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how do you get a guy to feel you up?
Thanks for your advice :) (link)
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I'm definitely not the best when it comes to these types of questions, but my best guess would be to show him what you want him to do. Meaning move his hand exactly where you want it to be.
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I want a pair of skinny jeans, like around $20 or so. I know that's a little cheap of me, but I am broke, need a pair of pants that I can wear, and... that's it. I have gone to Marshall's and T.J. Maxx, but you can never tell what they're going to have and what size they're going to have it in. Any help please? I need a pair by Sunday. Oh, and straight-leg is okay too. Straight leg or skinny. Thanks! (link)
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*Wal-Mart
*Dots
*Steve & Barry's
Sorry, those are the only places I know of.
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everytime me, or one of my friends goes to my myspace.
my song doesn't play.
why? all the settings are right for it to autoplay. (link)
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Most of the time when people have this problem, the artist has chosen to delete the song. Be sure to check your profile and see if it says something like, "Song has been deleted by artist." If not, try changing the song and seeing if it works -- it may just be that song in general.
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The song familiar landscapes Im trying to figure out what the lyrics mean. Anyone know? (link)
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This should help you out, it's a direct link. =)
http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858625156
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what are the sex positions? (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/
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does anyone know the play that neil is in? and who it is by? (link)
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The columnist below is correct, "A Midsummer Night's Dream."
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i have like a muffin top kind of stomach.. but only in the front, i dont have big love handles but i do crunches every night and whenever i do them, i only feel the burn on the upper part of my stomach, and i want to lose the fat on my lower stomach. so do you guys think that it only will help my upper stomach or will it also work for my lower stomach? what are some other excersises i could do to make my stomach smaller? htanks (link)
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This should help you out. Please, take a look at question 9, the very last link. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299
And here's a direct link to what you're looking for.
http://www.marieclaire.com/life/healthy/excercise-tips/tone-top-exercise
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ok i KNOW that i am over weight... im 4' 11" and i weigh around 160-170. i am in karate, and i do have excersice indused asthma. I am really bad at running b/c of the asthma, and i am pretty weak...
i am so busy b/c my week is filled with homework, orchestra, 4-H, karate, and other stuff. Is there any ideas you could give me to help me loose some weight???
yeah, it makes me sad, b/c i KNOW i DONT look like i weigh that much, but then my dad told me i should lose weight, and so did my doctor! so it kinda ticked me off when my dad said that!!!
but please, do you have any ideas of how to lose some weight??? (link)
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Hello, I think question 2 should be helpful to you, and the rest in general. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=520299
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1) Am I underweight, overweight or healthy?
2) How do I lose weight?
3) How do I gain weight?
4) How do I lose my chubby cheeks?
5) I want info on a healthy, balanced diet, including recipes.
6) I’m a diabetic, and need recipes and a weekly menu on what to eat.
7) I need recipes for special occasions and holidays.
8) I have anorexia or bulimia, or want to help a friend with it. What can I do?
9) I want to exercise and get fit. How do I? I also want a playlist for working out. (link)
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1) BMI - http://www.seventeen.com/health-sex-fitness/bmi-calculator/
2) Lose Weight - http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/dieting/lose_weight_safely.html
3) Gain Weight - http://www.gov.mb.ca/health/nutrition/pubs/gain_weight.pdf
4) Chubby Cheeks - http://www.suite101.com/article.cfm/diy_fashion_beauty/67376
5) Healthy Diet - http://www.wellnessletter.com/html/fw/fwNut01HealthyDiet.html
http://www.4women.gov/faq/diet.htm
Recipes - http://www.myrecipes.com/recipes/healthydiet
http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/lf_health/
6) Diabetic Recipes - http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/lf_hl_diabetic_recipe/0,2857,FOOD_26656,00.html
I did better than a weekly plan, I got a monthly plan! http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/lf_hl_diabetic_planner/0,3151,FOOD_29017,00.html
7) http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/entertaining/
8) Info on Bulimia - http://www.mamashealth.com/bulimia.asp
Info on Anorexia - http://www.mamashealth.com/anorexia.asp
Treatments - http://www.healthyplace.com/communities/Eating_Disorders/concernedcounseling/treatment.htm
Help for Anorexia & Bulimia - http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Eating_Disorders/self_help_3.asp
A Hotline You Can Call For Help - http://anad.org/
9) http://www.marieclaire.com/life/healthy/
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okay, well i'm just curious about this.
i'm on my period, and i gave my boyfriend a hand job. and he skeeted/cummed in my hand and i wiped it off, and i went to go change my pad and stuff and it touched the bottom of the pad. can i get pregnant by that?
and can you get pregnant when you're on your period? (no i did not do it when i'm on it, i'm just wondering)
is there any other way you can get pregnant besides vaginal sex? (link)
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1) You cannot get pregnant from touching the bottom of the pad, so no worries there.
2) Absolutely, you can still get pregnant while you're on your period.
3) YG is correct, the only way you can get pregnant is from sperm entering your vagina. Which does happen through vaginal sex, but it could also happen if you took your hand (while you had the sperm on it) and put it directly in your vagina or if it somehow leaked into the vagina, you would have a chance of becoming pregnant. But as I mentioned before, you can't get pregnant from touching the bottom of the pad.
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basiscally when i get my period my vagina aches a bit, like the muscles..i am used to it. But now all of a sudden, I came off my period a couple a days ago but its acheing..i dont the scientific word but like the "flaps" of my vagina are aching like the muscles and i don't know why!
I am NOT sexually active
14/f/uk (link)
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I get this all the time, see, some people have worse periods than others. Unfortunately, I'm one of those people -- and you probably are too. I have horrible PMS (Pre-menstual Syndrome), what you get before your period. During my period, I have terrible aches everywhere. And even after my period is over, I'm still sore. So it's normal, just painful. I take Midol, I haven't found anything better to ease the pain. It's cheaper than going to the doctor, and having he/she prescribe medication for it.
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ok, is it possible to have vaginal sex without your hymen being broken, like letting him go in but not all the way? can you still get pregnant if your hymen is intact? i know you can still orgasm, but what about the guy, will he be satisfied? (link)
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1) It is possible to have vaginal sex, without having your hymen break. Really, your hymen can broken by lots of different things, doesn't mean that sex will break it (though many would think it would).
2) You absolutely can still get pregnant if you hymen has not yet been broken, actually, your hymen has nothing to do with getting pregnant.
3) I really don't know enough about this question, to give you a good answer if he would be satisfied or not, I'm sorry. But my best guess, would be yes, he'll still be satisfied.
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is there a term for a guy sucking on a girls chest??? (link)
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From my understanding, there isn't a special term for that.
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how do you make out/french kiss? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/kiss.htm
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someone on here told me that song "Independent" by Webbie wasn't out in stores yet, or iTunes.
when will it be? or does anyone know?
ah please help, i want that song so bad! (link)
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His new album comes out in February of 08', but his single will probably drop before that. I honestly don't know what day, though.
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ive had a backache for 2 days now and this morning when i went to the bathroom and wiped there was pinkish read on it does that mean im getting my period help (link)
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I'm not a doctor, so I could be wrong, but I really do believe that you're getting your period. I always get headaches, etc. Right because I get my period, it's called PMS. Please don't panic, I'm sure you're fine, especially if it's only your period. I recommend talking to your mom about it, or another trusted adult you're close to.
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Okays, so, there's a guy who likes me and makes it very apparent. But, he had also admitted to only liking me because he thought I'd like him back, which to me, doesn't sound like a good foundation for a relationship, seeing as he doesn't like me for, well, who I am. He's also very annoying about the subject, like I had gone out with his friend a year ago, and he spent an hour lecturing me on "He and I are like the same! If you liked him you should like me!"
So, yeah, nuh-uh, don't like him too much. He's being a jerk about it all.
Oh, and yeah, I like his best friend. And last year he and I would talk, but this year I'm assuming something happened because he doesn't like talking with me much anymore. And I know this sounds kinda lame, but it's been bothering me...
He makes balloon-animals. Which I LOVE (I love clowns and jesters and all that, and this guy does a lot of clown-ish things, juggling, unicycling, ect.) and a week ago he made himself a balloon staff and crown. A few days ago, I asked him to make me a crown, because he had made his friend a flower that day and I knew he had balloons. He said he couldn't remember how to make a crown (he had made one for some kid the same day) so said I'd love to have anything he could make. And....he left. Like, got up and left the room (it was in a little lounge at school).
I was distressing because something had made our friendship fall. He is very shy, and I see him looking at me a lot. We exchange smiles, but for some reason, he just won't talk to me anymore. Sorry it's so long! But it's been bothering me. =( (link)
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Please, don't worry about the length. We're all here to help, not matter the length of the question. =)
I can see why you'd be upset about all of this, I think you're going to have to try to ignore this guy who likes you. Really, I don't think there's anything else you do. I think it would be better if you focused on your friendship with the guy you like, try talking to him and see if your relationship can go back to the way it was before. Or let him know how you feel, and maybe the two of you can get together.
My only concern about that is his best friend, is the guy who won't leave you alone. And that can really cause some potential problems, I wouldn't doubt it if that isn't the reason why the two of you don't have such a good friendship now. So I would be careful getting into a relationship with him, however, I do believe no matter what you choose, you should talk to him about it and see what he has to say -- there's always that chance that you and him can work out a relationship, or at least a solid friendship.
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What are some good ways to destress on the spot because i cant just walk away from my problems like everyone always expectx people to do. thanks (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://stress.about.com/od/tensiontamers/a/stressrelievers.htm
http://www.twu.edu/o-sl/counseling/SelfHelp001.html
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In the Real housewives of Orange County, Lauri's Fiance George, has 4 kids, but only one of them (Mackenzie) is on the show this season....wheras all of them were on last season.
Does anyone know why??
Thanks! (link)
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From what I've heard, they didn't want to be followed around by the cameras this season, so they chose not to be on the show.
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my friend got into some trouble that made her have to switch schools, and she had a drug problem becasue she felt like she never got love from her parents...well today she came to school crying and said that her mom found a memior that she wrote for school and it was talking about how her mom blamed her for everything...well she said that her mom emotionally beats her down and said that this morning she slapped her across the face...so she called her dad and her dad told her that she was being overdramatic...she said the court told her she has to listen to her parents and i said that there is a fine line between listening and abusing..but she kept on saying she cant talk to anyone because they wont listen to her because of her drug problem from the past year...i just dont know what to do...i mean what if i say something then she really is being a drama queen..from the way she talks about her mom her mom dont like her...im just stuck on this one (link)
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First off, I completely agree with you - there is a VERY fine line between listening to your parents, and letting them emotionally, physically, and mentally abuse you. And second, I want to tell you that you are a very good friend, for caring enough to try to help your friend.
This is a toughie, normally, I would tell you to talk to your friend's parents. But now, her problem is her parents. So the only other person I can think of, is to tell the police or call one of those hotlines for abuse. They're completely anonymous, and they just tell you what they think you should do as her friend. And I think that would be a great idea, would you like me to look up the hotline? I'd be happy too, just let me know in an inbox question.
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