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a bad site has taken my money and wont stop i signed up and i cant un sign what do i do
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Hi there,

Please ask a question directly to me, and give me the link to the site. I will look up the ownership information and tell you how to cancel this or what your next step should be.

Yes I know it is a "bad" site. Don't worry about posting the link to it in the question. I will delete the link as soon as I have taken care of this. You can also e-mail me at: dangernerd@gmail.com if you would rather do that.



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Satya? (link)
Why are you asking me this?


Is dayhug.com a scam web site? (link)
To add to what Razhie already wrote:

These folks are listed at:

"The China Scam List:

http://www.stopscammers.co.uk/21.html

... which lists every known Chinese scam site.

And to add a note about paypal:

That is exactly right. Whenever someone makes you e-mail to find out their eBay account name or their paypal ID... RUN!

Paypal has a safe, secure on-line shopping cart system. There is no reason for this company to hide their paypal account.

Also, when you find something for 1/10th of what it currently sells for in your local store, be careful. It really is true that if something seems too good to be true, it usually is.

If you are happy with a fake purse, bag, jacket or whatever, then by all means go to your local flea market and buy something like this. Even buy a fake on-line if it makes you happy, but know that it isn't legal and if the site is busted while your money is there, it is gone forever.

One more thing: Fake name brand clothing, shoes, jeans, etc... can vary wildly in quality. Most things like this are very low quality. Low enough that anyone who has ever seen a real Prada tote will laugh when they see your copy.

I have seen some of these where the liners were made out of paper/cardboard with fuzzy fabric hot-glued to it. Expect that to last about a week.

As for dayhug.com being a scam? Well, do I think that CHANEL knows that they are selling their products and are happy about it? No, of course not.

Do they actually send you anything if you send them money? Well, I wouldn't send them a money order no matter what you did, but if they do actually have a paypal account, and you do buy something, paypal will give you your money back if they fail to deliver it.

Beware: They may get out of that by saying that it was detained at customs or lost in shipping.

Now you know the risks involved. I hope you make a smart decision.


Hey I'm a second semester freshman and I'm just really not happy here. I came into college with the notion that I would make friends, everyone would be open to being your friend, and all of that crap. However, I was dead wrong when I went through my first semester of college realizing that one can actually end up friendless in college. And I did what society said to do when you don't make friends: "join clubs", "put yourself out there" and blah blah blah. I'm currently in my second semester and nothing has changed. I'm just depressed and would like some feedback from you because I read a post by you in 2006 to someone who was in my shoes and it was VERY inspirational.


Currently, I'm embracing being alone because I'm sick and tired of beating myself up and doing a 360 just to make friends. I don't feel the effort is worth it.

Please, I would love to hear feedback from you. (link)
Hi there,

The user you wrote this to doesn't allow questions from people who don't have an account.

Please go here:

http://www.advicenators.com/register.php

... and sign up to ask them again.

You may copy and paste this question into a new one once you have your account.

I would also suggest asking this question to the public here once you have an account, as there are many people in college or recently out of college who will be able to help you.

Just a note from personal experience:

Any "friend" you have to go out and recruit isn't really a friend.

All the things you are doing to make friends... well, if you haven't, find clubs and activities that you truly enjoy. Things you would be doing if there weren't other people involved just because you love the things that much.

This way you will meet people who truly share your interests, and it is much more likely you will find a kindred spirit.

If you are: "...beating myself up and doing a 360 just to make friends..." then you aren't enjoying what you are doing, and people know that. People don't want to be friends with someone who is busy beating themselves up and doing 360s if you get my drift. ;-)

Another thing about making friends is that we are all shy to an extent. If you aren't shy, the other person might be. Overcoming this is #1 in success in most things in life.

I found a video that I think is fabulous for overcoming things that keep us from making friends. Please watch this:

http://www.bobparsons.me/video/219/why-never-sweat-others-think-about.html

... it is fun, hilarious, and very helpful all at the same time.

Good luck, and I hope you find time to make an account here. Maybe you can spend some time helping others through this site. We would love to have you here.



In one of your recent answers to someone asking about water pills, you went on to say that Carbs turn to sugar, which turns to fat. I have heard this many times. But my nutrition textbook states that carbs don't make you fat, calories do. Are you aware of this? (link)
The user you addressed this to doesn't accept questions from unregistered users. If you would like to contact them, please go here:

http://www.advicenators.com/register.php

... and get started helping people today.

As for the calories Vs. carbs situation, I believe you are completely correct in that assumption. More and more research is showing that to be true in ways that the diet con-artists can't explain away to sell their "Miracle Diet of The Week!"

Would love to have you answering questions here if you feel up to it.


Should I get in I fight over a girl (love) cause I really like her she likes me and him she will date who ever wins the fight but I dont know how 2 fight I know the blocks how 2 punch etc I just can't hit hard enough

So should i fight?


And how 2 increase punching power I know how to block this fight may be tomorrow so????

(link)
My friend, this is a bad idea.

If you do this, and win, she will pick someone else after a while and get them to fight you, and then another.

The girl wants attention, and she is a control freak. Odds are, you won't listen to this, but if you do, your life will be much happier:

Don't have anything more to do with her.

She needs mental help. Well balanced people don't need this kind of attention.

Good luck, and I hope you see her for what she is before you get hurt.


my oovoo simpky isnt working properly. (going to try to make this as short) i dont beleive this is a big problem, but it is definitly interfering for me on oovoo, such as me video chatting with anyone. So all i can do is chat. and i really, really want to video chat, that is what it for. So i think it is my connection because it even will tell me (a little notice will pop up while im in the middle of chat) that the connection is lost. So time and time again i log out and log back in or even exit and enter it, or shut down and restart and nope nothing. So right now it's not possible for this to work. Which is why i need advice. And please no one say switch to skype or something..no...no lol evryone has oovoo and their system is working fine. So even for little time on chat a Vz will pop up (like saying lost connection, hence the "z") And so bottom line whenever i've tried to in the past or now no one can hear me or see me, and i cant hear them very well, so im almost positvie its my connection.Also simple videos on youtube have been kinda slow plus internet. Is it the connection? what should i do to fix it so i can video chat? this is my new laptop, and i really dont want to have it fixed at best buy. Also, i did the help and support check audio and video, and i could see myself, hear music, and record and hear my own voice. So i was confused when no one could hear me on oovoo or see me. Thanks for the help. (link)
Hi there,

ooVoo had a system outage the other day and nobody could connect. If you are still having a problem connection with oovoo, then please post a support request in the ooVoo forums here:

ooVoo Tech Support:

http://forum.oovoo.com/forums/29.aspx


Or are they confused? What can I do? My son thinks he is going to hell, I believe god loves us all. I don't know what verse in the bible will be helpful. Anything you have will help. (link)
Hi there,

I usually agree with another poster here, but I had to chime in and point something out to avoid confusing your son further. He already has quite enough on his plate just figuring out who he is, without being placed under Jewish law.

Are you religiously observant Jewish people? If not, then, as far as I know, each and every one of the scripture passages quoted there are without merit for your situation.

The passage from Mark, is taken completely out of context, in that Christ was being asked about a law that had been applied by certain Jewish sects. Their intention was to trip him up, thinking him to be someone easily bamboozled. If you read the rest of the passage, you will find that his answer to them was very enlightening.

I am familiar with the website she linked you to, and the reason I wanted to clarify a bit was to let you know that their treatment is not so heavy handed as to take things completely out of context and run with it.

Also, livehope.com, the link given by the other person who answered you, is the most tolerant of all the groups I have yet found that are both Christian and not 100% pro-homosexuality.

What I find most interesting about them is that they do one thing I have seen no place else: They strive to try and answer the question of WHY people have gender issues that leave them hating themselves in the first place.

There are many people in many places sexually and relationally. Some people are homosexual and are seeking a church that is open to them. For them, the link that the second user left you would be appropriate, to be sure.

Some people, however HATE that they are feeling attraction to their own sex, and while they may or may not want to change this in the end, the question that nobody seems to give them an honest, well researched answer to, is the simplest one: "Why, if I want NOTHING to do with my own gender, sexually, are these thoughts and feelings in my head against my will?"

The only answer they ever get is: "You are gay, roll with it!"

Well, that doesn't work for someone who isn't interested in sex with their own gender, nor has any interest in living the homosexual lifestyle, now does it?

From what you wrote, it sounds like your son might be in the second group. If so, please check out livehope.org for the following:

"Why? DVD: Understanding Homosexuality and Gender Developement in Males"

"Why? Understanding the Roots of Male Homosexuality and Gender Identity"

Both of which will prove fascinating, and can be found here:

https://livehope.org/products

Anyway, the idea of making decisions about sexuality before the brain is even fully developed, is something that should, perhaps, be avoided.

I have the benefit of seeing behind the scenes here, and the one recurring pattern is that most people who have posted things here, similar to what your son said go back and forth between sexual orientations several times.

We once had a user here who proudly proclaimed that she was 13 and a lesbian in a committed lesbian relationship. So militant was her stance, that she even offered to kill anyone who had anything negative to say about it...

... About 60 days later, the boy who rejected her, thereby "turning her into a lesbian" (not my words) decided that he liked her. Well, she is still here, years later, and expecting baby number two, living with the third guy since.

You see the thing that is amiss here, is once upon a time, we weren't called on to think about any of this at 13. I don't believe any of us are equipped to deal with any kind of sexual relationship, gay or straight, at that age, so why put stress on someone to label themselves?

I hate to break to your son, but nobody really knows who they are, completely, at 15. I sometimes wonder if I have begun to figure it out at 40!

Please encourage your son to check out the materials on livehope.org. They also have a support group for parents, as well as teens who are taking the time to work out who they are.

Something to remember: This is about what your son believes. If you are a Christian, and you are seriously interested in Christianity:

My understanding is as follows:

One: Heaven is God's party. He, and he alone, will be sending out passes to the party. Anyone claiming to know the state of anyone else's soul does so at their own peril.

There are groups out there that would say your son is A-OK for heaven, without knowing anything more about him than what you have written here, and there are other groups that are 100% certain he is going to hell... and neither group has any idea at ALL what they are talking about. It is up to God whom he accepts and rejects and what any of these groups say about it can only cause harm.

Two: The bible has a pretty fair list of the desired characteristics of guests that God will be inviting to the party in heaven.

Three: One cannot judge the hoped outcome of anything without paying careful attention to the rules that govern it.

Hence: If you are playing pingpong in the Olympics, you wouldn't say that a foul is whatever you feel should be one at the moment.

When playing basketball, you don't get to just make up the number of points a basket is worth because you want it that way.

In that same line of thought: If you want to "win" at Christianity, you have to play by the rules. You don't get to make them up, and you don't get to say: "God loves everyone forever no matter what, and so everyone is going to heaven."

So, what are the rules? Well, that would be the teachings of Christ.

If you want to be a religiously observant Jew, then by all means, the scriptures the other user pointed you to are quiet correct, although still out of context, but if you, or in this case your son, want to "win" at Christianity, then people shouldn't encourage you to play by someone else's rulebook.

In all of this, I would ask you to remember one more thing: He is your son. He has come to you for guidance. be careful which way you encourage him from this point on. Whatever the result, it is on your head for the advice you will be giving him now.

I wish you all the best in this.


how do make a black eye go away? (link)
Please ask questions to the public only once.

These have to be approved, and asking over and over only slows that process down. :-)

Questions are also answered in the order they were asked. So, see if there is anything on the right side column that you are able to answer well. That will move your question one step closer to appearing there.

Thank you, and welcome to the site!


How do I get rid of a black eye? (link)
Please ask questions to the public only once.

These have to be approved, and asking over and over only slows that process down. :-)

Questions are also answered in the order they were asked. So, see if there is anything on the right side column that you are able to answer well. That will move your question one step closer to appearing there.

Thank you, and welcome to the site!


i was reading about how you said brown blood is at the end of the cycle. i just started mine ad it was brown do u have any idea why i started with brown blood (link)
Hi there,

The person that you sent this to, doesn't let people write them unless they have an account here. Please go here:

http://www.advicenators.com/register.php

... and create a free account.


I recently searched my name and found that your site came up on Google on this 'advicenators' website, where I had once posted as a child. Frankly, this is an enormous embarrassment, as anyone who searches my name can see it. I would like my name removed ASAP. Please do this favor for me to spare me the future embarrassment.
Thanks so much,

my email is chocolate_lover_101@yahoo.com (link)
Hi there,

Please supply the username of the account.

Thank you.


hey guys.
SO, today! i had an audition workshop! i was MEGA nervous. ive been wanting to act all my life,, and finally started doing something about it. BUT when i walked in everyone was 20...25...30.. and im 16! so it was a little intimidating. and so was my teacher!! he didnt really explain well.. basically he wasnt that good. i didnt really enjoy my time there. i felt like it was making me feel literally sick the whole time and i just wanted to go home. being there just made me feel dumb. they say mondays and wednesdays 6 to 9 we have to be there and just proceed with the lesson. I DONT KNOW if i should go? ive always wanted to act..but that i didnt like.. i dont know what to do, it was really bad for me. i felt useless being there.. (link)
Being nervous is a natural thing... staying nervous is a problem. With that in mind, I would go to a few more of these so you can truly know if you are just nervous or in WAY over your head.

If this is your very first acting class, then there is a reason you are feeling sick. Audition classes are for people who have some experience and know their trade-craft backwards and forwards... If that isn't you, then step back and be honest with yourself.

Don't quit... just find a class that is more in line with your current skill set.

If you have already had 3-5 years of acting classes then you might be in the right place, and are just nervous.

As they say: Break a leg! (If you didn't know, that is sort of "Good Luck" among stage people.)

Hope you do well, whatever you end up doing.


Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom? (link)
Hi there,

Before I get into my thoughts on the matter, let me take a second to say THANK YOU for being so considerate of your daughter's feelings in all of this as well as the feelings of your ex. This is very commendable.

Now, as tempting as it is at this point to want to give your daughter some decision making power here, you simply MUST do the hard thing and, as kindly as you can, explain to your daughter that it would be a bad idea for her to live her mom.

May I humbly suggest that counseling wouldn't hurt here? Your daughter has been put through the wringer by her mother, who, apparently, will say anything to make herself feel better about what she has done with her life.

I have seen this play out many times over, and because each parent has something different to say, the child is confused about everything. This usually ends up making them feel extremely insecure about everything in their life. If you don't do something to help with those feelings of insecurity, well, they will usually lead to very bad places that you wouldn't want your child ending up in.

A third party can help a lot. A trusted party, with the child's best interest at heart. If you have a pastor that you trust, that might be a good starting place.

Before I forget: No matter WHAT else you do, try not to vilify the mother when talking with your child. When she is old enough, this should all be really obvious to her... but for now, she needs one parent who isn't a vengeful lunatic who will say mean things about the other. Let that parent be you.

As for your ex-wife not wanting the new wife to parent the children she abandoned... Well isn't that just tough? You walk away from your kids... it is over. You don't get to parent them anymore, and you have ZERO say in who else might do the parenting you ran away from.

That brings something to mind: The fact that she is saying all these vile things about you and your new wife is absolute and irrefutable proof that she doesn't have her child's best interest at heart. She is manipulating her child to get what her to do what she (your ex) wants from life.

For me, that settles it. See if you can get your daughter some counseling if she can't see what her mother is doing. Left unresolved, these feelings her mother has made in her will hurt her all through her life.

I wish you the best.


io vorrei sapere con che colore si abbina meglio il blu??? (link)
In English please?


Let me first start by giving you a little back ground information. My ex wife became pregnant when she was 20 and I was 19. Even though it was earlier than we both expected to become parents, we were thrilled and so excited to start our family together. We got married shortly after she gave birth to our son Matt. Soon after that, we had another son, and then a daughter. From my perspective, everything was great. That's why I was so blindsided when my wife came to me 9 months after our daughter was born claiming she wasn't ready to settle down and be a mother with divorce papers in her hand. Almost overnight, I became a 23 year old single father with a 4 year old, 2 year old, and a 9 month old. After the divorce was final, I rarely heard from my ex wife. She had begun living a life that I didn't necessarily approve of filled with drugs and alcohol and, while I wanted to keep my children as far away from that as possible, she was their mother and I didn’t feel like I could entirely keep them away from her. The last straw, however, came when I let my daughter, Alyssa, (who was 6 at the time) stay with her when I took my sons on a hunting trip. I was supposed to pick her up at noon the Sunday we got back. I spent the entire afternoon calling my ex wife’s apartment with no answer. At 5 that afternoon, I finally just went over to her house where I found her front door wide open and her passed out on the couch from mixing a few too many drugs with alcohol. Her neighbor came over to the apartment and told me that my ex wife had taken Alyssa out one night and come home completely plastered. Thank god her neighbor had woken up and decided to take Alyssa back to her apartment. And this is just one example of many. After that, I told my ex wide that I didn’t want her to see our kids anymore which devastated her so much she entered rehab. She got clean and for the past ten years has seen the kids a few times despite my hesitance. My kids and I have been living a great life together away from my ex wife. A few years ago I began dating another woman whom I am now engaged too. She gets along great with my kids and is an amazing person who I know will be a good influence on my kids’ lives. My oldest son Matt is now in college, but Colton (my middle son) and Alyssa still live with me. Since I have become engaged, my ex wife has become crazy about spending time with the two of them. She wants them at her house every weekend and doesn’t want my fiancé to parent them at all. She is trying to tell my daughter all kinds of lies about why she left, and how I am a horrible person for trying to keep them from seeing her. She tells her that the entire thing was my fault and all kinds of horrible rumors about my fiancé, who went to high school with my ex wife. She has asked both of my kids to move in with her. Colton told her absolutely not, but Alyssa is confused about the whole situation and doesn’t know what she should do. I have full custody of them so essentially it is my choice about whether or not she can see them. I don’t want to take them away from my ex wife, but I don’t want to lose them myself. I am still worried that she will resort back to her old ways and put my kids in danger like she has their whole lives. Am I right to not let my daughter move in with her mom? (link)
This is a duplicate question. You will find the copy with answers here:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=589761


I wish I had your life. You have a husband at home who has stayed with you and your sons through the hardest of times. When you have a loving partner, you can achieve anything. I was with my partner for over 5 years and found out last summer that she had been cheating on me for nearly a year with a mutual friend of ours. It is now 5 months later and I cannot bring myself to heal from this. The visions of her touching someone else, of my friends laughing behind my back as everyone knew but me.. it tears me up everyday. I do not want to live any longer. She was my everything! I loved her more than I loved anyone else in this world and the only comforting thoughts that go through my head are those of ending my life. (link)
This is usually a form letter about how you need to have an account to write the person you meant this for, but please see my story below. The person you meant this for doesn't allow unregistered users to write them directly.

Please consider creating an account:

http://www.advicenators.com/register.php

... and asking them as well as the whole site about your dilemma.

I can tell you this much: My wife of almost a decade left without a word, just 3 days before our 10th wedding anniversary.

Almost 4 years later, and there has never been a word from her. If it weren't for her mother, I never would have known what happened. As far as I understand, she moved across country to live with a guy she had been playing World of Warcraft with for a long time.

She left a crazy 6 page letter in an e-mail. It was so crazy that the police thought, as I did, that she had had a psychotic break.

Turns out, after talking to her mother, that each and every word of that letter was a lie. She made it all up.

There were some VERY hard times after this unfolded, and I very much sympathize with your feelings.

Here is what I can tell you from my experience:

It feels like the pain will never go away, but it will.

I don't know if the wounds ever completely go away. There are days that this effects me VERY deeply. Someone else in my life will do something that she used to do, and it will bring some of the feelings back.

As time goes by, it DOES get better. I promise that this worked that way for me.

You MUST have someone to talk with about this. You MUST. No exceptions.

One of the people on this site helped me more than she will ever know.

Now, please don't give in to the feeling you have about hurting yourself. As much as it feels like it is the only solution, it really isn't.

In the VERY near future, you will be looking back on your current state of mind, and you won't believe that you even considered this.

Here is the part that you aren't going to believe right now:

You probably feel like nobody in the world can understand what you are feeling.

That isn't true. Myself, and MANY other people know what you are feeling right now.

If you want to talk to someone right this second:

1-800-273-8255

... please call and talk. It is anonymous, and my new friend, no matter what, you need to talk this out.

It takes a long time, and someone with a patient ear.

If you would like to talk more with me about this, then please drop a note in my inbox with a better way to reach you. E-mail, skype, phone, or anything else that works for you.

You will feel better. It is awful right now, but soon you will see things about this you never knew before, and it will help.

Please call that number, and write me again.


Ever since I could remember, I've had cold sores on my lips. They come and they go. I don't get them alot, usually just in the winter. Well, I had one on the right side of my lips, and my boyfriend who is still a virgin* I gave him headd, well later that night, he called me and told me he had something that looked like a hickey on his shaft, and another one right under his head; but it had a rough texture too it. He said it hurt him to touch it, and to even pee. Did my cold sore do this?

Btw, now after we kissed, he has three cold sores on his bottom lip, and three lie bumps on the tip of his tongue. Is this from me too? Or is it because he had strep throat? My cold sore is completely gone. But I read someone elses post, and they had a smiliar problem, and they said she had a std?

I've had sex with two guys; One was a virgin, and the other one had sex with two girls before me. I gave them both head; but I haven't experienced any signs of STD's. (link)
Hi there,

Cold sores are 100% for sure a type of herpes. The next part is hard to explain... They aren't CALLED genital herpes, because that is the name of another kind of herpes, but if you have one on your face and you put your face on someone's genitals, as you have done here, then you may have given that person the herpes version that was on your face.

Anyone who tells you cold sores aren't herpes outbreaks is an idiot. I once met a doctor who didn't know this simple fact. How sad is that?

Anyway here is a quote from WebMD:

"What causes cold sores?
Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV). There are two types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1 and HSV-2. Both virus types can cause lip and mouth sores and genital herpes."

Please go here and read more that will help you:

http://www.webmd.com/skin-problems-and-treatments/tc/cold-sores-topic-overview

As for your boyfriend, he needs to get tested. The best time to get tested is during an outbreak where they can swap the actual sore.

Oh, and here is something you should think about:

If you put herpes on his penis, then you put his penis in you (condoms don't help much with herpes) then you put herpes in your own vagina. Sores on the vagina would really be awful, right?

How important is it for him to get tested? Well, this thing is for life. If you two ever break up, he will likely infect every woman he ever has sex with.

Both forms of herpes are considered sexually transmitted, by the way, and if you don't believe this, well, there is a reason they test you for both when they do standard STD testing.

I hope, for both of your sakes, that you haven't passed this nasty disease to his genitals. I also hope that he didn't in turn pass it to your genitals.

Good luck, and please let me know how the tests come back when you leave feedback.


hello!
I am doing an assignment about a rehabilitation plaan i want to use these sit ups that are sit ups and scissor kicks at the same time however i have no idea what they are called! i have a video of it... it is the clip at 0.06-0.07
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Please re-ask this with a proper link.

Why on earth did you break the link?


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