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I need hepl on figuring out what giving head means
Oral sex.
Stimulating his penis using your mouth.
how long do you usually make-out with a boy for
There's never a set time. It could range from seconds to minutes, even hours - depending on both of your moods.
okay, i really need help with this..
i like having my truth box, because i like what people have to say about me, but i realllyyy need to know who these people are.
and i KNOW there are codes to tell you.
so if you have them, can you please tell me what they are?
thanks sooo much
People only say there is to make others frustrated, or pretend they have the code themselves but won't give it out. I wonder why they won't give it out - because there isn't such a thing that PROPERLY works perhaps?
Look on Google, I found some things. I don't know if it's real, but since you're so adamant there's a magic code, try it:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080428091222AAC86IG
Hey my name is Michelle im 15,
My question is i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time on Tuesday then the next moring i woke uo with a sore inside of my mouth.
I am so scared and dont kno weather to tell my parents or wat it is.I read about herpes and all that,but it says u kant get it the next day.
It is now Saturday and i still have it.it looks better but im still scared.if you kan help me please do.
Thanks
Michelle
My guess is it's probably caused through friction.
Easily done.
It could also be a coincidence or you had it before you gave oral sex.
If it's getting better, I doubt you have much to worry about. If it's causing you any pain or you get any other symptoms, get a chemist/doctor to take a quick look at it.
Why do people drink if it tastes so bad?
I personally think it tastes disgusting, like I'm drinking some sort of household cleaner. Do they just not care and suck it up I guess?
Or why do YOU drink? (if you do)
I drink with different mixers (any type of fizzy drink/apple or orange juice tastes best in my opinion). It gives it a kick whilst tasting nice at the same time.
I don't like the taste of some things so I just flat out don't drink them.
Everyone is different.
Some people drink to be sociable, some people drink just for the hell of it.
Ok, i know this is weird and probably i know the answer but i just wanna know...is there a chance you could get pregnant from having anal sex? Me and my bf kinda did it before. he wasn't in there that long and he kinda pre-d...im just really curious
(im a girl by the way xD)
Unless the semen somehow gets to your vagina (drips into, or if he inserts his penis into your vagina afterwards), then no.
what does nut in you mean?
Ejaculate inside someone.
do you really think that a drunk mind speaks a sober heart ?
Sometimes.
I can't really elaborate because everyone's different. I've said things I do and don't mean whilst under the influence. I guess it depends what the subject is. People are still capable of lying when drunk...
alright so i got this bathing suit at american eagle, here's the link: http://img171.imageshack.us/img171/8721/aech8.jpg
so you see in the middle between your boobs.. well on mine, it's attached there by a little thread.. should i cut the thread so it looks like the picture with the two cups separate from each other? thanks! :)
I wouldn't cut it, personally. I think it all looks better joined together. Plus, it wouldn't be much support.. as that's what the string's mainly for :)
I suppose if you do go ahead and do it, make sure you do it in a way you can sew it back together if you don't like it.
I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more
SEVENTEEN TIMES? He's lucky you forgave him the first time.
END IT.
It doesn't matter how - even a phone call or a txt in this situation would be acceptable and I don't normally condone them.
Just tell it how it is. "I'm sorry, I don't want to be in a relationship any more"
If he asks why, say you don't feel the same.
Done.
..and DO NOT let his emotions get the better of you.
He definitely does not deserve you.
i cut myself and its not deep but it wont heal!! it won scab over just this clear stuff comes out of it. it wasnt bleeding so i left if unbandaged but the puss/clear stuff that came out would stick to me clothes and they became attached. also it hurts really bad if it is just barely touched of when i move or something. i put a bandage on it so the puss would stop adhering to my clothes and the same thing happened to the bandaid. the puss stuff stuck to the bandaid and made them became stuck together. i dont know what to do to let it heal. last night i kept the area open and moved my clothing so it wasnt touching anything and it kinda scabed over a little but the clear puss stuff kept coming out so when i put the bandaid on and then took it off this evening the scab and puss was on the bandaid and my sore is still open, painful, and producing clear puss stuff. it is pretty small and not dee at all so i dont know whats wrong. i had another cut like this one only not as bad and it healed it just took a little longer than usual cuts do and hurt a lot but this one is taking forever. thank you!!
Just keep doing what you did last night - keep everything off it and let the air get to it. Try not to bend it (depending on where the cut is on your body).
The same thing happened to me when I was younger, on my knee. It would always stick to my clothing and because of that, it wouldn't heal.
Within around 2 days it should be dry and a scab forming nicely. If you see no improvements or the pus starts to turn a different colour and you experience any pain, check with a doctor incase it's the start of an infection which you might need antibiotics for.
Feel better soon.
i got my period 2 fridays ago and i ended it this friday. well ever since saturday i've been having dark brown stuff in my underwear. its like discharge but its real dark brown.. maybe my period hasnt exactly ended? But its monday and its still happening ALOT. idk what it is? is something wrong with me?
please respond if you have any idea
thank you
It's just old blood. It'll go soon. It doesn't just stop at once. :)
ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in school by smiling etc. so i dont think he hates me.
i dont knowwww. lol
but is it possible ... the whole msn thing? cos its been bothering me.
DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO HIM BECAUSE I WONT NOW ALRIGHTT? dont waste your "typing-Hands"
no offence. :P
xx
It's happened to me, so it could be happening to you.
Totally remove MSN from your computer, then download it again. It worked for me.
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and I love him to death, but when it comes to the bedroom, I don't know what to do. Basically, he isn't circumsized, and all the other guys I've dated are circumsized.
I don't want to sound mean, but I am completely unattracted to his penis. When we do sexual things together, I don't even like to look at it. I feel horrible when I say that, but it's true!
I've looked into getting him circumsized and the procedure is simple. Many men who have gone through the procedure left comments saying that they're glad they got it done.
What do you think I should do? Persuade him into getting it circumsized..? I am clueless. :(
I understand it's different for you, but if I'm being honest, this seems quite selfish.
Just because you like circumcised better isn't a good enough reason for him to jump at the chance and do it.
It's a touchy subject to bring up. Personally, I wouldn't bring it up. I'm sure, as a male, he knows what circumcision is and how there are no real benefits of having it done.
There are risks entailed - as with all surgery, as well as emotional/physical pain. Would you really want to put him through this because of his unsightly penis, in your opinion?
Not to sound rude, but there could be things he doesn't quite like about you, but I doubt he would go to extreme measures and tell you to have surgery and change yourself.
You could certainly ask him his views on circumcision, but don't expect him to want to do it.
If he's happy with how he is, then you should be too.
You should also learn to like it. Having a foreskin isn't the end of the world! You could even find ways it can benefit you.
There is this boy that goes to my school and he always flirts with me. I am in the 7th grade, and I've liked him since 4th grade. Well; Friday night I finally told him I liked him. MAJOR MISTAKE--> he has a girlfriend. He DOESN'T care about his girlfriend, the only reason he is going out with her is because the first time he dumped her, she wouldn't quit crying and he felt bad. But we were hanging out the whole time at the dance on Friday, and he was MAJORLY flirting. Well, school is out this Thursday, and I'm REALLY IN LOVE with him, what do I do?!
Hi, thanks for your question.
Well, that boy is making a big mistake and is just making it harder to break up with his current girlfriend. Even if she cried (which is to be expected), he shouldn't have got back together with her. He obviously wanted to dump her for a reason and should have been stronger..
Or so he says..?
You have to think of all the possibilities here. He may have been lying about not liking/caring for his girlfriend so it gave him an excuse to be flirty with you whilst she wasn't there.
Or, maybe he WAS being truthful.
The thing is, you've t old him how you feel. So, you've pretty much left whatever happens in his hands. He's in some crappy relationship with someone he doesn't want to be with and he knows you like him. If he liked you back, you think he'd do what anyone would do and be with you..
What to do?
Well, if I were in your position, I'd talk to him once more. I know it can be nerve racking, but as school is out, it's best to get it off your chest now. Ask him if he has any feelings for you. What to do and say afterwards will become clear when you've asked him that vital question.
If he says he likes you but still ends up in a relationship with his girl, then don't hold on and wait for him - it just proves he's messing you around.
everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, it feels good for him but not for me, why is that? it doesn't hurt or anything, i just don't get pleasure
Perhaps you haven't found what works for you with sex just yet. Try alternate positions. There's tonnes to choose from.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_sex_positions
Or perhaps add something, like lube, toys - use your imagination.
I hate to say it, but some women just don't enjoy sex as much as foreplay.
Stimulating your clitoris might personally be better for you instead of sex. Try doing both at the same time if you haven't already.
hi, ok i love babies! people always want me too babysit their kids all the time. i do always babysit them. but some of them dont pay at all. so the question is how do i get them to start paying?:)
heather
Say you're sorry, but you don't have the time to do it any more, because you need to start finding ways to get money.
I'm sure that will be a big enough hint.
Also, you can try making leaflets and stating a reasonable pay on them.
i have a ton of problems with my boyfriend. i want to fix them so badley, because i love him so much, but i really just dont know what to do. i guess ill just list the problems...and go from there..
1. jelousy. alot of girls like him and talk to him and all that stuff, and when hes just talking to them to be friendly, i cant help but feel like he likes them, or is starting to like them. or he could be cheating on me with them or something like that. he promises to me that he dosent like them, and that he would never cheat on me.
2. i feel like he still likes his ex girlfriends. just the way that he acts around them, and the fact that he makes fun of them, makes me feel like hes trying to hide the fact that he still likes them.
3. i feel like hes lying to me that his parents like me. cause, they wont ever let us hang out for more than 2 or 3 hours, and hes only spent time at my house once, out of the 6 months we've been dating. like yesterday, i got free tickets for the new narnia movie, and when it was time for him to go home, he realized that his parents werent home, my mom invited him over to our house. and when we got home there was a message on our answering machine from his dad saying that the back door was unlocked and all of that. and so he called his dad back, and once his parents heard that he was over at our house, they imediately came over and picked him up. we dont have a shitty house, we have a nicer house than they do, so i know that they dont think that he wont be safe here. i dont know what it is. its like they hate me. they dont act like it though, their always like " hi shelby, how are you" and always very nice to me, but it serioulsy seems like they do.
4. i feel like sometimes he dosent listen to me while were talking, because well be talking about something, and then ill say something, and he;ll be like " what are you talking about" either he's not listening to me, or hes just stupid.
5. i get really mad when he chooses to hang out with his friends over me. beacuse, hes canceled so many dates on me to hang out with his friends. so, the days that he hangs out with his friends, he could be spending them with me making up for the dates he's canceled. which REALLY pisses me off that he does that.
i've thought about breaking up with him, and i told him that, and he FREAKED OUT. he started hypervenolating(sp?) and cried. so i know that he loves me, but i just dont know what to do about all of this!!
please help me!!!
thanks for all your help
14/f
1. Within time, the jealousy will fade out. He picked YOU to be his girlfriend - not them. He is free to talk to whoever he likes - it does not mean he likes them more than a friend.
Believe him when he says he won't do anything to hurt you and don't let your paranoia and insecurities get the better of you.
2. They are his EX GIRLFRIENDS for a reason. Need I say more? I can guarantee most people aren't comfortable with their partners being around their ex gf's/bf's, but it's life. and you will just have to learn to trust him. That will also happen within time - promise.
3. This is an issue with his parents - not you. Maybe they are a little over protective - but they have a right to be since you are still young. As he gets older, they will be more relaxed and won't be worried about what you're getting up to behind their backs. It's just them being the average parents, really. Stop thinking they hate you, too. You're their sons girlfriend and you have done nothing wrong.
4. Maybe he genuinely doesn't understand what you're getting at. Next time he does it, ask him why he said it. Communication is the key!
5. He needs to learn to ration out his time. If he has made plans with you first, he has to stick to them. If he made plans with his friends first, it's rude to bail out on them for you, even if you are his girlfriend. Let this be known to him.
Relationships NEED communication in order to work. Talk about anything that's bothering you and don't be afraid to say it. It can only bring you closer and make things work with one another.
I feel kinda weird, but
i stuck the end of a hair brush up my ......
and it kinda felt okay.
but isn't it kind of weird for me to be doing that?
and isnt it weird for it to feel good?
Of course it's not weird. It's called masturbation - and it's meant to feel good.
As long as whatever you use is clean (so you don't get infections) and you aren't hurting yourself, do what you want.
what are the signs of being pregnant, and whats the soonest you can find out if you are?
Early signs of pregnancy:
Breast tenderness/pain
Darker nipples
Spotting/missed period
Increased vaginal discharge
Fatigue
Frequent urination
Food cravings, different sense of taste
Nausea
Mood swings
Back ache
Cramps
Headaches
http://www.breastfeedingmums.com/article_essay_early_pregnancy_symptoms.htm
Check this for a more in depth answer.