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wHy iS hE dOiNg tHiS???


Question Posted Monday January 3 2005, 6:39 pm

well my boyfriend of 5 months has been acting weird..for the past 3 days he hasnt been calling me, or asking to hangout or nothing...and everytime i call him he says hell call me back...and does in like 5 hours...but yestreday we were supposed to hangout and i called hmi at 1 and he said he was gonna take a shower and hed call me back...and he never did =(....ive talked to him about it upsetting me when he doesnt call me back for like 5 hours..but this time he didnt call back at all...i usually go to his house every wednesday....should i go this wednesday if he calls and apologizes? how do i act on the phone if he calls tonight? do i yell at him, be quiet, or act sad?? HELP...i dont know what to do im really upset about it though because my boyfriend means the world to me i love him so much im even listenin to sad music like mockingbird by eminem.....thx.oh ya i dont think hes mad at me or anything....i saw him the day before all this started happening and everything was great..


btw...16/f


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evilenterprisesinc answered Monday January 3 2005, 11:32 pm:
i have some bad news.. hes cheating on you.. but he still loves you.. so he is too ashamed to see you.. and talk to you.. he may have broken it off with her.. but he might not have.. but he is definately cheating.. sorry babe :(

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xselenebeenx answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:29 pm:
dont act like your desperate. make it seem like you could give two shits. i know it hurts inside but dont let the bitch see that, and on wednsday you should consider hanging out with one of the girls instead..maybe even consider looking for a new boyfriend. If he isnt calling you back untill hours later..its probably because he wants the realtionship to end. Toughen up and be a bitch..break up with him before he has the first chance to do it. Good Luck

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Monday January 3 2005, 7:17 pm:
You should just try calling him again and see what's on his mind and talk to him about how you are feeling kind of sad that he hasn't been calling you and asking you to hang out with him. Well i hope you work things out. If you need anything just ask*


-Caitlin

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Karen answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:57 pm:
Why don't you call him up one day and ask him why he hasn't been calling you back when he said he would? Maybe your boyfriend doesn't like using the phone or he's been busy with other things like helping his parents? Don't worry about it, when he does call, don't yell at him but act a little bit sad so he will wonder why you are and then you can tell him how you feel. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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metalkat86 answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:50 pm:
i think that if he calls, you should stand up for yourself and ask him what his problem is, what is so important that you are taking a backseat to it?? yes, i think you should go to his house on wednesday because i think that talking things out in person is better. who knows what could be going on in the background when you are talking to him on the phone? honestly, he could have a girl over there(not saying he does) but anything could be possible. just stand up for yourself, do what you need to do to find out what's going on. if you 2 really love eachother, then he will be honest with you and you can hopefully be able to patch things up.

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Shortie8959 answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:49 pm:
Well some people don't like talking on the phone. They like to IM better. Maybe that's why, because it sounds like he still likes you. If he calls, act sad, because he'll want to know what's wrong and you can tell him again. And I think you should go Wed. cuz if you don't, it'll make things worse. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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hyperNerd05 answered Monday January 3 2005, 6:44 pm:
maybe you should try talking to him agen or maybe hes not really the much of a phone guy any more thats how i am i hate talking on the fone so i dont call any one maybe thats whats goen on or maybe hes stressed out about somthing and just forgot i also do that do when people tell me to call them
-*Tori

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