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Ok Well theres this Amazingly Gorgeous kid in my 6th period lunch named, Joe and hes soo amazing like i almost passed out the first day i saw him.. no jokee!! and belive me if i think a guy is hitt hes majorly hottt.. because i dont think many r hott.. but moving on...

My friend chelsea is obsessed over himm... and hes always looking over to me and my (girl) friends tables.. soo like yea i looked at him and he looked at me and it was almost like we had a staring contest (laugh out loud) and than his friend like tapped him on the shoulder soo he turned his head..

but my friend Chelsea totally thinks he stares at her all the time.. but hes nott.. and hes in 11th grade and were in 9th soo its like were 14 hes 17 but what ever (laugh Out Loud) we got one of our 11th grade friends to talk to him..For chelsea and the 11th grade friend who was a girl.. never told chelsea what he said but she told me..

She said Chelsea was gross and wear way to much make-up and he'd only go out with her for some "booty".

So Chelseas always tlaking about how hot he was.. yesterday she said she was in love.. i feel soo badd.. i wanna get her mind off this kid because hes not interested.. what do i sayy to her?

just tell her he's taken. then she won't keep going on and on about how she wants him.

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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?

What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?

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Kelsssss
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do anything that makes you feel good without anything to do with him. (shopping!, anything to do with your best girls, movies, day at the spa, get your nails done.) dont worry about it. he's not worth your time. = )

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i really like this guy .. but i dont know if he likes me back...everytime i look at him hes looking at me but i dont no if thats because i was looking ... how do i tell him that i like him ?? .... help pleaseeee

tell him how you feel straight up!! it's the easiest/best way to go, and you'll feel a lot better once you do!

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The guy I'm seeing now does not use his tongue when kissing or... anything else for that matter. Ever! He finds it disgusting! His mouth is always sealed. I on the other hand, love french kisses! I didn't even know there were people out there like him. Is this normal? It's sort of hard to get passionate with someone like this, lol.

well it's normal i guess but not a lot of guys like that out there. just tell him you want to go further with your "kisses" and whatever else you want, and even if you guys are kissing or something you could just like be the first and put yours in his (tongue) and see how he reacts. guys like it when girls make the first move.

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is there a difference between going out end being gf/bf?
i have been going out with this guy for a while and people say oh you two are going out right? and i dont know if he considers us bf/gf?

same exact thing. = )

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when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt?

get the clear gel deodorant, not the powder. it works so well and leaves no marks. (secret makes the best kind)

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well me and my friends have been friends since middle school. now they all see to have started leaving me out. not asking for plans. barally talkign to me in the halls, talkign to me like only if its convienent for them. even my best friend now has a boyfriend and she does not make time for me and i ask her all the time for plans but yet it seems as though she has plans for them. im so lonely. i recently stoped talkign to the kid i like. and we stoped hooking up, and i have no one. please dont say that i should go make other friends. cuz this is highschool, its not that easy. those are my friends. i just dont now what to do anymore. i hate sittin ghome and being alone.

if they don't invite you..INVITE THEM. invite them to hangout anywhere fun like movies, mall, throw a party with everyone then people will want to hang out with you. if they still keep up the same attitude, find friends who will appreciate you.

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I was just wondering if anyone has tried spray-on tanning. I do not want to harm my skin with regular tanning, but I don't want to look white as a ghost either. So, how do they do it? Does it look fake? Will it streak or wash off? Does anyone recommend it?

dont do it. it is so orange. and it misses spots and leaves white places.

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well my Sims2 is stratched well not alot . anyone know how to fix that without having to go buy a CD repair kit. ive already tried peanut butter,hair conditioner,&&perfume. i got those from websites and it didnt help

there isn't a way to fix it unless you buy the kit or just a new cd. that stuff you put on it is just going to make it worse.

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i am about 5'5 5'6 probually closer to 5'6 now. and i weigh 118 pounds. do am i fine. cuz when i look in the mirror i see BBIIIIGGG.

average for your height.

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okay, well i like this guy and i think he might like me too.. hes in 10th grade and im in 8th. is there a problem with that? and what should i do if my mom asks me about it?

absolutely nothing wrong with that. if your mom has a problem just assure her that he is a really nice, RESPONSIBLE guy.

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ok so i like this guy and he may find out i like him the thing is i dont want him to find out i want him to like me and ask me out on his own i want him to do it bc he wants to not because he feels like he has to. i would just tell him but im way too shy i mean yea i flirt and try to get the message across but im not the one to make the first move i wasnt raised like that im so worried about this my friend says if he asks about it just tell him that i like him im so confused what should i do? tell him or not?

TELL HIM. = ) trust me. it will just make everything so much easier. you'll be so happy once you do. you don't even have to be like "I LIKE YOU" you could just say "hey your really cool and i love hanging out with you." he'll get the message.

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okay well theres this guy and i like him alot but he moved to alaska and i barley ever talk to him anymore and i just got threw talking to him and asked him if he still liked me and he does the thing is he was like my best guy friend be4 he left and now i have feelings 4 him and he told me that he might come back this summer. i realli hope he does but i have a boyfriend now and i dont no what to do. please help.

there's really two options. you can choose bw the two guys. except long distance is always really really hard. i would suggest you keep your boyfriend, but when summer starts, take a break. that way your both free for the summer to do what you want. (this way you can do what you want with your alaskan boy) then you and your BF can get back together again once the summers over.

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I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I couldn't be happier to be with him. But, about 4 years ago, when I was 11, I had my very first 'love', and I'm a freshmen now. Well, my first love has his locker close to mine, and when I see him, I like talking to him. I find it making my day sometimes because I really liked this guy and I doubt that I still do, but why do I feel happy around him if we were something years ago? And why am I curious to know how hes doing a lot?

15 and a freshmen.

you probably still have some feelings for him. i mean, you were in love with this guy and he was your very first love, so thats really understandable. its normal, and it happens a lot. if your feelings for him start to get more and more, then you probably still want to be with him more than your current boyfriend. tell both of them what is up. (different times of course) hope i helped.

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ok me and my best friend (guy) are going out secreatly and i was wondering if that is wrong to keep it even from my best friend. Should i talk to him and see if im able to tell a couple of really good friends? im 13 and a female.
**sleepiesheep**

why are you keeping it a secret? what's the point? i say go ahead and tell all your friends. = )

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how old do u have to be in order to get a tan from a tanning bed?

depends on the state you live in. just go in the tanning salon and ask. = )

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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions?

forever 21. so cheap, yet so adorable.

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okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.

ok so i think i already got asked this exact same question..but that's alright here it is again...

hey! did you ever think maybe this guy you really like is thinking the same thing? obviously if he's staring at you, there's something about you he likes. some things you could do to get him to really notice you would just be to make the first move and start a conversation. (guys love girls who make the first move) also, make sure you smile a lot and make eye contact. compliments are always really good, too. overall just make sure you have fun. dont worry everyone gets a little nervous, but once you two start talking you won't even be thinking about your nerves. = )

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hey so i have asked you some ?'s in the past and the advice is great so thank you! just wanted to ask how you got your advice column out there for people to come to it. im just starting out really and just hoping people will find me somehow? but anyways just wondering what you did to get yours noticed if anything. thanks again. :)

thank you so much! that is so sweet of you! well i just started adding random people as friends (columnists that i liked) then they would add me back. i got a couple questions from that. but then like if you go to the side on the left and click advice topics you can go to any topic you want and just answer anyones question they dont even need to ask you! then people started coming to my site because they liked my answers. anyways, add me as your friend! i'd love to help you get yours out there! xo

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13/f
Ok well i've been really bored lately and i just got of restriction that lasted for ever and i just wanta do something fun with all my friends guys and girls. So i was thinking about throwing a party but like i need a theme and some good ideas like what to do so it wouldnt be so lame and just something we could do from 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm that would be fun and wouldnt get lame and stuff like that and that we could all have fun doin if this helps i have a nice pool in the backyard but its too cold to swim i also have a trampoline and i would want about 25 people at the most so give any good ideas and ill rate u a 5
thx

throw a winter/christmas party!!! obviously if it's too cold outside, it's going to need to be inside. make pretty cards with glittery snowflakes on the front or whatever you want. decorate wherever your going to have the party with tinsel, mistletoe, a christmas tree, baloons, glitter, streamers, anything pretty!! grill food. (burgers hot dogs etc.) have chips, dip, lots of candy. hot chocolate, christmas cookies, anything you want. if you want like everyone could bring one gift and everyone exchanges gifts. that's cute. then for the party just do normal party stuff you know, dancing, eating, you could play a fun game like twister or something. you could even rent a light strobe for a night for dancing. anyways i hope this helps you!

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