any advice is greatly appreciated! Thank you! (link)
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There isn't any thing wrong with that considering you guys are practically going as friends, and are doing it for your brothers sake. As long as nothing happens, and the guy that is taking you doesn't try anything or really likes you, then it should be fine. Just explain the situation to the guy you really like.
Hope this helps~
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I have bought home pregnancy test .but m confused whether which time will be good to test it ?plz help me. (link)
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A lot of people say first thing in the morning, like the first morning urine of the day. But if you do that, you have to try and not go to the bathroom in the middle of the night or anything like that. It varies, and there isn't always a "best time," but since some people say so, you could definitely try the morning one!
Hope this helps~
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This will be very long sorry, I just need to understand....
Okay, so I'm 16 from the USA. I'm a very shy home schooled church girl and I'd never really talked to a guy let alone dated or did anything with one.
One day my one friend(we're super close we basically consider each other family) and her boyfriend went mud bogging one day and I tagged along. They went with a bunch of his friends that I didn't know and most of them were of course guys.
After that when I went home my friend(let's call her Meg) messaged me and said that one of the guys there was going to snapchat me and to look cute and be nice.[this happened on Wednesday]
So I did talk to him, and I liked him a bit so the next day we ate lunch together at subway(I'm homeschooled and he's graduated but the age difference isn't too big of a deal because it's the same as my parents) so we talked for a while and I went home right after and we texted the rest of the day. [Thursday]
The next day I texted him all day because me and Meg were babysitting but after she and I went to go see him for a few hours at his house. It was also the day of our(and also my) first kiss.
[Friday]
The next day didn't go so well. Me and Meg were going to work with her horses for a bit then we drive 45 minutes away to go shopping then pick up her boyfriend from work since his truck broke and go to 'my guys'(as Meg calls him) house. Thanks to Megs mom we didn't end up leaving till way later than we wanted to so we didn't get back in time to pick up him up so we asked 'my guy' to since him and her boyfriend are friends. He didn't want but he did. When Meg and me got to his house there were people yelling and it was awkward so we left right away taking her boyfriend with us and 'my guy' was going to meet us at my house. Before he got there he said he didn't want to come because he was mad about something that happened earlier, I told him he didn't have to but he came anyway. All four of us when to subway and it was fine until 'my guy' started just making mean comments to Meg then said something about us being there the night before not letting him sleep and such. Obviously every one got pissed off by this and we all left, Meg taking her boyfriend home and I was left to talk to him. We did and I forgave him and everything then he came into my house talked to my mom for a while then left. (Saturday)
This day my parents were gone for a funeral and wouldn't be back until the next night. He came over to my house around noon when Meg was there, Meg got her boyfriend and we were all at my house even though most of the time me and him were downstairs in my room while they were upstairs in the living room. They left around 6 or 7 to go to her boyfriends and around 8 someone was coming to my house to stay with me because my parents were gone. We stayed in my room for a while then went upstairs and sat on the couch to wait for the person to get there and that was when we had our(my) first make-out session. When the person got there I sat upstairs with them while he went down stairs. I went back down after a bit and we layed there and watched a movie, during the second movie though we started kissing again and he started to get a little touchy. The two times he started to touch well, that area, I'd grab his hand and he'd stop(he knows I don't want to lose my virginity for a while and said to let him know if he did too much) after that he went on his phone and he got upset because his ex was giving him shit after that we sat on my bed and started talking and he said that he cared for me a lot but like didn't feel 'like' was a strong enough word but it was too soon and to strong of a word for him to say love. I said it was the same for me too which it is, but I'll say more about that in a bit. But we started kissing again and I felt bad that he wanted to do more but I wouldn't let him and that his ex was upset with him(which is indirectly somewhat my fault) so when he put his hand on his, well you know, I didn't fight it. Nothing went in my mouth(or vagina but you should know that) but you can guess what I did.
This was when I realized I cared about him way too much for such a short time and I was a little frightened by it. A week earlier I never would have considered so much as kissing yet here I was doing this no matter what my reasons were..
We laid there after for about an hour and he left.
[Sunday]
This is the day when I need the most advice from.
Me and Meg were hanging out all day until around 5 when we went to my house and he came. We sat upstairs with her until she left at 7 a first nothing happened we just laid there and watched a movie. When the movie was over we started kissing again and started to do stuff but again I said no the most that happened was that he cupped and kissed my boob for about a minute and he started rubbing above my pants for a little bit when I pulled his hand back. I was sitting on his lap and we were kissing when Meg walked in absolutely terrifying both of us. She came in to grab something then left, we talked for a bit about it and he started rubbing above my pants again and said that he'd wait until I was comfortable before doing anything else then stopped after a minute he asked if i felt anything when he did stuff and I said yes, and it scares me a little so we talked about that and I said "maybe we should slow down we did meet 5 days ago." he said he understood, we said bye and he left.
After he left I messaged Meg(She knows what we did the other night and had been making fun of me for it ever since I told her) saying how long did you laugh about this time? expecting her to joke back but she messaged me and was totally serious and said "what were you doing" i said nothing like last night because we didn't. And she was even more serious saying "what did you. you've known him for 6 days, not been dating, known him. Do you realize how fast you're going" And i said yes, you're right and I did tell him we needed to slow down(I also texted him after this conversation and told him so again) she asked again and I told her I was sitting on his lap and we were kissing that's all since that pretty much was it. and that was Yesterday... haven't talked to Meg since that conversation and haven't talked to him since around 10 last night
I guess I just need advice, any all advice you are willing to give... should I tell Meg everything in detail or is it not a big enough deal to bother with? and I don't know...(and don't says something like it's none of her business, because we've known each other long enough and are close enough where it is and she's only concerned for me.)
Also I like him alot... I'm falling hard and since I've never so much as had a crush before, it's almost overwhelming and I don't know what I'm turning into... I actually considered the things he wanted to do and my virginity is a big deal to me.(but common sense and my own stubbornness took over and I couldn't say yes) If it weren't for the world we live in and the fact that I don't know if I can wait that long I would wait until marriage happily. I don't want to stop talking to him but I don't want to do something I'll regret or get hurt either... i don't know.. anything you would be willing to say would be appreciated, and sorry again for it being so long (link)
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It is totally up to you whether you tell your friend or not. You pretty much summed it up for her, and if you didn't do too much more and nothing serious, it really isn't that big of a deal. The guy said he understands, and if he really does and really does "feel more than liking," then he can respect your wishes, and if it is really important to you, then don't let him or anyone else change your mind about that. I get what you're saying though, and temptation can be super hard, but that is when you have to really focus on your priorities the most. It is up to you what you do, but don't forget to not lose yourself and your standards(also for yourself) in some guy (even if he may be more). Anyway, I suggest taking it slow considering it has been pretty soon, but it is never too soon to fall in love!
Hope this helps~
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I've been in a relationship with a guy for 2 months; known him for 2 years as a close friend. He's done a lot for me and generally has a good heart. I can tell he really likes me and we get along great together. I get along with all of his friends and he does with mine. I thought everything was going great but I found out some news from his best friends girl. He told me not to trust her because she was a friend of his ex and that she was crazy etc. We ended up talking and she told me everything. She isn't friends with his ex anymore because of a falling out and she let me know that he was talking to other women. She said she didn't even know we were exclusive (even though he introduces me as his girlfriend to everyone he knows) She also told me that he doesn't like us talking which I already knew. She even said he would cheat a lot on his ex too which he said he didn't (although he told me he cheated on his other ex) I dont know what to believe anymore. Was she lying? I'm very confused. She did however say that he really likes me and she heard that from him and his best friend. But if this is all true this is a major deal breaker. I've asked if he was cheating and he denied it although admitted to having dating profiles that were inactive. I don't know what to do anymore. Some advice would be great. (link)
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Well if someone else said this girl you're getting your info through is crazy, then I don't see why you should listen to her. Either way, I think you should talk to him about it. Whether you're scared that he will get mad that you've been talking to her, or whatever else reason, it is very important to communicate in a relationship, and that is the best option to go with. Just tell him all that she said and see what he says and how he acts. Ask him if he is legit talking to other girls (like not just friends) and all that. You also need to tell him that if he thinks he might cheat, then the relationship needs to end. People can cheat in the past, I know I have but that was in the past and I know better now and would never do it in the present/future, so people can change. You have to keep that in mind. But just definitely talk to him about it. And if you aren't satisfied with the results, then do some factual research yourself on it.
Hope this helps~
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Can i get pregnant after sex through anus (sperm coming out of my anus) (link)
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No, only through the vagina.
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So I've been having dreams about my boyfriend and this same guy that I swear I've never met. But this one dream I had last night held more meaning, but I don't know exactly what it meant.
So I was on this dark wooden dock thing. And this woman with black hair walked up to me, handing me a light blue sweater (I looooooove sweaters. I stared at it in pure awe as I smiled. And she said something like, "He bought this for you." Then she disappeared and I walked into this building. I walked into one of the rooms, and I saw the guy that I've been having CONSTANT dreams about there. Then I looked into the room beside this one, and I saw my boyfriend with his old hair watching TV. He looked over at me and smiled. I looked sad, holding up the light blue sweater, then slowly turned away. Suddenly I was in a lime green car, and I felt my close friend's voice say, "You gotta tell him."
When the woman and my friend say "him"... I don't understand if they're talking about my boyfriend or the guy I've been seeing in 95% of my dreams...? HELP! (link)
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Well I'm guessing you're not cheating on your boyfriend or anything because then the dream would make sense, has he ever cheated on you though or like you have suspicions? Because that could make sense, too. But it could be something of your future? And the guy you will be with? It is hard to say what these things mean for sure, but there are specific people for that like most psychologists study dreams and stuff, so they could probably help you. It could just be a coincidence. I have had re-occurring dreams before that haven't meant much, except that I could be bothered by something. Keep an eye out for this guy and see if any dreams have signs that connect or something.
Hope this helps~
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Thank you so much for the advice you gave. You said mostly online dating is hell, but I don't really know how to get a boyfriend. I'm super easy when it comes to making friends, but I don't know how to go beyond it. Any advice? (link)
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Well if you really like someone in particular, which I hope instead of like going for any guy available, then be really obvious that you like them and be super nice and stuff and text first and set up plans and stuff. Considering I'm not a guy, I don't know exactly what gets them to ask you out or anything, but being obvious has always worked for me because then they start thinking of you in that way seeing as how that is how you are clearly thinking of them. If you have the guts, you could even ask a guy out. Girls can do it too. Just be super casual and be like hey wanna get some pizza or catch a movie sometime or something. Or you could try getting their number first. Like if it is a guy in one of your classes or something, so you have more to talk about and more reasons to casually get his number. One thing that works for anyone is really getting to know someone and what they like and such and then you can talk to them about that stuff and even get/make them something they like. If you are in need of advice on specific stuff, let me know.
Hope this helps~
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Me and my family are going to a movie today.
Problem: My dad wants to see the new Hunger Games
I want to see Big hero 6. Which movie should i pick to watch? (its my turn to pick)(btw im under 13) (link)
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They both are such good movies! However, if you have not read the hunger games books, nor seen the previous movies, it will not be that great, considering you have no idea what's going on, and it just will not be that good of an experience. So I say Big Hero 6, but that's just my opinion.
Hope this helps~
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I'm a sixteen year old female and have never been on a date in my life. My parents keep me in home most the time and I don't really have the chance to socialize much. My best friend has had sex and so has her sister, and it makes me feel weird because I've never even had a boyfriend before. My dad is strict about who I date, so I'm worried whether or not I'll ever be able to have one. I've thought about going to a teen dating site to try to find someone, but my dad would blow the roof If he found out. He doesn't even like the idea of Facebook, but online dating may be my only hope. Please give me advice. Preferably from teens please (link)
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Well if you come across the opportunity in person, I suggest go for it whether it is behind your parent's back or not. You could online date, but coming from someone who has online dated since she was 11, it is Hell most of the time. If you can online date locally like on Tinder or something, that might not be as bad, but if it is any kind of long distance, DO NOT DO IT. it is not worth it. Also with online dating you can get catfished So easily, it's not even funny. So I highly suggest an old fashioned in-the-flesh relationship, but it is up to you. You probably will have t
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