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I'm at a friends house and the two friends that i'm here with are mad at each other!! My friend, lets call her Anne, thought that my other friend, ummm..lets call her Haile...anyway! She Anne thought that Haile like did stuff with Anne's boyfriend, but haile didnt, but anne is convinced she did!! I wanna help I really do, but I just dont know what to do anymore! I really dont want to get stuck in it, but I cant enjoy myself with all the tension whirling around....please help!


~Melissa~ (link)
Ask"annes" boyfriend is "haile" didstuff with him. If he says no, Anee should trust him,and if she doesnt believe him, their relationship wouldnt last.


hey people! well first this question is for fishers! um... im going to lake travis to fish and i was wonderin what are some lures for catfish, perch, or anything you might find around a boat dock ect. or if you just know anything even though it might not be at lake travis please tell!!!! if you could find a picture like on a website like bassproshops ( www.bassproshops.com ) or a website like that!
ill rate an automatic 5 if you do this!!!!9the right way none of you jokers)

please help

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lake travis? here in austin texas? well i do know some spots around it but they are waaaaaaay back up in the woods and hard to get to without knowing where you're going. but the catfish, alligator garr, and carp wont stop biting out there. best way to get there is to take 1431 to a road called nameless road. turn off onto nameless and go down until you see signs telling you to go to texas paintball. what you'll wanna do instead though is follow where the first sign says to go then disobey the others and go the opposite way they tell you (to the right not the left) and eventually you'll see a ledge that leads down to something of a creek (it's part of lake travis) what you wanna do then is go down that ledge and go to the right and keep going until the water widens a lot and you can see the fish down at the bottom. then you're there.


Okay, i only remember one line of this song. Its:

"Our scars remind us the past is real"

I know a guy sings it, but i just cant remember the song!!!!! and i wanna download it! please help! (link)
The song is called SCARS and the group is PAPA ROACH....hope i helped...Brittney


why dose it seem like my bf dont really like talking to me? he seems like hes mad.? (link)
Okay, well first off you have to ask yourself if you are a boring person to talk to, secondly, do you think that you have done anything lately that could have agravatted him, like does he have a pet-peeve about stuff that people do?, Also, just ASK him if hes mad at you for something, usually, that works best!....hope i helped...Brittney


Can someone please give me an intellegent answer to y people cut? It makes no sense to me. The only conclusion i have come to is mental/emotional weakness. (link)
Most people who cut dont know how to relieve stress, and they feel that cutting is a way to relieve the stress and stop the pain, i USED to be a cutter and while you think that cutting would hurt, you get so wrapped up in all of the emotional pain, that physical pain doesn't hurt anymore! i've quit cutting, because it is VERY dangerous...hope that i helped....Brittney



Is 13 old enough to wear makeup? I mean like light makeup, not really heavy makeup cuz I'm 13 and I want to, but I'm not sure if it would look weird on a 13-year-old? (link)
yeh i think it is ok to start wearing makeup now cause i am 16 and i think i started wearin makeup when i was bout 10 or 11 a lil young but for u yeh the perfect age
i hope i was helpful to u
luv brandi :)


theirs a really cool 11 banded spike bracelet that i want. my dad says not to go overboard with bieng punk/gothic. do u think thats going overboard????? i dont think so. (link)
I dont think its going overboard unless ur trying to tick him off, but wearin more than one on each wrist would be going overboard...hope i helped...Brittney


I'm getting a new computer soon and I'm not sure what operating system to install. I've been using Windows XP for a while but i've had quite a few people tell me that Linux is better. I use a computer for playing games, watching films and word processing. Which operating system does these things the best? I already have windows xp so cost isn't an issue. (link)
He's right, linux is more complitcated than windows, there are a LOT less games for it, unless you use programs similar to WINE. Just go with Windows xp home. With linux you will compile you own binaries, you will have to set up the internet connection, networking etc.


i've dyed my hair over 10 times in the past 2 years and now its dry and gross, does anyone know if there is any hair product that doesnt cost alot that would make my hair more silky??, ill rate high.. please someone help me out (link)
At Sally's Beauty Supplies, there is this conditioner called Cholesterol, and its comes in green and orange and its in a jar, and its only like 7 dollars, but it works REALLY great....hope i helped...BrItTnEy


I need some ideas for a birthday party fast! I rate high! but it can't be skating, movies, or bowling! PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
Well the simplest thing to do is a house party or a sleep-over! just get sum food, music, Maybe movies... and sum truth or dare, or spin the bottle..lol, depending on what kind of party ur having,! or , you could do it at a local park and make hamburgers and hot-dogs and bring a boom box and have like a picnic type party!... hope i helped..BrItTnEy


This is important: I need ideas of what to do with friends. I know the usual shopping, movies, pool, hanging out at someone's house, bowling, minigolf, and going somewhere to get food. But as you can see, that won't last a whole summer. Can you think of creative ideas for special days that need planning (like going to a waterpark or amusement park) and creative ideas that can be decided ten minutes before (like going to the park)? PLEASE put a lot of thought into this and help!! (link)
Well, some ideas:

go to the beach
play a game
play baseball, soccer, volleyball, tennis, etc. in a community park
start a band
start a club
visit people's houses
invent something
start a business
make gifts for others
create a movie
have a party
go to a party
golfing
try a new sport!! (could be FUN!)

day events:

waterpark
amusement park
visit a large city
go on a shopping spree
go to the beach
go to a museum
take a day trip to a neat place
go to a baseball or soccer game
go camping
go kayaking/canoeing
visit a chocolate or ice cream factory (free samples!)

*margaret*


i want to buy my new nephew a rolling stone tee shirt. but i've looked in some websites, they don't have it for new born babies of 0 to 3 months. doesn't anyone know in what web site i can find it? or go to? (link)
I'm not possitively sure, but i think you can get band shirts for infants at hottopic.com...srry if i'm wrong!...brittney


i always get really bad cramps when i have my period. does anyone know good ways to dull the pain, either home remidies or medication? thanks. (link)
Well, the obvious medications are Midol and Pamprin and Prymysyn PMS, but a "home remidy" is a heating pad, or a hot bath!...hope i helped, Brittney


theirs about 2 weeks left of school and i told this boy i liked tht i liked him and he just told me he liked me 2 is it too late to hook up wit him? (link)
no it isnt to late at all i hope i helped and hopefully you all have a great relationship


o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
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hey! first i think you should ask her whats going on and why is she mad at you (if she is mad at you)then when she tells you appologize and make-up. finally tell her that whenever she thinks you did something wrong just speak up so this wont happen again.


o0o0o0kkk well my best friend.. i get the feeling she doesn't like me and I REALLY WANT TO CHANGE WUTEVER IM DOIN WRONG but the thing is i dont no wut im doin! wut should i do to help our frendship here???

i rate high!
*~!desperate for help!~*
(link)
ok here is wat i think you should do say we need to talk and ask her why she is mad at you tell her what ever your doin wrong you will try in change ittell her she is your best friend and that you dont wont her to dislike you well i hope that i helped and that you and your friend makes up bye


Hi, my mom's moving to this house, and my bedroom is really small, so I have to use a daybed. We're trying to ocean theme the room, so I need ocean bedding for a daybed, and I can't seem to find any. I've tried Google, but all that came up were things describing hotels oceanside with bedrooms. It didn't really get what I meant, I guess. So does anyone know of any websites I can go to or any links to ocean bedding for a daybed? Thanks so much.

x3 Erin (link)
JCPenny has a comforter and sheets that are like and ocean shore..its like the ocean at the bottom and clouds at the top...is that similare to what you need? hope i helped...Brittney


Hey 16/f, theres this guy that i like but he has a girl. There were times that i told him that i had a b/f but it didnt stop him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. He even told my cousins that he loved me and that he wanted me badly and that he would do anythin 4 me. I want to play hard to get and tease him and do things to make him want me more. What could i do....plz help! I rate HIGH! (link)
look if this guy cheats on his girl and kisses you and says he loves you what's to say he wouldn't do the same to you? honestly i say avoid him simply cause he could just as easily cheat on you and tell some other girl he loves her and kiss her.


I'm trying to learn how to play guitar, & I don't relly want to ahve to go get lessons, so I wanted to be self-taught, but I don't know any iste where I can learn how to play or know where to buy any books to learn how to play.

I don't know any chords or keys or anything, I am JUST starting so I'd need like the things what show you where to put your fingers & how to tune the guitar & stuff

so if anyone could show me a site that I could learn form or where to buy these books I would really appreiciate it!

& I was also wondering, should I buy an accoustic or a eliktic guitar? (I'm 14/M/TX)

thank you so much!

-Cameron (link)
Hey, Well i would definantly start with an acoustic because they are cheaper and you dont want to spend a ton of money on something you arent sure you're going to enjoy, the way i learned was by a book called : Basic Instructor, Guitar Vol. 1, by Jerry Snyder! eventually i moved on to volume 2! also there is a series of book and CD's called: 10 easy steps, and they come in any instrument...get the one that says guitar...lol! but i like the 10 easy steps better b/c it comes with a CD that helps you to know if you are playin it right! Dont forget that you will also need a guitar case, a tuner, and alot of picks!...hope i helped...Brittney


Hey! I like this guy but I don't know how to go up to him and start talking see the problm is he barly knows I exist plz help. (link)
a good way to get noticed is just to smile at him and say hi to him in the halls and in class and stuff. if you ever see him walking or sitting alone, just go up to him and say hi. eventually, you'll be able to have a conversation with him, and maybe he'll start to like you too. just be really friendly and nice to him.




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