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my bro is soooooooo spoiled!
Hi, my brother is 10 and will be 11 in august. Anyway, my bro is so spoiled that when he doesnt get his way, he starts to get a nasty additude and says he hates my mom and grandma! How bad! My mom tries hard trying to teach him not to be spoiled but it never works. How can we get my bro to be kind and unspoiled?
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I don't think it's anything you can actually do anything about. He's just gonna have to learn on his own. But, you could try ignoring him when he throws his little fits. Don't let him get his way. You can't let him control the house or whatever it is that he's actually doing.
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Just show him what he has and what you dont have compared to him and point out that not everybody is as lucky as him to have a grandma and a mother that are still alive there are some kids out there without either-trix
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Well i mean tell him about carma WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
Love Ashley
plz rate me lol im spoiled so i tried to help
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It won't be hard!! You simply need to teach the boy discipline. Learn not to listen when the boy says "I hate you" and start grounding him and slowly taking things away, one at a time, every time he does it!! If this doesn't work, then maybe some family counseling??
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hey i know how it feels to have a younger brother (10 yrs old)..and mines spoiled too! i just tell my parents to ignore him when he asks for something and when he whine and pouts---ignore even more..then eventually he'll learn to stop. otherwise he'll be shunned the whole time..
good luck! L
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The reason he is acting spoiled is because he feels that either he got attention and liked it, or he doesn't get enough attention. Either way, giving him a lot of spoiling attention won't do any good. Whenever he acts up, punish him. That is probably the major problem, make sure you know the kids he is hanging out with and stuff so he doesn't just go and act like them. I hoped i helped a little
Lizzy
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my sister does the same thing ( lol and shes on this site, so shes going to get so mad at me haha) they are just immature and will hopefully grow out of it. :)
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well you can't really GET him to be unspoiled.. it probably going to take time because if he changes hes going to have to adjust to it you know?.. just like if you walk into a store tell him he can only get 1 thing or something and if he starts crying well tell him its too bad and hes grounded or stuff like that.. ground him for awhile and maybe it will teach him a lesson?? Good luck!
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You can't really teach people that. You could try sending him a guidence counselor or something but its usually just a phase that they grow out of....trust me I went through it and i still do it sometimes but rarely and im 13
XOXO
Haleigh Ann
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