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first time sex/ pain
Hey. I want to have sex, I have a steady boyfriend for three years, and I am totally ready. I am 18 years old. The only thing is I am afraid that having sex will hurt so much it won't be worth it. I have a very small body (about 5'1, 111 pounds). Please help. I am a female. Thanks.
Rebekah
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He should understand you are alot smaller than him, I am about your size, so I understand that can be a scary thought. Just ask him to be gentle, and try and go slow until you are adjusted to it. If you really care about him, and he you, it will definetly be worth it.
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im 5'1 and a half and 115 lbs and it dont hurt that much. It does hurt but not to the point were your gonna die. Most the time when girls cry its not over the pain its over the feeling of the first time have sex. I no thats why i was upset. I hope you get over your fear dont worry it wont hurt its just pressure to me. Hope i helped
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Sweetie Pie Ashley
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hey hun you like the same height and weight as me.. and i had sex my first time at 16 um hun it doesnt hurt so bad that you'll regret ever having sex with him.. i was worried about the same thing.. i thought it was going to hurt so bad that i would cry or something because i dont handel pain well at all.. but it turned out to be okay he went real slow for my first time and kept askin me the whole time if i was okay.. if you dont like it and it hurts to bad then just get him to stop..hope i helped.. ♥ Dez
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well if the guy cares about you, he wont try anything too painful your first time. tell him what feels good and what doesnt. <3
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Don't just worry about the pain aspect as much as the fact that it will change the way that you and your boyfriend "look" at things. Make sure that both are you are truly committed to take this step before you do.
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well i dont want to be mean but yes it does hurt but its going to hurt your first time because you never done it b4 but for some reason even if it does hurt you want to do it again
im sorry to say but it does hurt but if you really love the guy and hes a steady boyfriend then do it!
i hope i helped
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