My two best friends are at war. All simply BC my friend, who will be referred to as K, and I were talking during recess while we were waiting for her, O, and our other friend, A. We were in the far corner of the school yard and we turn to see them look at us then turn away. We thought they wanted to talk in private so we left them alone. A and her "friend" B walked over to us and began to yell saying we were being "rude." Eventually, we got over this part. I still don't like A or B, but whatever. O and K pretty much ignore each other completely and O sends me to tell K stuff. I'm kind of in the middle, not wanting to take sides, even though K is right BC she did absolutely nothing wrong. What should I do?
Ocalaphernella answered Tuesday March 24 2015, 12:25 pm: Tell them to get over themselves, especially O. Tell them that this fight is stupid and you're not going to be their in between anymore. It may seem harsh, but it's the truth and they won't stop this ridiculous fight unless someone makes a move. Try explaining what happened, to O, and if she doesn't believe it then that's her fault. They were just starting pointless drama, and it needs to stop.
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