Hello! I am a 16 year old girl who has just been asked to prom. The guy who asked me is a senior who has an underclassmen brother (as do I). He told me that even though he asked me, he wants to take his brother and I could take mine so they can both get into prom. I loved that idea because I wanted my brother to go and it seemed like a perfect plan. Now all of a sudden this other guy who I have had strong feelings for in the past has started talking to me and told me that he really likes me. Would it be wrong for me to continue talking to him while I'm going to prom with someone else? I don't have feelings (other than friendship) for the senior I'm going to prom with and he knows that, but I still feel bad for putting all of my attention on someone else.
Ocalaphernella answered Wednesday March 18 2015, 5:03 pm: There isn't any thing wrong with that considering you guys are practically going as friends, and are doing it for your brothers sake. As long as nothing happens, and the guy that is taking you doesn't try anything or really likes you, then it should be fine. Just explain the situation to the guy you really like.
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