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Last Update: October 27, 2016
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Thank you!! I still don't think he made the right choice!!! I hope by a miracle I can move within a month!!! Thank you again!!

thanks really mch :) I appreciate it

Thank you! I feel stupid for believing. :)

That is very helpful! I think you are right about being subtle. Thanks for everything! :)

I agree. It has been hard when she is constantly treating me like a child. Thanks for the advice!

My period was late to begin with before I even had sex. But thanks anyway.

Thank you! I hope you reach your goal as well! :)

yeah that was my intention she knows i care i mean i am not even dating her but she knows i am interested it would be different say i got her a gift i know she would just be like awww how sweet he is what a nice guy of he is see nice guy that means friend zone which no guy would wanna be in but i thought mothers day its our busiest day of the year my intention i wanted to show that i care and also i wanted to see her reaction and see if i have a chance i mean you know somebody that is interested you can see by there action for a dollar 45 it was worthy without being to much that water cost me $1.45 something also i wanted to show that i care without verbalizing it you know action counts more than words

you know i have done that looking it up on Facebook it says in the relationship but her action doesn't match on what it says example i treat everybody disame at work but with her i am little different you know when your in the relationship you get that feeling of wow!!buddy i am girl i know what your about to do I've study boys since i was 2 so step back no thank you with her i can smell that she's about to break up with the boyfriend or i can smell that the relationship is not in the rigth direction cause you example when you talk to any girl you would know or hear that she's not available girl would say something about my boyfriend this my boyfriend that with her nothing hmmmm also on Facebook that relationship status its been there since 09 and it hasn't change the profile hahahahaha asking about if she has a boyfriend i don't wanna give her more power that i want something i mean we all know you always gotta pay for want you want nothing free its like ill pay but don't charge me with higher taxes

thank you so much, his mom was definitely the biggest turn off for me.

Thanks. What if I have feelings when am with her coz she is always close 2 me"

Thanks. There has been something holding me back and I just really needed that.

Thanks :)

Thanks :)

Thank you so much. You have made me feel so much better.

Thanks! Really good advice!

Thank you. I didn't think it was possible to have depression and still be happy. So far from what I've researched it seems I may be bipolar, I'm just not sure though. Thanks for the help

Thank you so much! I hope you don't mind, I did ask another question having to do with the subject to your advice column page

Thanks! It's just really nice to get reassurance from an outsider:)

Thank you so much! It's truly heartwarming to know that I'm not alone in this and that things do have the potential to get better. I truly appreciate what you said and hopefully it will give me the courage to get help. I hope you're doing good as well:)

Thank you so much. I'm gonna try this. I always tried to not be obvious (which was clearly working) but I never thought that being obvious could make them look at you differently. I'll try making it be clear I like him without creeping him out. Thanx!😃

Thanks (=

Thank you for answering this. I really feel you saved my life since I was sitting here thinking about killing myself. Thank you for helping me!

thank you so much. i really appreciate this response. God bless xoxo

Thanks so much (: I'll talk to him about it

thank you. there's really no other choice than to be strong. no one else can do this for me. thank you. xoxo

thankyou I just am struggling like an inner war you know thankyou for your avice

Thank you!

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