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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now..march 10 will be a year..and for his bday i got him a chain and braclet for christmass i got him cologn really exspensive cologne...noww one year is coming and so is Valentines day and he always gets me something relaly nice*gold necklace....ring ect.*
what can i get him?! idea's any one please!!

Well for my boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary i didn't get him anything because i truely didnt have any money at the time so i made him a huge card expressing how much i love him and how i feel about him and how he makes me feel he loved it except the reading part of it! lol well any ways yea then for christmas a gut him like a shirt and a belt buckel but i also made him a giant cookie that said "I LOVE YOU" on it he loved it so just try and think of something that he will trully love and give it a try I'm sure what ever you get him her will love so i hope i helped if you need anything jst ask*

-Caitlin

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Ok, well, as of now I want to have a girl boy party for my 13th birthday. I want it to be something fun and out of the house. Not that corny spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven crapp. I live up north so it's gonna be cold. I'm really not interested in a swimming, ice-skating, or dancing party. Please help me! I need an idea asap! Thanks for your advice! : )

Well maybe you could get your parents to rent a hall for you or have it at like a bowling alley or somethign corney like that I mean I'm sure where ever you have it you will have a good time. Sorry I couldn't help you more butif you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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ok heres the deal its close to valentines day and i dont no wat to get my girlfriend(we started going out on friday the 13th the day before valentines day)so since its also our 1 year anniversery i dont have a clue wat to get her

There are a lot of things you can do for her such as, give her roses, get a blank card and right a long romantic note to her telling her how much you love her and how much you appreciate her. You could also jus try and be original and make her a cute little card with candy in it or something like that... I have some other suggestions maybe take her out to dinner and a movie or just hang out at either your house or hers. Be romantic and make her feel special! well i hope i helped if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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ok well for new years i was out of town and so was my b/f so we couldnt even talk on the phone, i was in a RV park in palm dessert and i was at the rec. center in the resort and this guy(lets call him Bill) came in and asked if he could play pool with me and i siad yeah, this was a day befor new years eve. im a BIG flirt and i dont relize when im flirting, and the next day i went to the rec center to meet up with Bill and later that night we were tired out from playin B-Ball so we were sittin together on the couch well when the new year came he kissed me and i kissed him back, and i shouldnt of i know now im really guilty becuz im not the kind of girl who cheats on her b/f,and ill never see Bill agian but i still feel guilty what im asking is should i feel really guilty for this? should i tell my b/f? or try to forget the whole thing?HELP!

Just be truthful to hima nd tell him I mean if he really loves you I'm sure he would try and forgive you for what you did. I mean it was just a little kiss so maybe he will just forget about it, but then after that he might worry about trusting you when he isn't around you know!?! well i hope you can work things out! if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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My dad is making my life a living hell...hes drinking and smoking weed agian and hes a mean drunk...i used to be able to talk to him but now im scared of him...he has drovin me and my sister to cutting...i want to stop but cant becuz id rather die then live in this hell whole...plz help!
-HH

That's horrible.... well maybe you could try talking to him when he is sober or not stoned. Maybe if you try not to stay home a lot it would be better for you and your sister. Maybe you could try going to a friends house so you don't have to worry about it. You could also try talking to some one about your issues with cutting and your dad. I would totally recommend to not cut I mean I don't see why you would hurt yourself because of him just try and stop if you can before you get to that point! I'm sorry about your whole situation I hope you can work things out. If you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled

Well it is your decision whether you do or dont have sex at such a young age I mean i can't really be talkin because I'm also 14 and i have thought about the same thing, but I'm holding off for a little while until I'm a bit older. I mean if you have been with your boyfriend or who every for a long period of time and you feel ready and comfortable having sex with that certain some one then go for it I guess, but you just have to think of the consequences it may bring to you, but who am I to say anything it is your life so do what you feel is right and comfortable for you. I hope i helped and if you do have sex make sure you use protection! if you need anything just ask*

-Caitlin

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well my boyfriend of 5 months has been acting weird..for the past 3 days he hasnt been calling me, or asking to hangout or nothing...and everytime i call him he says hell call me back...and does in like 5 hours...but yestreday we were supposed to hangout and i called hmi at 1 and he said he was gonna take a shower and hed call me back...and he never did =(....ive talked to him about it upsetting me when he doesnt call me back for like 5 hours..but this time he didnt call back at all...i usually go to his house every wednesday....should i go this wednesday if he calls and apologizes? how do i act on the phone if he calls tonight? do i yell at him, be quiet, or act sad?? HELP...i dont know what to do im really upset about it though because my boyfriend means the world to me i love him so much im even listenin to sad music like mockingbird by eminem.....thx.oh ya i dont think hes mad at me or anything....i saw him the day before all this started happening and everything was great..


btw...16/f

You should just try calling him again and see what's on his mind and talk to him about how you are feeling kind of sad that he hasn't been calling you and asking you to hang out with him. Well i hope you work things out. If you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin

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When I was still with my boyfriend, I never really and truly loved him. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, if you know what I mean. He broke up with me, saying we had nothing in common and I thought I was okay. My friends came round to cheer me up and I thought I was over him. Then, yesterday I couldn't stop crying and I realised that I loved my ex. I need him back, I can't live without him. Everyone's telling me that I'm still young and that my heart will be broken a thousand times until I find the right guy, but I don't care. I'm scared that if I don't get my baby back then I'm going to hate christmas forever. What should I do?

Juss try talking to him and be like i love you so much and i cant stand not being with you juss be like we can try again and see if we can work it out i really wanna be with you.... stuff like that juss sit down and talk it through with him and see what he says.. Good Luck Hun... if you need anything juss drop one in my inbox Caitlin*

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ok i really like this girl and she likes me .. we have been sorta on and off going out for like a year or so .. well she always flirts with other guys,and treats me like a second hand guy... i really like her and i am pretty sure she likes me... we are not currently going out right now but.. yeah what do i do

tom

Well tell her how u feel bout her and see if she has the same feelings for u as u have for her and try n work sumtin out u kno wad im sayin well ope i helped if u need n e thing else juss ask* Caitlin

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Hey caitlyn

i've gut a question... Ok My Bf is 12 going to be 13 and and i'm 14 i no its quite a gap but he doesn't act like hes 12 he acts like hes 14. Hes Really cute and very vwery buff. Anyway my question is now that i am out of gymnastics i've put on alot of weight and now i am kinda normal like 108 but its weird to me cus i'm used to being a toothpick. i wanna lose some weight or at least get a little thinner and keep the weight but have more muscle instead of fat. My bf got me into this cus hes really muscular and thin. I wanna be like 100 pounds and have muscle. What i have been doin is eating less shit food and eating more fruits and veggies and i am also doing my stretching that i used to do in gymnastics. in the process i have noticed that i have lost like all my flexibility and gotten a little tummy roll its not alot but i hate it cus my tummy used to be so nice and muscular.
am i doing enough to make this change...do you think i am being unrealistic?
and what about the whole BF situation,is he too young for me?
~funhouse mirror

Well i can relate to u a lot cuz im 14 to and my bf iz also 12 turnin 13 we have been togetha for a mad long time over 11 months there iz nuttin wrong wid datin sum 1 younger then you u kno hunni and the whole weight thing! do wat u r doin but if u want muscular stomache then do things like crunches or leg lifts cuz they not only help your legs they help your stomache to!! well hope i helped hun if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin

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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad?

No it iznt bad when u r ready and comfortable to do that kinda stuff u will but dont be pressured into it only do it if and when u r comfortable hope i helped!! if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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ok first day of school (freshmen) i am wearing jeans and a white with blue and orange lettering short sleeve shirt! and i have brown hair that i am going to wear up in a messy bun.. what color eye shadow!?!

maybe a light orange color to match your shirt hope i helped!

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Hey! I'm going back to school on Thursday and I'm all set but there are two problems: I don't know what to do with my hair and how I should do my makeup. Well here's a little information about me: I'm 5'5, tan skin, blue/green eye, and I have dark brown shoulder length hair. For the first day of school, I'm gonna wear cute tight jeans, a cute polo shirt that has a few buttons unbuttoned with a tank top underneath. What should I do with my hair like straighten it, scrunch it, etc and how should I do my makeup like what eye shadow and eye liner colors and etc? Thanks!

Well it soundz like a cute outfit u should wear black eyeliner and like a light color eye shadow and u should straighten your hair well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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i think i might like this boy whis younger then me. im in 8th grade hes in 7th. but the thign is i dont really kno him and im afriad of what my friends will think. what if he asks me out? what do i do? please help me

signed, crazy for advice

Ok i kno wat your feeling my bf iz in 7th grade and im in 8th we have been togetha for ova 10 months and there iz no big deal that he iz a bit younger then u!!! there iz nuttin wrong wid dat and if he asks u out and u like him then go for it and say yea!! and if n e 1 has sumtin to say bout it juss dont botha to listen to them and i kno how it feels i dont really get to see my bf that often in skool either but we see each otha in the halls and at lunch and we do stuff outa skool so juss do wat u wanna do well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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how do u play herd to get with a guy

Ok wat u do iz tease them A LOT and play it off like u will say yes if they ask u out and then when they do juss say no and then they will continue askin u and juss keep it goin flirt wid them and all that stuff but u hafta eventually say yes if u like the guy or eventually they will juss stop askin u out!!! hope i helped if u need n e thing else juss ask* Caitlin*

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nun of mi friendz r cheeleaders and i wanna b 1. idk if i should try out wut if they make fun of me or say its not like hott n stuff. wut do i do?? nd plz dont say dont care wut they think. my friendz r very open nd honest.

Ok im a cheerleader and sum times ppl who r dumb make fun of us but u dont see them out there in a fricken skirt down all that stuff i mean let me see them get out there in front of a wicked lotta ppl iz nerve reckin for sum ppl and they think cheerleading iz so easy and that we r all wicked ditzy n snotty n thaz not how are squad if u wanna do cheerleadin it duznt matter if none of your friends do it!!! do it cuz u wanna do it and if your gunna cheer u hafta have a love for it like itsa lotta hard work so juss do wat u wanna and dont care bout wat otha ppl hafta say bout it well hope i helped if u need n e thing else juss ask* Caitlin*

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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question

Iz not really a stupid question cuz a lotta ppl ask it but there iz a web site u can go to its www.myjellybean.com and then when u get there go to flirting and click on french kissin it tells u everything!!!!! lol well hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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I need 2 no wht else I could use 2 masturbate....I am on 13 and my parents do not no i masturbate so i need something ez 2 use its the only things tht gives me pleasure cuz id have s e x cuz i am 2 young help and plz dont delete this!

U can masturbate with practicley like n e thing a pencil, stuff in your house like um.... juss n e thing hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

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k, im 13 and I wanna wear thongs. lol, I know, weird, but newayz... i had one be4 that my cousin had got me and i had to throw it away after i wore it once cuz i didnt wanna get caught. I dont know how, because everytime it comes up, all my mom says is idk y u would purposly put your underwear up your butt. If you think about it, when you wear regular underwear, you pick it out. I think that thongs are really comfortable, how do i tell her I wanna wear em???

well juss be like mom im 13 and i should be able to wear wat kinda underwear i wanna come on its juss unda wear and if she sez u cant or w/e juss do it n e wayz and like hide them and do your own laundry and wat not iz not a big deal!!! hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen

well i would juss be like i can see that your boobs are big but u dont always hafta talk bout them to make me feel like crap cuz mine arnt that big!!! trust me i kno how u feel my best friend use to have like nuthin then all of a sudden BAM she has sumthin a very big sumtin and she iz alwayz sayin stuff bout them and callin me flatty n shyt so juss tell her to lay off and stuff hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*

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