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hi..okay well one of my bestfriends (mary) is saying that i am replacing her and that i dont hangout with her anymore wich isnt true becuz i do..and like i became really good friends with this other girl (beth) and mary is like saying that i replaced her with beth and that i hangout with her all the time and stuff and i dont like hangout with her and i mean i hangout with beth alot but its becuz she always asks me to hangout and mar never does...and shes saying that every1 is saying that and like wat should i do?
thanks,
julie <3
by the way mary and beth rnt my friends real names i just used like different names
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hang out with her more often unless you don't want to be her bestfriend i mean its not that hard you need to show her that you want to be friends with her you mary and beth could all hang out you know things like that
much love
x3 mari
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ok. if (mary) is saying that and wont beleive you she isnt a true friend. i know how you feel, i have been in the same situation. its really hard to here some1 say thatt they aint a true friend but its true. after a while they start to get on your nerves by saying that
well i hope i helped and good luck
~*Brandi*~
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well when you ask beth to hang out then also invite mary and dont cling to beth. ive been the mary before and been replaced and its not fun when you see them 2 together when that used to be you and your friend. tell her how much she means to you frequently. <3
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um i think y0u should try to hang out with them both and they can probaly become friendz and mary or however it is wont feel that she is being replaced .... and if that doesnt work try to spilt y0ur time like hang out with one of them on one weekend and the other the next weekend ..hope i helped
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Mary is jealous that you aren't spending all your time with only her. You need to explain that just because you hang out with Beth sometimes you don't like her any less. Is there a reason you can't all be friends? Mary will just have to get over it. :)
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i think that you should talk to mary and ask her what she means.
just because you have other friends does not mean that you are replacing her.
maybe it is because that beth is the frist to call or make the effort to hang out. if mary never tries to get ahold of you to hang, then it is not your fault, and you need to tell her that. if you already have plans, maybe you should suggest doing something the next day, so then mary can't say that you never hang out with her.
hope i helped.
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You both have different opinions. You are going to keep thinking that you dont ignore her and she will think you do. I know how it is and you probablly are just a little tiny bit. They way you can fix this if you invite Mary to do more stuff with you and Beth and just hang out! They will be friends and all 3 of you can always hang out together. Then Mary wont feel ignored and left out anymore. ♥ ex_oh
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ok if i were in this situation i would probably try to invite beth AND mary to do something sometime and let them bond...you already know that beth is your friend ans mary is your friend so if beth and mary both become friends maybe neither one of them will feel left out.. maybe you might just all become closer.. hope i helped :)
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I had a friend just like that. Pretty much you have to bop them on the head until they figure it out.
Example: "I need to have more friends than you. If you won't let me have any more friends, Then maybe you aren't the best friend ever. Maybe I have to leave you and go on."
I know that it's hard, but if she's a good friend, she won't leave you.
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