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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled
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if you think you are mature enough, then go for it. also, keep in mind the consequence you can get from having sex at a young age. make sure he's protected so you can prevent pregnancy. preg. scares aren't good. hope i helped
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Well it is your decision whether you do or dont have sex at such a young age I mean i can't really be talkin because I'm also 14 and i have thought about the same thing, but I'm holding off for a little while until I'm a bit older. I mean if you have been with your boyfriend or who every for a long period of time and you feel ready and comfortable having sex with that certain some one then go for it I guess, but you just have to think of the consequences it may bring to you, but who am I to say anything it is your life so do what you feel is right and comfortable for you. I hope i helped and if you do have sex make sure you use protection! if you need anything just ask*
-Caitlin
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dont do it now! wait till your older babe! ITS SUPPOSED TO BE MAGICAL! But if you do decide to do it, just be safe and tell you b/f to use a fucken condom! iight love ya<3
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no, dont have sex...your parents trust you and you know that there gonna find out...plus, your nowhere near ready to have sex...your b/f is gonna use you and then dump you and then the one thing you have absolute controle over will be gone...your viginity...you have everything to lose and trust me...you probably dont even love your b/f enought...
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DUDE! your 14 years old!!!!! NO! dont do it! wait till your older! if you do do it then people might hear about it and you might get the reputatipon of a slut! and i dunno if you want that or not...but i wouldnt! and if you want to get pregnant and ruin your life by making a VERY stupid choice then go a head! and if you do get presganant...then you are oging to have to tell your parents which would be ALOT worse!!!!!!!!!
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Your 14, you are not ready to have sex at all. You haven't had enough life experience to have sex.
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NO NO NO!!!! you are 14, first of all, if you get caught, your bf could get charged with rape because you are both under 18(i hope!!) and also, think what could happen if one tiny little sperm gets through....you'd be pregnant. i'm 18 and still a virgin, i personally do want to have sex with my bf, but i know that i also want to wait because i don't want to accidentally get pregnant because then it would screw up all of the plans i have for my future. if you did get pregnant, would you keep the baby? what would that entail, what would you have to do if you kept it?
if you didn't keep it, can you imagine how hard it is to know that you aborted your own fetus? it really sticks with you for your entire life, i know, i have many friends who had to do that because they had sex too early, or were raped, etc. if you did abort it and later you had your first child when you are READY, every time you look at that baby, you think about what could have been with that one you let go. i wouldn't want you to have to go through that before you even get through high school. please, PLEASE think about everything that would happen if you did have sex and you did get pregnant, anything like that. with such a huge thing on the line, this is something you need to think over VERY CAREFULLY. please hear my words and take them in,
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Kat
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go ahead and do it behind their back! but keep this in mind.. if you get pregnant you will have to tell your parents you are along with you having sex. that makes it worse!
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dear im so confuzzled(nice word by the way lol)
in this case if you feel like your ready to do this then do it but only if you have planed every thing out like what kinda protection are you going to use and what happens if that protection dosnt work all that good stuff that no one thinks about any more and when they get pregnet they get all depressed and dont know what to do when really its ther own damn fault sry if i sound mean but thats the way it is
-*Tori
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omg NO!! you are way to young! wait about 5 more years or so then go ahead! but think about what if you go pregnat?!?!
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Well dah your 14 if you are so called "ready" then you must me mature enought o wait till your body is really ready!
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sorry you should wait 4 years. you might get pregnant or something..and dont do it behind their backs b/c they only want what's best 4 u! REMEMBER, they created you!
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