There is a guy who i really like and he is so cute. I talk to him a lot and he like me back but when i try to like hold his and and stuff. He also never makes any attempt to like hook up with me but i know he wants to becasue my friend found out. How should i deal with this? (f/15)
Lizzy answered Saturday July 17 2004, 9:09 pm: If he wants to hold your hand but won't, he's either afraid because he got hurt before, or just hasn't experienced this kind of relationship. If you attempt to hold his hand and he pulls away, just ask him if he really likes you, as more than a friend, and from there is where he will start explaining why he doesn't hook up and stuff
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toughkitty answered Saturday July 17 2004, 9:06 pm: In my last relationship, i found out that guys love it when girls make the first move. So go for it. Cmon, what do you have to loose? [ toughkitty's advice column | Ask toughkitty A Question ]
tikibikini answered Saturday July 17 2004, 7:47 pm: just wait and see if he asks. maybe he isant asking because he doesnt want to ruin wat you guys have as friend. maybe he wants to be friends with benifits? that is what he prob wants. if you want try asking him if he wants to go out with you and see if he wants to and maybe you guys will be good to each othe. hope i helped
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FernGully answered Saturday July 17 2004, 7:37 pm: Why don't YOU make the first move and ask him if he wants to 'hook up'. He's probably too shy to ask you or let you know that he likes you, so its up to you to make something happen if you really like him. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
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