What you are referring to is your Hymen which many years ago, really back in the early 1900's and before, was seen as a test of a woman's virginity. If her Hymen was intact then she was a virgin.
Today's modern woman through gymnastics, Ballet and other types of exercise even bike riding or horseback riding can cause their Hymen to dislodge. Tampon use and masturbation can also cause the Hymen to be torn or be dislodge. This is why todays modern couple no longer see the Hymen as a test of virginity.
Note: You should use proper English as taught in school when communicating. While what you wrote was understandable to us all the way you wrote it made no sense. Ma=mom or mother, you meant my, meaning you. Use, was the wrong word and does not belong in the sentence. You meant lose.
As you grow into an adult you will be judged on how you speak and how you write. So take the time to proof read everything you write to make sure your say what you mean. You have used proper grammar, punctuation and all words are spelled correctly. If you do this you will go far in life. Just a few words of advice from someone old enough to be you grandfather. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Friday March 20 2015, 1:28 am: What most people consider losing their virginity is when a penis enters the vagina for the first time. Otherwise, use of a tampon, fingers, or sex toy would mean loss of virginity. Virginity is an antiquated term and idea. A better way to look at ones own sexual situation once the hormones started in puberty is seeing it rather as continual exploration of ones sexuality, little by little.
What if it's two pussy or two penis's? If loss of virginity is really what most people consider it to be, then gay couples remain virgins for life and yet have sex all the time and healthy sex lives? See, it's quite antiquated. Enjoy your sexuality and don't be so concerned about labeling it. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Ocalaphernella answered Thursday March 19 2015, 7:01 pm: The real meaning of losing your virginity isn't necessarily having sex, but more of breaking the ring of skin outside your vagina, then once it heals it doesn't really break again unless you go like really hardcore sex or something. So some girls accidentally break this ring with things like tampons, or masterbating too hard (or with something too big). Does that mean you have had sex? No. But if you tear the ring of skin (and it will bleed) then you technically have lost that, but you could just lie about it or something if you want.
Hope this helps~ [ Ocalaphernella's advice column | Ask Ocalaphernella A Question ]
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