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Hey. I want to have sex, I have a steady boyfriend for three years, and I am totally ready. I am 18 years old. The only thing is I am afraid that having sex will hurt so much it won't be worth it. I have a very small body (about 5'1, 111 pounds). Please help. I am a female. Thanks.
Rebekah (link)
He should understand you are alot smaller than him, I am about your size, so I understand that can be a scary thought. Just ask him to be gentle, and try and go slow until you are adjusted to it. If you really care about him, and he you, it will definetly be worth it.


hey...does anyone know how to getr certain news articles online? like what website would I go to to find news articles from the daily local news? i tried dailylocalnews.com, but i couldn't find it. Please answer!! i will rate high for good ones!
~*jaimee*~ (link)
msn.com always has the latest news stories on their home page. I keep it as my home page, so I always know whats going on.


Ok, well I give out alot advice my self, but I am unable to think of anything. My story is this: My friend is real big in acting. She does charity plays for small children. She is now pressuring me into going to a summer acting class but I can't go. I have to be free to watch my younger siblings. I want to go, but i also have my responsibility. I've talked to my mom and she says its completely up to me, but I don't know which to choose. If I decide to say no to the class how should I tell her with out hurting her feelings?

Thanks & Sorry if its a little long!
^_~
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Explain to her acting is her thing, and say you support her in it. It's the same as your sporty friend trying to get you to run track in the summer, when you don't enjoy running, or aren't a very active person. Doing things with her is great, but you still need to have different interests and hobbies.


hey my mom wants to go to see moster in law but i have all ready seen it what should i do (link)
Go see it again. Would it kill you to see it a second time, to spend a little quality time with your mom? Just smile and go with it.


It's summer and really want to lose some weight off of my thighs. Is there anything you recomend? (link)
well mountain climbers really help. you should do those, and have your knees just like 1 inch off the ground and do them. besides that the only thing that i can think of is running up and down your stairs.


all of my friends dont live in my neighborhood, so when i want to go to the pool i cant go cause i dont have anyone to go with. i wanna go alone, but i also wanna get in the water w/o looking like a freak since i dont have anything to do with anyone. what are some ideas of things i could do alone? (link)
just go in, i mean hoo rele cares wat u look like while ur in the pool! i mean seriously, if its fun i say just go in!


ok i was in the store with my friends and therr b/fz n they werr talking about finger condoms..what are they used for and where can you buy them?? thankz for the help and i rate HIGH!
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i've seen them, and i've seen them used to hide ones fingerprints at a crime scene or something moreso than anything else, also they can be used to make a copy of someone else's fingerprints and use their print as your own. they're not really sex things as they have other uses other than for fingering a girl if you have cum on your hands.


i have white filmy stuff that collect in my vulva. i don't know what it is. could it be the toilet paper? i have very good hygiene but even after 24 hours of my last shower there's white stuff. WHAT IS IT? HOW DO I PREVENT IT? HELP!!!! (link)
what you need to do is rinse it out and if it still shows up down there after a day of watching to make sure it's not toilet paper go to a doctor. because white stuff collecting down there is never good.


when the conversation dies out with your loved one...how should you start it again? (link)
you simply say sumthing like......hows life?.....or just a simple soooo, or soo hows life........depending on how youre feeling at the moment


what do guys like better: a hard to get kind of girl... or like one that leads them on? thanks.. (link)
umm that's the same thing really. hard to get is a chick who you cannot date at all, and one you leads you on is one you give up on cause you get tired of her never really "biting your bait" so to speak


okay so i really want paris hiltons long blonde hair should i think about getting extensions or should i just grow out my hair the problem with growing my hair out is i have blonde hair so my roots would constantly show. let me know and i will rate good thanks (link)
get extensions, nobody will know the diff. or you could let your hair grow,and dye ur roots blonde


Hey ppl I wanna dye my hair with lemon juic because I heard that its better and healthier than dye but I dont know how to do it do you kno how??? also tell me if you think it would look good on me to see picd go to www.janee.worldbreak.com and click sexaaay pictures and on the janeeluvzu.com page scroll down to se pics of me ....in the ones where we have on all red im the lightest one and in the others like the one of me and amanda Im the darkhaired one(all those are on the Janee:uvzU.com page) THANKXZ BAYBEE UR A DOLL! (link)
use dye instead. lemon juice wont last as long and it makes your hair SOOOOOOOO dry and kinda smells bad. So i would use maybe that temporary 28 washout dye stuff


hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie (link)
ok. if (mary) is saying that and wont beleive you she isnt a true friend. i know how you feel, i have been in the same situation. its really hard to here some1 say thatt they aint a true friend but its true. after a while they start to get on your nerves by saying that
well i hope i helped and good luck
~*Brandi*~


ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

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ok! i think you should tell him that your not ready. and to give you time. maybe he will understand. hopefully he will i hope i helped ya good luck bye
~*Brandi*~


there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help! (link)
i konw what your talkn bout, and you know that if you say sumethin and try taken up for yourself they will try fighten ya. well ya just have to take chances. i would say what i have i done to you all. and go on. if they dont stop i would tell my mom to come to skool or sumethin or tell a grow up bout it.
i hope i helped and i hope those bullies leave you alone
bye
~*Brandi*~


I'm really into the punk look...does anyone have good outfits ideas? Thanks I rate very well:) (link)
Well, band shirts, vintage 80's metal bands, or recent rock/alternative bands. Skateboard label shirts. Baggy Cargo Pants, plaid pants and skirts! Fishnet sleeves, skull and ironcross accesories! Wristbands, jelly bracelets! Here are sum web sites

Spencergifts.com
hottopic.com
pacsun.com
skateamerica.com

Hope i helped


I was just wanting to know, were can I go to get some Sims 2 stuff for my game. I've looked at a couple of site's, but I was wondering if there are any good ones out there. (link)
I was just getting around to answering you e-mail, but since you asked...

They've changed they way that objects work in Sims2. In order to use some of the user made objects you need to follow the instructions very carefully on this list of sites (for example they might require you to download and install third party software in order to use the objects... this is NOT recommended by me):

http://www.livin-it-up.net/
http://www.aroundthesims2.com/objects/index.html

Personally, I will not be downloading any objects for Sims2 until object creation is out of beta testing.


how do i find my perfect look? i mean one day im wearing baggy pants a tee shirt and converse hightops then the next day im wearing a skirt and some heels. should i choose one style? or do i just wear what i want? i dont wanna look weird... im going into highschool next year and i dont want to get made fun of cuz of the stuff i wear.... thanx so much i rate high (link)
theres no such thing as the "perfect look" just dress with what you like and your comfortable in, youll love it trust me i used to do that dressin to impress garbage, youll be better off this way


i'm redoing my room so it has black and red walls and all modern furniture! i'm also getting a new room in the basement that's pretty big and i want to have some fun things in it! what do u suggest i should incorporate into it?? any tips appreciatedd (link)
anything with like guitars, they add a certain like i dont care what you think look, or like some retro things, like old albums hung up on the walls.........fun stuff like that


I have to babysit a baby but i don't know what time to put him to bed. He's about 3 years old. Please help me. (link)
um, i would ask the parents, ir just go with 8o'clock




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