about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?

Well, personally, i like guys who can be funny, but can still listen. That's the key, is to have perfect timing, when a guy makes a joke in the middle of a tragedy, that is a turn off, but when he makes one after a small bad thing, then that is perfect. If you're not funny, stick with the sensitive thing. And this is another thing, don't just try to impress your friends. That is the absolute worst thing in the world. Give the girl a compliment that she usually doesn't get. That always works
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theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet?

Umm, no. Because that means that the only reason you wanna mess around with him is because he is good at messing around with you. That is just my personal opinion, if you feel like it is more than nighttime infatuation, then ask him on a real date, just to see if he can be gentleman like
hope i helped a little
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I've been having problems with my dad lately ... well now that I think about it i've always had these problems. Sense my parents got divorced when I was like one I've only seen him everyother weekend. I used to hate it and lately i've been wishing I'd never see him. He always seems busy, and when hes not he always seem to be judging people, and mostly me. He won't let me have certian piercing because he think they will make me a bad kid ... he honestly said that! He also said he'd be embarresed. I've just started to learn he doesnt realize im growing up, I just can't stand him sometimes, he makes thing seem like there always my fault, and I just feel really uncomertable around him, like I can't be myself, and he doesn't know me so hes always asking me questions about drugs and stuff, I just don't know what to do, ive tried to tell him not to judge me to get to know me, and i've told him im growing up and he needs to accept it, i evenasked him to respect me because he didn't act like it. And after he seemed like he felt bad, but it didnt last long. Any advise would help thanks aton!

I have the same problem with my dad, only i only see him every other year. What i've learned is that when you have a relative that doesn't see you on a regular basis, they seem to think you are as naive as you were before they left. You need to show him that you've grown up. And tell him if you get a peircing, it wouldn't make you a bad kid, just an independent one. One thing, don't be afraid to speak your mind in this situation, that way he will learn who you are, and he might not even like it, but he will respect you and love you after that.
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anyone have any good webisites that have fun quizzes like personality ones and stuff? thx

Gurl.com has some quizes and it's about future stuff and what kind of personality you have and other quizes like that
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Ok, so heres the deal. I've been bestfriends with this girl since I was 11 now Im 18. At the age of 15 we stopped talking for a year because we went to different highschools. Well now, I can't stand to be around her because she lies a lot. And it will be about stupid things or even serious things that you wouldnt lie to your bestfriend about. For instance being a virgin or not, how many people you have had sex with, how much you drank...etc. to the stupidest stuff like how much you spend on a car, how many hours you work, how much your getting paid, hitting an animal in the road n making a story up about it. I tried to confront her 3-4 times before but she gets mad and makes a big deal about it and claims she will never lie to me and stuff. Now that I've had a boyfriend for about 7 months shes thinking I dont hang out with her anymore because of him when its not that at all. Granted I do hang out with him everyday but we will go to parties, watch movies, stuff like that. With her we would sit around or go for a drive n she would usually end up dropping me off at 11 cuz she didnt feel good, was tired, and stupid things like that. My curfew is 1. Everythign she says now I doubt and I'm starting to believe shes a pathological liar. What should I do because everytime I try to talk to her she just turns it all around on me. And when I dont wanna do something like go away with her because Im not allowed or go to the club she tries to guilt trip me sayin that shes second best to my boyfriend and that I never wanna do anything. I've talked to my other friends and they all agree with em n say that they dont liek her but use her for a ride. My betsfriend doesnt know that. What should I dooooo? Hope thats not too complicated for you to follow i kinda rambled on. Thank youuu

Alright, this is complicated, first off:don't talk to your other friends about her, that will make things so much worse (not blaming you, everyone does it) Secondly: find a way to prove to her that she is lying. Like her car, find out how much it really costs on the internet and show her. Third and most difficult: Break the chain. Don't split up for good, that would not be kewl because you've known her your entire adolecent life. She may just need to find herself. During that year that you guys had apart was probably a really rough year for her, talk to her about it, find out what's really making her lie. And if she always wants to go home early, is there a reason? Just try to find these things out before you shove it all in her face. Sorry about that
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well...my friend and i decided that we wanted to go to this really cool camp next summer. we would go away for 3 weeks and do a bunch of cool things there. the only problem is that it costs sooooo much money and im afraid to even ask to go because they might say no. and if i do decide to ask them...how do tell them its a lot of money? L. 14

Why don't you tell them now how much it costs before you tell them what it is. Also, tell them how important it is to you. Use logics. If it costs 500 dollars and it's not until next summer,it would only be $42 a month to save up, that way, it would be a working progress.
Good Luck
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Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine.

What i usually do while babysitting a kid older then 3 is before the day that you babysit them comes, ask them what they want to do. Some kids like to be alone, some like to watch movies, some like to go outside on a walk to the park and so on. If you are babysitting him too soon to ask him, then take him on a walk, and just get out a coloring book, and all.
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Hi, my brother is 10 and will be 11 in august. Anyway, my bro is so spoiled that when he doesnt get his way, he starts to get a nasty additude and says he hates my mom and grandma! How bad! My mom tries hard trying to teach him not to be spoiled but it never works. How can we get my bro to be kind and unspoiled?

The reason he is acting spoiled is because he feels that either he got attention and liked it, or he doesn't get enough attention. Either way, giving him a lot of spoiling attention won't do any good. Whenever he acts up, punish him. That is probably the major problem, make sure you know the kids he is hanging out with and stuff so he doesn't just go and act like them. I hoped i helped a little
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Hey...I'm soo sick right now, I feel really dizzy and my throat is killing me soo bad, I've taken advil but that doesnt seem to work, could anyone tell me how to maybe make the pain go away a little more?...please hurry its hurts soo bad!=(...xoxo // Lyss

You may be having a fever, so just don't take anymore pills and drink a lot of water. about 4 glasses in ten minutes. also, don't get near a tv or computer or anything, because that actually makes you really dizzy and feel really sick. Don't take anymore medication for a half an hour otherwise you will feel terrible.
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Ok, this sounds kinda gross, n this question might get kicked off but i am serious about this...today my breasts started hurting really bad, it is doing it right now there are like these certain spots where they hurt, so im just wondering why they hurt and shud i call a doctor or something? Thanks!

If you are coming close to being on your period or something, you do get really bad chest pains. Another thing could be if you changed your diet or something, because when you eat more fats, your breasts increase in size numerously, so it's not necessarily a bad thing. Lol, hope you get better
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin.

When you lose your virginity, you bleed a little bit down there
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ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...


The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet

Nothing

The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear

Nothing

The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red

Nothing

The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain

Nothing

The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful

You find no God

It is really well written and has a lot of meaning to it. I do think that it could be a little less satonic, but whatever. It's really good
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This question may sound dumb but what does it mean when a guy "pops your cherry" when you first have sex? I just want to know.

Please answer my answer and I will rate ya :)!

(14/f?

It means that he made you bleed down there.
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What happens if the person who made you cry is the only person who can make you stop?

Try to get over whatever she said to you and talk to them about it and say it hurt your feelings. They will make you stop crying if they are sincere
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hey i no that this has been asked alot but i really want to no if i am overweight. i am a 13 yr old girl that is 5'7 or 5'8 and i weigh around 120-130. is this considered overweight or normal?

It is actually the exact weight you are supposed to be at 57. You are really tall for a thirteen year old
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ok well there is ths girl and i have liked her for a while and i finally told my best friedn that and then he went and asked her out and now the girl found out what happened and how my best friend did that and now she is askin me stuff like would i ever get wit her if they broke up im jus confused as hell

some 1 please tell me wut 2 do

Well if you went out with her and your friend got mad, that would be his fault and you would just be doing what you said you were going to do the whole time. But i have to say girls respect it more when a guy is faithful to his friend. But remember, he brought it on himself
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

False, everyone gets a second chance
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Alrite I have blonde hair and it is so boring. I want to dye it....I have tan skin and light brown eyes...do you think that i should get it dyed browner or wut? I need help

Just don't dye it maroon!!! i have blonde hair and dyed my hair maroon, and it took forever to dye it back, just make sure you don't dye it too dark of a brown, maybe get a dirty blone colour with highlights and lowlights and that would be really kewl
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are all dieting pills bad for you?

if not do you know of any that arent?

Diet pills are dangerous for certain ages, but what i've learned is that really big vitamins work the exact same way as diet pill and make you more active. (not the fred flintsone vitamins though, lol) Hope i helped a little
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There is a guy who i really like and he is so cute. I talk to him a lot and he like me back but when i try to like hold his and and stuff. He also never makes any attempt to like hook up with me but i know he wants to becasue my friend found out. How should i deal with this? (f/15)

If he wants to hold your hand but won't, he's either afraid because he got hurt before, or just hasn't experienced this kind of relationship. If you attempt to hold his hand and he pulls away, just ask him if he really likes you, as more than a friend, and from there is where he will start explaining why he doesn't hook up and stuff
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