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hello i was looking at all your advice and then i came apoun this answer that you gave.
i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!
what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend
Number one: A true friend stays with you until the end.
This girl was obvousily never your real friend. To me this girl sounds like a heartless bitch with
no common respect for people. But i don't blame her. I can see where she gets it. Like mother like daughter.
I wouldn't be mad at the girl only because she wasn't taught any better then that. But still that is no excuse
to what she has said. Although she never said those horrible things to your face it probably hurts more
that she said them behind your back. This not only shows she's scared of being truthful , it shows she's a two faced person.
I say this is not a bad thing that has happened, its pretty much the BEST thing that could have happened to you.
Would you have rather spent the next year or so with a person that doesn't like you deep down inside or should you be happy
that you truely know her feelings and that you can move on with your life. You are lucky to know the truth about this girl and her mother.
I say get away from them as far as possible. Don't waste your time with low life people. How dare they say you are ugly. Who are
they to judge you? I'll tell you who! NOBODY! Now i understand why you feel the need to end your life. You were around negative people
that brought your energy down. You need to slap your self in the face and give your self a reality check! Look in the mirror
and say to your self over and over again. I am a better person then she is. I am beautiful in my own way. I love myself more then anything
else. I respect my self and i shall not let anybody bring me down! I'm sure if you keep those lines in your head you will understand just how truely beautiful
you really are! The next thing you need to do is find people that will love you for you. People that will respect you, and people that
will look at you and see your beauty. Once you find those people you will know how lucky you truely are. And remember everything happenes for a reason.
♥ maria ♥
EDIT FEEDBACK: Sweetheart i'm so glad i could help. I really appreciate all the compliments you gave me. But i want you to understand i wasn't trying to fish for compliments and that i do care. If i didn't i wouldn't be on this site. I just hope you understood everything i had said and i hope you can start to love yourself. You must love yourself for others to love you.
If you ever need anything else just leave a comment in my inbox. I'll be more then happy to help!
when i read what you had said i cried. That just proved to me that you do give the best advice on this site!
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Ohh wow! You went that back far to read that. I believe i answered that in the summer time. Thankss what you just said really means alot to me, and i was just glad that i could help that person.
♥ maria ♥
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