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Some guy =/
Okays, so, there's a guy who likes me and makes it very apparent. But, he had also admitted to only liking me because he thought I'd like him back, which to me, doesn't sound like a good foundation for a relationship, seeing as he doesn't like me for, well, who I am. He's also very annoying about the subject, like I had gone out with his friend a year ago, and he spent an hour lecturing me on "He and I are like the same! If you liked him you should like me!"
So, yeah, nuh-uh, don't like him too much. He's being a jerk about it all.
Oh, and yeah, I like his best friend. And last year he and I would talk, but this year I'm assuming something happened because he doesn't like talking with me much anymore. And I know this sounds kinda lame, but it's been bothering me...
He makes balloon-animals. Which I LOVE (I love clowns and jesters and all that, and this guy does a lot of clown-ish things, juggling, unicycling, ect.) and a week ago he made himself a balloon staff and crown. A few days ago, I asked him to make me a crown, because he had made his friend a flower that day and I knew he had balloons. He said he couldn't remember how to make a crown (he had made one for some kid the same day) so said I'd love to have anything he could make. And....he left. Like, got up and left the room (it was in a little lounge at school).
I was distressing because something had made our friendship fall. He is very shy, and I see him looking at me a lot. We exchange smiles, but for some reason, he just won't talk to me anymore. Sorry it's so long! But it's been bothering me. =(
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I can see why you'd be upset about all of this, I think you're going to have to try to ignore this guy who likes you. Really, I don't think there's anything else you do. I think it would be better if you focused on your friendship with the guy you like, try talking to him and see if your relationship can go back to the way it was before. Or let him know how you feel, and maybe the two of you can get together.
My only concern about that is his best friend, is the guy who won't leave you alone. And that can really cause some potential problems, I wouldn't doubt it if that isn't the reason why the two of you don't have such a good friendship now. So I would be careful getting into a relationship with him, however, I do believe no matter what you choose, you should talk to him about it and see what he has to say -- there's always that chance that you and him can work out a relationship, or at least a solid friendship.
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