Hey there!! My name is Courtney. And i go hunting all the time during deer season. And there is this guy up there and he hunts sometimes with me or my dad. He is a grade below me but the same age. And i talk to him all the time up there. But you see i really really like him. And he doesn't know that at all. And it would be embarrassing for me to tell him and i don't know what to do. What do i say to him?????
Hey Courtney
Umm let's see .. Well next time you see him, ask for his SN and maybe you guys can get to know each other better. Also my mother always told me that a boy will never be friends with a girl for no reason. He must think your pretty if he talks to you. Take things slow. Maybe he likes you too, but is scared to say anything. Ask him questions, like what's his favorite movies and stuff. Oh if you do get his SN , ask him online if he wants to go hang out at the movies with you, and your friends. You'll know if he likes you. If he say's yes most likely he does. He if makes up a gay reason for not coming then he doesn't, if so don't even bother with him! I'm sure your a very pretty girl and there are alot of guys that would be happy to go out with you!
♥ maria ♥
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:( F**K! i went tanning today and OH MY GOSH. i really burnt my face bad i mean like its SUPER bad. my face kinda swelled a bit but its suuuper red! it hurts really bad..my face is on fire! my mom and dad know about it and they put neosporen (spelling) on my face to help it. before i was putting an ice pack on my head cuz it hurt and a cold wash cloth on my face. is there anything else i could do that you know of rather than like going to the doctor? because its not that serious..ive had worse so dont worry. but i just want this to go away! or at least get better. i was spose to have plans tonight but i had to cancel because of this. what a great way to start off christmas break right? well yeah anyways to maybe make the swelling go down or the reddness? thanks ALOT
Hey
I'm sorry, That really sucks. Umm I have Aloe gel and some hom Burns cream which helps a bit - certainly worth trying if it's really as bad as you say it is. Keep putting ice on your face no matter what ice is always going to make things better.
Here are some helpful ideas:
Milk is another sunburn treatment that you likely have on hand, or that you can easily purchase. The fat and lactic acids in milk are known to have soothing qualities for sunburned (or even dry) skin. Because the milk's fat content is important for this treatment, use whole fat products. Soak a soft cloth in the milk and dab carefully onto the burned skin. Do this for around twenty minutes. Make sure you rinse off with cool water so that you don't end up smelling like spoiled milk! Taking vitamin supplements for the first few days can promote faster recovery of your damaged skin. Vitamin A, Vitamin C, Vitamin E, beta-carotene and flaxseed oil - in either liquid or capsule form - will boost healing from the inside out. Using moisturizing lotion with these vitamins can also help prevent peeling and fading.
Try brewing up a big pot of tea. The tannins in tea can soothe and help relieve some of the discomfort of burned skin. Brew the tea and allow it to cool completely. Slosh it over the affected areas with a soft sponge. It might be a good idea to apply this sunburn treatment in the bathtub or shower recess.
Your cupboards probably contain a number of sunburn treatments without you even knowing it. One product that you are likely to have on hand that can be very soothing to a sunburn is baking soda (sodium bicarbonate) - the same item you use to make your cookies rise and to deodorize your icebox! Add about a cup of baking soda to a bath filled with lukewarm water, and soak for as long as you desire. Try to make sure that all affected areas are submerged for this treatment to work best. Pour the bath water over your body using your hands or a soft wash cloth. Dab onto burned facial areas gently or splash the water directly onto your face. Rinse with cool water to remove any remaining grit, and moisturize with either after-sun lotion or aloe vera gel.
♥ maria ♥
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YAY :) only two more days left till x-mas break! haha it cant come soon enough! but anywaysss
i seriously wanna have the best break ever!! and i wanna meet alot of new guys but like i dont know how? i dont get invited to that many parties and my best friend goes to a diff school and she has some hotties she knows..but she isnt one to like introduce us. or like even hang out with them! ive been reading your previous answers and like yeah i even try to boost up her confidence! and im gonna be over at her house like everyday haha. but its gettin kinda boring..we sit on the computer the WHOLE time when im thinking jeez i wanna go out and do something! the problem is neither of us have our license.. 5 more months :) haha! but yeah any ideas on how we could hang out with the guys.
thanks babes.
Hey
Try having a party or something, going to the movies, or mall.
♥ maria ♥
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HEY! whats goin on!? well i have this tanning lamp thing..and its kinda like going tanning except you have to like do each section of your body seperately. i mostly only do my face. but usually when i go tanning in a bed my face looks like a nice smooth tan. but when i use this tanning lamp (because im outta tans) my face looks really blotchy and kind of reddish. and it like dont go away..or fade into a tan. i even put bronzer like on to try and make it look smoother. but is there anyway i could make it look smooth and just like a nice tan without buying anything..since my mom wont let me?
Hey
Ummm well let's see. What's the actually problem going tanning without your face turning reddish, or how to get rid of the redness. Well i'm sure the redness will go away soon. Try putting some cream on it. Maybe some sunburn cooling gel or itch cream. Both will make your face appear less red. But the only real way you can make your face appear smoother is to first let it heal, and the only way to do that is leave it alone for now. Once it heals just start going back to the tanning bed because honestly that's the best way of getting a tan. Not only does it look good, it's very smooth looking on your face.
You said you can't buy anything because your mother won't let you, but then honestly there is nothing you can really do. Try putting on dark cover up. It will make you appear darker. If you can go out and buy something i would suggest getting Neutrogena Instant Bronze, Deep self tanner.
♥ maria ♥
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what song do you like out right now?
Hey
L.O.V.E - Ashlee Simpson
♥ maria ♥
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Odd question but oh well. I'm 15 and i want to know when you give a guy a hand job people say rub on it what do they mean go up and down.I will rate
xoxox confused
Hey
Well i myself never gave any guys a hand job so i wouldn't know from experience but as a basic starting point, however,firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow, steady motion.
Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Be sensitive to the way he responds, and you'll soon find the confidence to try out different techniques. Ultimately, the only limit is your imagination, so here are a few ideas to get you thinking;
The Ring of Pleasure
Instead of using your hand around his shaft, form a donut ring with your thumb and forefinger and get a rhythm going just under the glans at the top of his penis.
The Comb Over
On every other 'upswing' or so, take your thumb and rub it over the top of his penis head before bringing your hand down again.
The Pastry Worm
andwich his penis between the flat of both hands, then roll one hand forward and the other back. Repeat the motion back and forth as if you were playing with pastry, and not trying to light a fire with sticks.
♥ maria ♥
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hey ok i need help. if i am on birth control can i get pregnant?
Hey
There is a serious risk of pregnancy if the pill is taken irregularly or infrequently. The most common way women become pregnant while taking the pill is by being late to start their next series of pills. Make sure you are punctual with taking the first pill and follow your physician's guidelines for when pills are missed. The only instance when missing pills does not increase the risks of pregnancy is when any of the last 7 pills in a 28-day package are missed. But otherwise it is a 99% chance you will get pregnant!
♥ maria ♥
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okay really random question. but in xoxo. which is the hug and which is the kiss?
Hey
The o is the hug
And the x is the kiss
♥ maria ♥
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is it okay to put my sea sick patch on my butt or boob? i know it sounds weird.. but i don't want the patch to interfere with my tan. i don't even know if i'll need it yet, if i get sea sick. but is this okay? thanks.
Hey
I would say to put the patch on your butt. That way it won't interfere with your tan at all. I'm sure you wear full covered bathing suits, so no one will ever even know you have it on! But hey i hear that the pills work better. Maybe you could give that a try.
♥ maria ♥
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okay well my mom just bought crest white strips and i was wondering do they work better on dirty or clean teeth? my mom said she heard they work better on dirty but i wasnt sure
Hey
Ummm actually it is true. Most of the time they work better on dirty teeth, so right before you go to bed and brush your teeth just use the crest white strips and then brush your teeth.
♥ maria ♥
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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true?
Hey
When people say opposites attract it means exactly
what it says. When two people who are so much different from each other fall in love. When i say different i mean they are from different religions, cultures, skin color, taste in music, personality! Stuff like that!
Is this statement true?
For everybody it's different. Some people fall in love with somebody the same as them and another person falls in love with somebody opposite from them. It's all up to the person. Basically there is no correct answer for this question.
♥ maria ♥
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Am I good to go with a tampon and a thong?
Hey
yeah it's perfectly fine. Don't worry. just make sure to take an extra tampon with you where ever you go.
♥ maria ♥
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hey maria i have a big problem but i dont know who to tell. you seem like a really smart perosn so i came to you. i am now 16 years old but when i was only 14 i almost had a baby. me and this boy were always having sex. i killed my own baby my taken pills and i almost died myself. no one knew about the baby. they all thought i just wanted to kill myself. ever since then i have been crying and feeling like a horrible person i dont know what to do. i dont even know what im asking you
Hey
Oh my gosh I don't even know how to start off with this question. I am so sorry for what you had to go through in the past three years. I honestly cried when I read your question. I think what your asking for is a friend to talk to, someone to help you through this. Well if that's what you're looking for then you have me, Conceder me your friend from now on. Now what you have to tell your self is that everybody makes mistakes. EVERYBODY! God forgives us, and so should you. Forgive yourself. That is the first step. You made a mistake, but don't let that one mistake get in the way of your life. I know that you could forgive but never forget, but at least try to forgive yourself first! You have to understand that you were only a child. Fourteen years old is nearly a baby in my eyes. If a baby steals something in the store or breaks something, do we get mad and punish her?! We simply understand that she just didn't know any better! Same goes for you! You didn't know any better. Sweetheart, we need to learn from our mistakes not surfer from them. I understand all the pain that you're going through, but YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON! You are only human, and the fact that you do feel horrible just proves that you're no where near a horrible person. You actually care enough to hurt inside about what you have done. That shows a lot in a person.
Always remember you're not perfect and that's the way god intended it to be.
Please IM me at least on aim my SN is DiOr BARBIEE
God bless you
♥ Maria ♥
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I wanna new sn for aim but i can't think of any. Im 14/f if that helps any. I just want a really cute one Thanks
Hey
I already answered a question like this two days ago, so i hope you don't mind if i just copy and past it!
Do you like any of these:
clssicXdisaster
KymmiEE sMiiLeSs
DesiirabLee
careSsME
0bsessi0n
OoOh La La La
Laffy X Taffy
DESiREEEEE
daZZllling
DaZzling MEE
Bl3edingxR0seee < --- That's one of my sns except i have two e's in the end!
d1orable
likeDUHH
missFLiRTSs
NUMBER 01 WHORE
WHOREABLE
CoOkieeE
bloodyxromance
CrAzZyYBeaUtiFuL
DROPdeadGORGEOUS
FliRtaTeOus
im YUMMYY
simplyy KYMMIE
SoUnique
If you do like one, and deicide to use it , but it's already in use or something try adding numbers to the end, or putting x's and o's! If you need help with that just IM my sn DiOr BARBIEE or leave a comment in my inbox!
♥ maria ♥
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Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.
So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?
Hey
I am going to be 100% honest with you. Most boys ages 14 - 23 only think about sex, and how to get into a girls pants. There are exceptions but they are very little, and especially at this age. About your questions : Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body: I myself am a virgin and i had many boyriends in the past, and we never had sex, so yes you can find a guy that will not force you into having sex, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want to! As you guys start dating sex will come up alot at this age! About you being prude! i don't know. You never had a boyfriend before you said, but you never said anything about kissing, or making out with a guy! If you never kissed a guy then yes you are prude, but hunny there is nothing wrong with that! It's better to have your first kiss with someone who actually cares, and loves you! You know?? Sweetie don't worry you'll get a boyfriend sooner or later but don't rush, he'll find you! Take your time finding the right guy! I know you might be thinking but everybody else has boyfriends. HONESTLY think to yourself do those guys really like those girls that their dating or do they just want sex! You'll be surprised with the truth. Concerider yourself lucky, most boys only go for the easy girls. You must respect your body so much that guys don't even bother because they know they have no chance!
If you want to talk some more about this just leave a comment in my inbox or IM me at DiOr BARBIEE
♥ maria ♥
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can someone tell me how much a fitted hat cost?
Hey
Well most start from $17.99 - $28.00
If your lucky maybe you can find a cheaper one somewhere online!
♥ maria ♥
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I got a virus on my old screenname so I need a new one. None of my friends thought of any I like.
- I'm kinda preppy.
- I like hollister && abercrombie.
- The name is Kymmie
I don't want anything like "HOLLISTERxPREP, PREPPY KYMMIE or anything" I want something orginial. Thanks guys.
Hey
Well honestly it's kind of hard to find any orginial screen names anymore. EVERYBODY COPIES one another in a way when it comes to screen names.
But here are some cute preppy SNs!
clssicXdisaster
KymmiEE sMiiLeSs
DesiirabLee
careSsME
0bsessi0n
OoOh La La La
Laffy X Taffy
DESiREEEEE
daZZllling
DaZzling MEE
Bl3edingxR0seee < --- That's one of my sns except i have two e's in the end!
d1orable
likeDUHH
missFLiRTSs
NUMBER 01 WHORE
WHOREABLE
CoOkieeE
bloodyxromance
CrAzZyYBeaUtiFuL
DROPdeadGORGEOUS
FliRtaTeOus
im YUMMYY
simplyy KYMMIE
SoUnique
Umm that's all i could think of so far, so if you like any try to use it and if someone already has it just change the words around a little bit, or add some x's or o's! If you need anymore help or SN's just leave a comment in my inbox or IM me on aim!
♥ maria ♥
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hello i was looking at all your advice and then i came apoun this answer that you gave.
i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend
Number one: A true friend stays with you until the end.
This girl was obvousily never your real friend. To me this girl sounds like a heartless bitch with
no common respect for people. But i don't blame her. I can see where she gets it. Like mother like daughter.
I wouldn't be mad at the girl only because she wasn't taught any better then that. But still that is no excuse
to what she has said. Although she never said those horrible things to your face it probably hurts more
that she said them behind your back. This not only shows she's scared of being truthful , it shows she's a two faced person.
I say this is not a bad thing that has happened, its pretty much the BEST thing that could have happened to you.
Would you have rather spent the next year or so with a person that doesn't like you deep down inside or should you be happy
that you truely know her feelings and that you can move on with your life. You are lucky to know the truth about this girl and her mother.
I say get away from them as far as possible. Don't waste your time with low life people. How dare they say you are ugly. Who are
they to judge you? I'll tell you who! NOBODY! Now i understand why you feel the need to end your life. You were around negative people
that brought your energy down. You need to slap your self in the face and give your self a reality check! Look in the mirror
and say to your self over and over again. I am a better person then she is. I am beautiful in my own way. I love myself more then anything
else. I respect my self and i shall not let anybody bring me down! I'm sure if you keep those lines in your head you will understand just how truely beautiful
you really are! The next thing you need to do is find people that will love you for you. People that will respect you, and people that
will look at you and see your beauty. Once you find those people you will know how lucky you truely are. And remember everything happenes for a reason.
♥ maria ♥
EDIT FEEDBACK: Sweetheart i'm so glad i could help. I really appreciate all the compliments you gave me. But i want you to understand i wasn't trying to fish for compliments and that i do care. If i didn't i wouldn't be on this site. I just hope you understood everything i had said and i hope you can start to love yourself. You must love yourself for others to love you.
If you ever need anything else just leave a comment in my inbox. I'll be more then happy to help!
when i read what you had said i cried. That just proved to me that you do give the best advice on this site!
Hey
Ohh wow! You went that back far to read that. I believe i answered that in the summer time. Thankss what you just said really means alot to me, and i was just glad that i could help that person.
♥ maria ♥
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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?
♥ Thanks.
Hey
I'm going to be VERY honest with you sweetie! If she's your "BEST FRIEND" then yeah a gift card is a really bad idea! I don't know about your friend but i personally would be pretty upset, if not mad if i got a gift card from a best friend! The gift itself is a good idea, but not for someone your close to.
Why don't you buy her a card, fill it out with some warm,words and thoughts, on top of that get her some
perfume. I really like Fantasy by Britney Spears,PARIS HILTON for women, Angel, Gucci RUSH 2, Tommy Hilfiger True Star, Anna Sui Sui Dreams, Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue, those are just some of my favorites. If you don't think she'll like perfume try getting her a cute top, or jeans at hollister. I'm sure even if she shops there she doesn't own everything in the store. Here's a thought does she have her belly priced? If so try getting her a bunch of belly rings. You could always get her accessorizes. I really don't know alot about your friend,so if you want more ideas then simply just IM me on aim DiOr BARBIEE or leave a comment in my inbox! I'll be more then happy to help!
♥ maria ♥
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okay i like this kid and hes in all my classes i have a feeling he likes me and he always ims me as soon as he gets on the problem is i have plenty of things to talk to him about at school but nothing online so does any one know stuff i can say to him and no hey whats up ? and hows school . just dont cut it thanks a bunch ..
Hey
Well what i do when there's like nothing to talk about with a person or when i want to get to know the person better is play the QUESTION GAME! LOL
you basically just take turns asking personal questions! It's very fun to do, and you'll be surprised with some of the answers. Some things i like to ask are the what "if's"! For EXAMPLE: who would you rather F_CK/kiss/makeout/and or date. maybe you could give him a choice of some ugly girls in class, teachers, or celebrities.
If you don't like this idea you could always try talking about sports, t.v shows or movies! But i'm sure you'll love the question game.
♥ maria ♥
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