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A dream about my boyfriend and this other guy, I don't know what it means?
So I've been having dreams about my boyfriend and this same guy that I swear I've never met. But this one dream I had last night held more meaning, but I don't know exactly what it meant.
So I was on this dark wooden dock thing. And this woman with black hair walked up to me, handing me a light blue sweater (I looooooove sweaters. I stared at it in pure awe as I smiled. And she said something like, "He bought this for you." Then she disappeared and I walked into this building. I walked into one of the rooms, and I saw the guy that I've been having CONSTANT dreams about there. Then I looked into the room beside this one, and I saw my boyfriend with his old hair watching TV. He looked over at me and smiled. I looked sad, holding up the light blue sweater, then slowly turned away. Suddenly I was in a lime green car, and I felt my close friend's voice say, "You gotta tell him."
When the woman and my friend say "him"... I don't understand if they're talking about my boyfriend or the guy I've been seeing in 95% of my dreams...? HELP!
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Maybe give some free advice about: What does it mean??
ok dreams are usually VERY symbolic, and its usually your subconscious trying to tell you something in the only ways it knows how so rewind back into the dream and think about it.
lets go through this and break it down a bit in a way you might be able to make sense of:
idk what it was about the woman that gave you the sweater or why you saw her but the dream started out sweet because someone gave you something you really loved which in itself could mean something special. The "he" could have been your boyfriend cause why else would a stranger buy you something they think they know you love and then why would your boyfriend then smile at you when you walked into the room and showed him the sweater?
the fact that you walked into a building and then into a room could symbolize your heart and all the different deep feelings and thoughts you have and you walked into the one that represents love and caring from what it sounds like. Also (and heres the kicker because you said it yourself) you walked into another room after you saw the man you didnt know only to see you CURRENT love which was in a room that was CONNECTED to that first room see?
ok and then when you were in the lime green car was the car going fast? or when you see a lime green car what does that say to you? speed? and you were IN the car so maybe you were feeling like this was all moving way too fast for you? or was the car parked and not moving at all??
REALLY think back and try to think about what each and every important part of the dream could have meant because you have the answers.
your friends voice telling you to tell him might have been your mind trying to tell you to tell your BOYFRIEND something that your feeling about something. maybe theres some things you wanna talk to him about but havnt?
good luck.
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Well, I don't know what kind of relationship you have with your boyfriend; if it's happy or not, etc.
Perhaps the other guy you've been seeing in your dreams represents a potential future boyfriend - someone "else." Maybe the lack of clarity when it comes to the "him" they are referring to indicates that you are not sure if you can get more (represented by the sweater) out of your relationship with your current boyfriend, or with someone else. Have you been questioning whether or not you'd be happier single? If not, perhaps the "him" they are referring to is your boyfriend.
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Well I'm guessing you're not cheating on your boyfriend or anything because then the dream would make sense, has he ever cheated on you though or like you have suspicions? Because that could make sense, too. But it could be something of your future? And the guy you will be with? It is hard to say what these things mean for sure, but there are specific people for that like most psychologists study dreams and stuff, so they could probably help you. It could just be a coincidence. I have had re-occurring dreams before that haven't meant much, except that I could be bothered by something. Keep an eye out for this guy and see if any dreams have signs that connect or something.
Hope this helps~
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